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March 23rd 2026

The {Farmer} & The Florist Interview: 3 Porch Farm

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Our longtime flower farming friends Mandy and Steve O’Shea run 3 Porch Farm in Comer, Georgia, a tiny town in the northern part of the state. During the spring and autumn months, they ship thousands of organic bouquets and flower bunches all over the country, along with heirloom chrysanthemum plants, seeds, and other farm-grown treasures.

In addition to being incredibly talented growers, they are both generous with their knowledge and share their experience freely. The way they conduct their business has long been an inspiration to me and Chris, and we consider them the gold standard of what living in alignment with your beliefs looks like. They are the real deal! 

I’m thrilled to share this wonderful interview with Steve—it is one of my all-time favorites we’ve ever published here on the blog. It’s filled with beautiful stories, hard-earned wisdom, and solid advice, and will make you both laugh and get a little teary-eyed. 

It’s a long one, so give yourself some time to really soak it in. Enjoy!

Steve, your business has evolved so much over the years. Can you walk me through where you started, the different roads you’ve taken, where you are now, and what you dream about in the years to come?  

We started similar to most market farms in that we did a little of everything: veggies, fruit, mushrooms, honey, preserves, flowers, design work, etc.

Mandy had a keen eye and knew that branding and presentation were as important as quality and integrity, so she collaborated with a designer before we even broke ground. She also stimulated our efforts to immediately add value to our perishable crops. We were quickly known as the strawberry people and the popsicle people. We made popsicles, with the only ingredients being our organic fruit and honey from our bees. It was a big hit at markets. We were famous with toddlers!

The transition to all flowers was a big leap because flowers didn’t really sell at our markets. Everyone had mason jar bouquets priced cheaply, and everyone went home with half of them unsold. We took a risk and dove in headfirst with dahlias, and something switched in the collective brains of our town’s customers when they saw a full booth of these beautiful flowers not traditionally found in the South. They gobbled them up. That was all the affirmation we needed. We dove headfirst from there and quickly expanded into Atlanta and Marietta markets.

We went down the design path for a while, and Mandy was getting quite a bit of attention for her work for a few years, but ultimately she decided that the farm was where she’d rather be. 

Years later, we transitioned away from farmers markets and into the domestic shipping arena, which had seriously lacked any sustainable options. We now provide that option for designers and gift givers who’d like sustainably grown and super-fresh flowers delivered with carbon offsets, priority overnight, from our door to theirs. Our facilities are powered by solar panels and all of our packaging is compostable and recyclable.

When we expanded into shipping plants a few years later, we utilized the same sustainable practices for their shipping as well. To stay connected to the local community, we also opened a seasonal farm store when we exited farmers markets, so we can get flowers to our local customers. It also allows us to feature products, artists, and businesses that we’d like to share with the world. It’s a dreamy little place filled with all sorts of warm, fuzzy vibes.

These days, we feel more adept at observing ourselves, our staff, our land, and our market and doing our best to be nimble and adaptive based on where all those things collectively point us. We try to keep it interesting, ethically grounded, and improving qualitatively as much as quantitatively.

The dream for the years to come is to ease back on the throttle a bit. Time is flying by. We need to infuse some more good times into our remaining time. 

3 Porch Farm’s mission says “Be happy by doing good,” and you’ve built a remarkably sustainable operation—carbon neutral, solar powered, recyclable and biodegradable packaging, vehicles (and chainsaws!) running on recycled vegetable oil. What does it take behind the scenes to maintain that level of commitment, and how do you keep those values at the center of all you do? 

We always say that we’re trying to create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in. We sure wish the world was a kinder place. We wish corporations prioritized the well-being of their employees, their communities, and natural resources above profit, but that’s not the way of the market. All we can truly impact is what and who our lives actually touch, and businesses have significantly greater impact than individuals, so we’re doing our best to make the most of that opportunity.

Truly, though, it’s gotten a lot easier now that we’ve left markets and I don’t have five large vehicles running all over the state on vegetable oil. The vehicle conversions, maintenance, repair, and fuel collection and processing, as well as the construction, maintenance, and repairs of the processing facility itself, were all enough work to be a job of its own. Not to mention all of the solar installations I was doing in the first decade.   

Now, we hardly leave the farm, and when we do, most of our trips are in an electric vehicle powered by excess production from our solar panels. We’ve still got a truck and van that run on recycled veggie oil, but rarely drive them anymore.

What might be viewed as martyrdom or fiscally ill-advised in the short view has turned out to be not only ethically rewarding, but also economically rewarding in the long run. We have an intensely appreciative and loyal customer base as a result of our efforts to put principles before profits, so even from a numbers perspective, it’s been worth the extra effort to try and be as responsible in all practices as possible.   

You’ve been growing organically from the start. What would you tell someone who’s trying to transition their garden to more environmentally friendly practices? Is there a misconception people have about organic growing that you encounter most often?

Gardening organically is a more mindful practice that invites you to be a part of the garden habitat, as opposed to operating as an outsider. The conventional approach is to inject fertilizer to pump up plants and to use synthetic chemicals to kill weeds and bugs with a somewhat nuclear approach.

It has the desired effects on the surface and in the short term, but it also kills the beneficial microorganisms in the soil and the pollinators and beneficial predators in the insect world. Basically, you kill your natural assistants … and that’s to say nothing of the more significant health consequences of using long-lasting synthetic chemicals in your garden.

The organic approach is about maintaining a degree of harmony in the immediate habitat. Instead of killing soil microorganisms, you’re feeding them. They, in turn, feed your plants. The benefits of that with food are very noticeable in the flavors. You’re also maintaining a degree of balance with pests. In addition to gentler sprays, you rely a lot on predacious insects that are already in the environment to help with your pest control.

Pests aren’t erased entirely with this approach, but that’s okay. The goal isn’t to delete anything completely from the environment, but rather to attempt a dynamic equilibrium of sorts. It’s more about minimizing outbreaks by maintaining healthy populations of predators. This allows the pollinators to thrive, and they are, of course, crucial to our whole way of life on earth.

So it’s a change in philosophy, from point and shoot to observe and adapt. It’s not easy, but it grounds you more in nature and its rhythms, and that process of becoming more attuned is a wonderful pathway toward a more connected and meaningful life. It’s what all of our ancestors did as far back as gardeners go. It’s a beautiful way to connect with all of that. I highly recommend it. 

You often talk about your “small but mighty team” as extended family, and it really feels that way from the outside looking in. One of the questions we get most from our farming workshop students is how to build a great team. What have you learned about creating that kind of culture, and what advice would you give to people just starting to hire? 

It really falls under our overarching approach of trying to create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in. It’s admittedly a complicated situation when dealing with all sorts of people from all kinds of backgrounds and having a clear hierarchy involved due to experience, required roles, and necessity, but our two main goals are to (1) give clear guidance and instructions, while remaining receptive to and even grateful for feedback, and (2) create a culture of kindness, individual empowerment, harmonious teamwork, and mutual respect.

Of course accountability is a critical component, and hiring appropriately matters, but we’re constantly learning how to better shape people into effective teammates while also setting the framework for kindness at the workplace. We live here. We want to live somewhere devoid of friction, where all people in our midst are treated with kindness as much as possible.

Frustrations inevitably arise, but you can’t take your frustrations out on your crew. You can’t ever expect them to know what you know, or even to know anything about what you’re going through as an overwhelmed business owner. Instructions and guidance need to be clear and meticulous. When you get frustrated, take a step back and honestly review what you might have done better in your training instead of generating frustration toward your team. A respected, appreciated, and well-informed employee is going to do a lot more for your farm than one who feels exploited, confused, or unappreciated.

Not everyone is going to be a good fit for the job, but it’s also really easy to write someone off too early. Learning to see the difference is important and is an acquired skill set. 

I know growing flowers in Georgia comes with its own set of challenges—the summer heat and humidity, winter freezes, and unpredictable weather. For those in the Southeast or similar growing zones, how do you work with your climate, and where do you have to get creative or adjust expectations?  

Every climate has its challenges. We are fortunate to not have the intense snow loads that our friends up north have. The heat and humidity here are real though. Heat stress is incredibly intense, and it’s not for everyone. You have to have some tenacity to get through those brutal summer days in the fields. As we’ve aged and developed infrastructure and a new business model, we’ve done all we can to protect our employees and ourselves against the extremes of weather.

Summer is now our downtime. Employees work in the cooler mornings and spend hot hours in climate-controlled locations or go home early. Vacations are in the summer. That was impossible during the early stages of the farm. It became something we curated over time, and I can hardly believe we survived regular 15-hour days every day in the summers of our earlier years. I couldn’t do it now if I had to.

So the short answer is that you have to plow through it and take your licks up front in order to get a farm established, but the wise move is to find a way to blunt the sharpest edges of those realities however you can as your farm grows. That’s going to look different from one farm to the next, so remain as perceptive and flexible as you can while your farm grows. Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well. 

In 2020, you started shipping plants, seeds, and fresh cut blooms across the country, and now your shop includes everything from seed packets to hellebore starts to chrysanthemum cuttings to dahlia tubers to an incredible range of cut flowers like Iceland poppies, anemones, ranunculus, and mums. What led you to take that leap, and what has the experience been like?

That was a big one. Mandy’s dad, Tony, who was just the best person you could ever imagine, had an emergency surgery removing part of his lung due to an unexpected cancer diagnosis, right as lockdown for Covid started. They sent him home and told us that if he was exposed to the illness he would die, and to not bring him back to the hospital. Mandy, who had spent the last decade working 90-hour weeks year-round, all of a sudden was gone from the farm. The hospital visit went from an afternoon appointment to her not returning home for months. She became his live-in nurse, cared for him day and night, removed his stitches … everything. It was wild to see how quickly our priorities shifted from “the farm is everything” to “the farm is secondary.”

We couldn’t expose him, so we couldn’t do markets, which had been our lives for a decade. Our staff was scared, and we couldn’t ask them to do what we wouldn’t, so we gave them all paid time off and stopped markets entirely.

We were in debt from winter investments, had tunnels absolutely full of flowers, tens of thousands of garden starts for our massive annual plant sale (canceled due to lockdown), had no active employees, and no farmers markets anymore. We went from seven full-time and nine part-time employees to just me and a farm full of highly perishable products.

Swimming in all kinds of panic, I called Mandy from the now hauntingly silent farm and suggested I could try and ship flowers in some boxes we had in storage. It was a hail Mary, and we had nothing to lose and everything to lose.

On board with the idea, she frantically put together a website and we ran ourselves ragged for the next few months creating a flower-shipping business. I don’t think she slept at all between caring for her dad, working with app designers and web developers, posting about the new shipping options, and responding to customer DMs and emails, etc. Her hair began to gray and she got really thin. I too lost about 30 pounds, and I was already pretty thin to start. Lucky for me, I couldn’t go gray, because I was already bald!

It was beautiful to see a woman, so driven in every fiber of her being to build this lifelong dream of having a farm, willing to give it all up in a literal moment’s notice in order to take care of someone she loved. It was a selflessness of extreme depth. I wanted to support that and give her that space to love and help her parents, and to be able to support them myself by taking the burden of the farm off of her.

If possible, though, I also wanted to work so hard that it didn’t have to be an either/or. To make it so we could save the farm, to provide her with the space to help her dad heal, to make sure our employees had jobs to come back to, and to weather the storm as resiliently as possible. Every waking moment was a meditation in digging deep, finding the right volition, and plunging forward with that as my fuel.

I’d work from 7:00 a.m. until midnight. Running from the tunnels to the fields, harvesting poppies, ranunculus, tulips, daffodils, anemones, hellebores, and snaps. Watering, bundling, printing labels, packaging, running full boxes across the farm eight at a time, trying to do up to 90 orders a day. Loading up FedEx, then running back to the studio to bundle flowers all night for the next day’s shipments. I did not walk that whole time. Every step taken was running. Adrenaline and a heightened sense of urgency and responsibility fueled every action.

Eventually, some staff returned in limited and isolated roles, freeing me from some harvests and plant care and emails and allowing me to focus more on the bundling, packaging, and shipping, as well as creating a remote setup for a plant sale pickup in order to move some plants that we were now selling online. We eventually turned that space into our farm store. 

It was a massive crash course in rapid transition and resilience. In an instant, we upended a decade-long business that was firmly established in face-to-face contact with all customers to one that was 100 percent based on digital purchases. 

When the dust settled and some semblance of normalcy returned, we found that there was so much beauty to our new business model that we hadn’t anticipated. 

First, we were no longer competing with other organic local growers. We were now competing with the worst polluters in the industry. 

We may have been the most sustainable flower farm in our area due to our fuel and energy practices, but ultimately we were just outcompeting other small, local, organic growers. When we stepped out of farmers markets, we saw countless veggie farms expand into flowers and take all the market share we once held. They were flourishing in ways they hadn’t been able to before, and that felt really good.

Conversely, any market share we take now is from international growers who rely on the most carbon-intensive and pesticide-heavy practices possible, often exploitative of vulnerable labor forces.

We’re a drop in the bucket, but the net positive of our farm’s impact increased significantly when we got out of local markets and became the greenest option available for shipped flowers in 47 states.

Another benefit is that we no longer lose a massive amount of product. Farmers markets require you to have a full booth of flowers for pretty much the whole year. Much of that time, you don’t sell 20 to 30 percent of what you bring. Festivals, storms, parades, and sporting events can all make that loss even higher. So no matter how good a growing season you had, you are still losing a significant chunk of your already tiny margins due to that fact. In the best year, it’s hard to find much left to pay yourself with.

Not only are margins improved with our newer approach, but we’re also more flexible seasonally. We no longer have to grow summer flowers, which for us were never profitable. Summer flowers in Georgia are easier to grow, therefore they are cheaper, and therefore there’s no profit in them. 

As a market grower, you need to maintain your booth at a market, so you have to come big, even if it is all a wash. The whole summer season was really just an exhausting placeholder for us. Now that we don’t need to maintain a booth at three markets, we’ve stopped growing summer flowers. We use that time to tend more valuable fall crops, build and repair infrastructure, catch up on admin, and give ourselves and our crew time to rest and rejuvenate.

It’s been a game changer that has allowed us to increase wages and bonuses for our crew and to add an element of self-care to our own lives. We feel more human. It was a very unexpected silver lining to an extremely challenging time. 

You’ve helped to revive interest in heirloom chrysanthemums and noted that when you started, they were almost a punchline. Now people have discovered “that the right ones are truly stunning and a great addition to the farm and garden.” I grow more in love with these flowers each year and am so grateful for the beauty they provide in the late autumn. What drew you to champion chrysanthemums, and what do you think more people should know about them? Do you have a few favorite varieties? 

Quite literally, you were a big reason for us getting involved in mums. In the early days of our farm, Floret and Jennie Love were active on social media and in print, talking up the attributes of heirloom chrysanthemums. Being in farmers markets that went all the way through December, we desperately needed something to sell in November and December, and mums became that staple product that grew late in the season, stored forever in a cooler, maintained 3 weeks in a vase, and had colors that evoked autumn in November and others that could pair well with evergreens to make holiday arrangements in December. They really got us through tough times.

The more time passed, the more we ran through countless varieties and discovered which ones were most productive, had strong stems, had long stems, were great focal or accent flowers, held up well in a vase, and just all around were ideal for use as a cut flower. So many that we tried looked good in a catalog or online, but didn’t translate well as a cut flower in real life. After weeding through all those varieties for more than a decade, our enthusiasm for the varieties we loved was significant, and Mandy often shared her affection for them via socials.

We began being inundated by requests from other growers for access to these varieties. The mum cutting market for so long was mainly just one company that seemed perpetually sold out. Growers were desperate for other resources and kept asking us if we could help.

So, we decided that was as clear a sign as any and began to build our program and systems for rooting out and shipping cuttings of all our favorite varieties to other growers. It’s been a really fun evolution on our farm. It’s also been fun to come full circle and actually get to send mums back to Floret, 14 or so years after you introduced us to them. 

A few of Mandy’s favorites are ‘Vesuvio’, ‘River City’ (pictured above, middle), ‘Saffina’, and ‘Seaton’s Coffee’ (pictured above, bottom). 

You bred a unique and stunning Chinese forget-me-not named ‘Ms. Marilyn’. It has a beautiful story that I’d love to have you share here. Did you enjoy the breeding process, and do you think there will ever be more 3 Porch Farm varieties to share with the world? 

Ms. Marilyn was my dad’s first cousin, but she felt more like your favorite aunt. The fun, cool aunt you wanted at the party. An Irish woman with all the charm and good nature that good island is known for, she lit up every room she was in and made everyone feel like they were her favorite person. She married Mandy and me under a beautiful oak tree on the top of a tall hill, deep in the Mendocino woods, overlooking hundreds of acres of woodlands, surrounded by our loved ones.

When she passed, years later, her husband shared flower seeds with everyone at the service. Mandy planted them back at the farm and noticed a rare and beautiful lavender flower amid all the more common blue-colored forget-me-nots. The symbolism of that one flower’s unique charms potentially being carried on and shared in perpetuity struck Mandy, and she began a 5-year process of selecting for that lavender flower until it bred completely true. It was such a beautiful way to honor a beautiful person.

Marilyn, being a San Francisco–raised daughter of Irish immigrants, upon first introduction was immediately charmed by Mandy and her Southern habit of referring to familiar adults by adding Ms. (miss) to their first name. Somehow a blend of formality and respect with familiarity and warmth. Marilyn loved it. When we asked her husband Tom what he’d like to name the new flower, he immediately said “Ms. Marilyn,” in honor of the bond she shared with Mandy.

We are delighted to have Marilyn dancing and laughing and just generally bringing good cheer in gardens across the U.S. and even in the U.K. My cousins in Ireland have her in their gardens now too, and because of Floret, an English grower now sells her seeds to gardeners across the pond. We couldn’t think of a better and more appropriate way for her good name to carry on in this world.

She also gave us some gifts in this process as well. One unexpected gift was that I was asked to play guitar and sing at her service, which I had foregone for over a decade to focus on farming. Not wanting to do a disservice, I practiced and practiced, and it rekindled an old relationship with music that I’m really grateful for. That refound hobby, once abandoned for farming, now gives me a welcome retreat from the work of the farm, which in turn builds me back up in a way that helps me recommit to our daily work out here.

The second gift was that it nudged us into thinking more about breeding and selecting for new flower varieties, and those inclinations have continued to grow over the last few years.

So, to your last question, yes … we are excited to say that we do have some projects in the works that we’re eager to unveil over the next few years. Working with flowers is a gift in many ways, but developing new varieties of flowers introduces a whole new excitement and giddiness I hadn’t anticipated.

The beginning stage can at times be a bit like playing a slot machine, where you are hoping for something and you pull the lever and wait to see what combination arrives … but instead of 5 seconds, you have to wait a whole year. It makes the eventual unfurling of petals so enthralling. That, followed by the deliberate and fastidious steps required to inch your way, day by day, year by year, to an “end goal” that is the manifestation of a true collaboration between you, a flower, the sun, the rain, and a bee or fly … it’s really a beautiful and quite magical thing.

This past fall, you traveled to Holland with a group of flower farmers to visit the Royal FloraHolland flower auction and some of the largest flower growers, breeders, seed producers, and brokers in the world. What were some of the highlights and biggest takeaways from that trip? 

Wow! It was unbelievable, and I don’t think I could even process all that I was seeing in the moment. Being so immersed in the world of small farms for 20 years, your mind develops a very clear understanding of what farming is. To be transported into the operations in Holland was really like being teleported to another universe, where everything is completely different, yet some threads are oddly familiar. It felt sci-fi. Like if the Jetsons ran the flower industry.

As for takeaways, they may have been more subtle or existential. I don’t see visions of robot workers as the future of our farm at any point. It was fun to see what exists out there. We couldn’t have begun to imagine the reality of the scale of Holland’s auction houses and the mind-blowingly elaborate and complex mechanized and human-powered systems they have developed over the generations.

We loved the opportunity to see it, to be with other growers, to spend time with our friends at Farmer Bailey, and to catch little glimpses of things that might inform our approach to this or that in some way. Mandy thought it was cool to see that, amid all the lasers and AI, there were still some very analog processes, particularly in the seed-cleaning and testing facilities. It also made an impression to see, from seed to vase, just how much energy and transportation happens in the greater flower industry. Those things go all over the place. They travel more in their short lives than most humans do in their whole lives. That made us realize even more how special the domestic, small-scale flower farmer phenomenon (thanks in no small part to Floret) truly is. It also made us want to save our own seed and breed our own varieties even more. We love being a small business. We love being one of many. There’s strength in that. Collective resilience. 

I’m always happy to see your newsletter, “Notes From the Farm,” in my inbox, and I often cite it as an example of how newsletters should be done. You somehow strike a balance between sharing from the heart, letting people know what you’re offering, giving helpful growing information, and keeping it personal rather than promotional. How do you approach that writing, and where does that storytelling instinct come from?  

That’s a very kind assessment, thank you. Mandy told our story brilliantly and honestly for years on Instagram. I was always amazed and impressed with how well she shared both the beauty and the reality of our life out here on the farm. The demands of that storytelling were life-stunting though. Way too much time devoted to Instagram and Facebook, and as the algorithms neutered the effects more and more, it started to be a trade-off that was too hard to justify.

She eventually asked if I could take on that task of outreach through a newsletter, to free her up to focus more on farming instead of posting about farming. It’s a lot faster for me to take an hour to write a weekly newsletter than it is for her to post images and videos, and thumb-type a bunch of stories all week, and try to keep up with all the social activity that follows all day and night … and still try to work 80-hour weeks on top of that … and find time to eat and sleep. A newsletter is more effective and more efficient, so it made sense to switch focus and put our energy there.

Now that I’m the one babbling, my intent as the teller is basically just to try and find something worth sharing and attempt to be generous in the telling. I’m pretty “heart on sleeve,” and the goal is to share a clear window into the heart of a farm and a farmer, so I write without much forethought or self-editing and try to cultivate something approaching stream of consciousness.

It’s rife with grammatical imperfections, but if it’s either helpful or amusing in some way, I don’t really care if the form is tip-top. Sometimes it works better than others. Sometimes the well is just dry.

The newsletter only goes to people who truly care about what we’re doing for some reason or other, so I try to speak to who I think is out there. I try to share info with other growers, stories about my/our experience on the farm, both positive and negative, random observations, cool things in the local community or in the online community, provide info about what’s coming for folks who want first access to new products, and give at least as much as I hope to get.

A newsletter, though a marketing strategy, can’t be a blatant attempt to beg for sales constantly or it’s a turnoff. It’s like any other relationship. It has to go both ways for it to be successful. 

You’ve been farming long enough to have accumulated plenty of wisdom, even if you’re not quite the “old guard” yet. What do you wish someone had told you when you were just starting out? And what advice would you share with growers who are further along but feeling the pull to shift direction or try something new?  

I don’t know what anyone could have told us … at least that we would’ve listened to. People told us all kinds of stuff we ignored. Some for better, some for worse.

Trying to build a successful small farm from scratch is a massive undertaking. The process requires a lot of resilience and repeatedly humbles you. You almost need an unrealistic belief in your ability to be successful in order to get started, because a realistic understanding of the challenges would be enough to prevent most people from ever trying. The same can be said about a lot of life’s most valuable experiences though.

We kind of had to explore the boundaries of our own stubbornness to discover which expectations were unrealistic and to learn how to adapt to an ever-changing world. We also had to learn our land and learn the unique market we were in extremely well to be able to discern where our angles were. That takes time and experience.

If we would have had a ton of money, land, and help when we started, I don’t think we’d have done as well in developing this farm as we did coming from a place of scarcity. Your limitations in resources can actually be helpful. So many of our best decisions were pivots in response to obstacles that seemed devastating at first glance. Those obstacles can be your best teachers if you let them.

The best advice I’d give to the folks coming up behind us is to develop a practice of self-awareness at the personal level and at the business level. If you can’t ground yourself, you can’t ground your business. If you can’t see the terrain clearly, you can’t effectively navigate toward your goals.

Take time to recalibrate the goals of your business every season and definitely every year. Blindly running in the same direction without stopping to breathe and reevaluate where you’re going and why you are going there won’t give the results you’re hoping for.

Recalibrate your personal goals, assess your individual strengths, revisit the big “Why” of it all, then rebuild the business outward from there. We do it every year.

This is such great advice. Steve, thank you so much for sharing your hard-earned wisdom and for being such a wonderful role model for the flower farming community.

Spring has arrived in Georgia, and 3 Porch Farm is in full, rolling bloom. Mandy and Steve have generously offered to ship a glorious bundle of their Iceland poppies to three lucky blog readers! For a chance to win, leave a comment telling us your favorite part of the interview. Winners will be announced on March 31. (Please note that, due to Department of Agriculture rules, poppies cannot be shipped to California, Hawaii, or Alaska, but winners from those states can choose to ship flowers to a loved one in another state.) 

Update: A big congratulations to our winners Joy Deffinbaugh, Virginia Levie and Jen Ihrig!

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727 Comments

  1. Linda Hovgaard on

    I’m not commenting to enter the contest – it has ended. I’m commenting because I agree with Erin. This is one of the best interviews I’ve ever read! Even though it might be specific to having a flower business I love that Mandy and Steve’s business expertise can cross over into any business. Very wise words of wisdom. Many parts of this interview tugged at my heartstrings….Mandy taking care of her father, Steve supporting her by taking care of the farm, all the stories and how they dealt with life…..beautiful read that really touches my heart! The interview really speaks to how change is inevitable and learning to recognize and navigate with change is so crucial. And sometimes life throws tough things at you that make us stronger and even open doors to new opportunities. Thank you Steve, Mandy and Erin for opening all these wonderful doors to the Flower Farm world on a whole new and exciting level! You are all amazing and I’m grateful for you and all the people in the world that recognize it for the beauty and sustainable practices it needs.

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  2. Jeanne Rusch on

    There were so many things I loved from this interview, it’s hard to pick. I guess two things that really resonated with me were Steve’s reflection that organic farming is “… a change in philosophy, from point and shoot to observe and adapt.” I love that.

    The other thing that really struck me was his response to Mandy’s needing to drop everything to care for her Dad. Seeing the need for Mandy to make this complete shift as a beautiful selfless act, one that he wanted above all things to support (by literally running full out), is in itself a beautiful selfless act of love. The farm and its’ responsibilities must have been crushing, and that response is so supportive, and loving. I am so happy that good things came out of that an unexpected and unlooked for shift. You both are people who are making a difference with not just your farm, but how you are living your lives.

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  3. Paula/Polly Vollmar-Heywood on

    I loved this quote, which pulls a lifetime of experience into one sentence: “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well.”

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  4. Rachel on

    Wow! What a family! What stuck out most to me was creating the work environment you wanted to live in. So many times it’s profit focused. Your approach to focusing on people is refreshing. I’ll come work for you. :)

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  5. Lisa Morris on

    I absolutely love my mum cuttings and hellebores from 3 Porch Farm-I grow them in hot, humid Rockport, TX. Those mum cuttings were the first thing I ordered three years ago when I began growing flowers and they convinced me that maybe I didn’t have a black thumb after all!

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  6. Heidi Covey on

    The art of sharing wisdom gained through the trial and errors of growing should always be shared for the success of the many generations to come. Living and growing in the frozen Alaskan north is exactly this very life style. Thank you

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  7. Leanne on

    I enjoyed the aspect that Steve and Mandy work together through all aspects of creating the farm and keeping it going. It is apparent they trust and rely on each other through each twist and turn of life and that having each other to lean on or stand with has strengthened and improved their lives together personally and professionally. Sometimes having a Believer (in yourself, in others, in the dream, in the farm, in the outcome and possibilities) is that one critical person that makes it all come true and these two seem to believe in each other. Thanks for the interview Erin. Great work on your part too.

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  8. LaVonne Crawford on

    I’m deeply moved by your commitment to each other, your family of origin, and your work family. I will be a new customer very soon, as I’m thrilled to learn the depth of your desire to provide for your wife, her family, and your employees. This got me the most:

    “It was beautiful to see a woman, so driven in every fiber of her being to build this lifelong dream of having a farm, willing to give it all up in a literal moment’s notice in order to take care of someone she loved. It was a selflessness of extreme depth. I wanted to support that and give her that space to love and help her parents, and to be able to support them myself by taking the burden of the farm off of her.”

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  9. Katherine Olson on

    I loved the sweet story about the Chinese forget me nots and Ms Marilyn

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  10. Heather Duchow on

    This interview is so real: inspiring and grounding at the same time. Love the Ms. Marilyn story, of course, but the way they pivoted at the start of the pandemic is amazing. That separation would have been so hard. They didn’t share how Mandy’s dad is now, but the story is really about taking the opportunity to care for a loved one no matter the outcome.

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  11. Barbara Ellen Vick on

    Love the reminder to recalibrate every season and the story of Ms. Marilyn and creating a flower to light up every room like it’s namesake!

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  12. Sally on

    Poppies , poppies and more poppies !!!

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  13. Jacquie on

    I loved the story of her Aunt and the forget me nots!

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  14. Lisa Shumaker on

    Another great interview and write up from Floret! Steve, your years of experience really come through in the interview. I have been reading your newsletter for several years now and appreciated every week when it comes. The few times a year that you don’t write I miss that week so much. I think it was fascinating to read how you had to switch your business model in a big fat hurry and it turned out well, actually stunningly well. I so enjoy the moms that I have gotten from your farm and we have cut and made more plants with them and we get more each year. Thank you so much for sharing your farm with the rest of us. Lisa Shumaker at Pilchuck Family Farm

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  15. Anna Caucci on

    This interview was so interesting and I learned so much! My favorite part had to be to hear how Mandy left the farm to take care of her dad and his time of need and how her husband stepped in and worked overtime to keep it going, and when they moved out of the market, it allowed a bunch of other small businesses to take a piece of that, and they just sound like wonderful people!

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  16. Erin on

    My favorite part of the interview was hearing the story behind Ms Marilyn! I got the seeds from 3 Porch Farm two years ago, saved some seeds from grown plants last year, and they are on their way as seedlings right now! I loved hearing more about the lady namesake of the seeds. Thanks for including that part in this interview – such a gorgeous flower!

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  17. Anita on

    I love the story of Ms. Marilyn’s Forget Me Nots; she shan’t be forgotten!

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  18. Mandy Erickson on

    Reading the 3 porch newsletter every Friday is a highlight of my day. Always introspective, positive, outward facing, and encouraging. Love the personal insights and how they are weaved into the farm adventures. Very organic and beautiful. Thanks for sharing!

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  19. Brandy on

    I really apprieciate their honest view of where they are at and how they were able to arrive there, there is so much adaptation that comes with this business and I love how they talk about it. Thank you for sharing!

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  20. Sarah Ahmad on

    Thank you for such a wonderful interview. I was most moved by the experience during Mandy’s father’s illness and Covid’s interference in the business. I was moved by the fact that both Mandy and Steve risked the farm and their livelihood to care for her father. Steve’s inexhaustible energy and problem solving was absolutely breathtaking to read. The fruit that came out of the struggle is undeniable, and good. These are truly good, resilient people.

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  21. Pamela Labbee on

    Enjoyed the article so much especially the story of the Chinese forget me Nots “Ms. Marilyn”, very much as the whole articles heart and mood is about caring, kindness and loving others as you would want to have toward yourself. Very touching and amazing how the farm all evolved!! Love it!! Ps. I need to find some of those seeds and will always remember this story of Ms.Mailyn!!

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  22. Mariah Odegaard on

    I’ve been following them for a while but I had no idea what Covid did to transform their life and business. I’ve also window shopped their website many times! I love that you guys honored and shared the Ms.Marilyn seed!

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  23. Gail on

    Wow! The entire article was so inspiring! I love “ trying to create a little slice of the world we all want to be in” love it!

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  24. Britte Gogal on

    As I read through this interview, as well as the many others that Floret has indulged me in, I noticed a common theme amongst them. Love. There is an outshining spirit of love for all things real, tangible, whole, tactile and natural. This spirit ebbs through all that these farmers do and all the people they touch.
    There is a love of the earth. Some have come by it naturally, other have inherited this love as a gift from someone they have known. Someone lucky enough to touch their lives in a vulnerable moment and make a long-lasting impression on their hearts.
    It warms my soul to see farms, their structures and their people, that are grateful and thankful for our pollinators and mother earth and do them both a service by persevering the beauty of the world by giving back sustenance through organic stewardship. From the heavens to the earth, all beings make life possible for us mere mortals.
    Through all this love of the natural world, the fragrance of existence, the touch of petal and the gifts of the earth, you see these traits roll over into how flower folks love and respect the human endeavor to hope for a better world. What we see in these blog posts are but a brief exterior look into the depths of a richer life. Family. Farm. Flowers. Friends. Future.
    In a world riddled with strife this is a wonderful prose. Thank you for sharing.

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  25. Jo Flitton on

    After purchasing Erin’s first book Cut Flower Garden, I was inspired to start my own small cut flower farm in Northern Michigan. But after 7 years and getting up there in years (72) – I decided last fall to shut it down. This spring I am having big regrets & sadness about closing. I am motivated by this story – maybe I can reimagine the garden into something more sustainable to my senior years….

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  26. Karen C. on

    As a passionate home gardener, as well as one who runs a private gardening business, I have always found linear growth to be intimidating yet always expected. As my husband and I have each grown our own small little gardening businesses, quality has always remained our focus. So having affirmation from the success of other small businesses has helped me reconcile our lack of desire to grow too big.
    Our goal is to always to bring happiness to our clients with the best possible product or service we can provide. Being aware of environment, our impact on fellow humans, as well as the natural world is what matters most to us. And I’m sure like many other farmers/growers, if we didn’t have to eat and pay mortgage ourselves, we would be happy to give it away because it is what we love to do and what brings us joy.
    I am ashamed to admit that I haven’t been to visit 3 Porch Farm since we are neighbors just next door in Athens.
    After reading this, I intend to plan a visit to get a better feel for their business model and the love that they share through their work.
    Their story makes me feel connected to other humans in a way that I haven’t felt in a long time. Thank you.

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  27. Tina Boothe on

    I loved this article so much and the gorgeous pictures! What I love most is their genuine desire to make the world a slice of what they want to see. From their adaptative attitude, thinking of the environment in how they farm and ship to how they treat their employees. Very inspiring. Thank you for sharing their stories.

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  28. Kecia R on

    The forget me not story about Marilyn was amazing. I love seeing signs from loved ones who have passed. I also love how you’ve honored her.

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  29. Kathleen Moore on

    Collective Resilience and figuring out the why. So many wonderful insights in this article. I particularly enjoyed their focus on sustainability – of the planet, people and profit as well as their marriage and quality time with each other. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m inspired.

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  30. Patricia Backer on

    What stood out most to me was the idea that scarcity can actually sharpen your vision rather than limit it. The way you described obstacles becoming your best teachers really resonated—it’s such a powerful reminder that growth often comes from the hardest moments, not the easiest ones. I also loved the emphasis on recalibrating both personal and business goals regularly; that connection between self-awareness and sustainable success is something more people need to hear. Thank you for sharing such honest and grounding insight—it’s incredibly inspiring.

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  31. Ali Barbera on

    I am a big fan of 3 Porch Farm and Floret! I loved reading this interview and can’t wait to see what’s in store next for both of you.

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  32. Carrie Kling on

    What a beautiful story! Steve and Mandy epitomize the best of what humanity offers…kindness, intelligence, passion, compassion, a devotion to their community, their environment, their goals…in a way that is purposeful, joyful, and loving. Thank you so much Floret for sharing this, and in so reminding us, that it is possible to live an honest and responsible life.

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  33. Melanie Donahoe on

    Love reading the many inspiring stories here…love this:. “We sure wish the world was a kinder place. We wish corporations prioritized the well-being of their employees, their communities, and natural resources above profit, but that’s not the way of the market. All we can truly impact is what and who our lives actually touch,”. Looking forward to signing up for your newsletter. God bless flower farmers!

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  34. Joan on

    As an older southern woman, I felt a real connection to the lovely Ms Marilyn story. I also enjoyed reading about your method of farming in Georgia.

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  35. Debi Ulrey-Crosby on

    I love hearing the truth that things didn’t come say and that through your hard work you have both found your happy place. I was so happy to hear how generous you were to your employees by giving them paid time off during Covid. I hope they realize how lucky they are to have you as their employer! Can’t wait to get my first newsletter! Thanks for making the world a better place.

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  36. Linda White on

    I appreciate and can relate to the need to step back and and reassess your business direction.

    The adjustment needed for thier situation and deciding to take a business plunge in a new direction.Necessity requires rethinking what you are doing. Breaking away from what everyone is doing. Changing your business, for what will work better for you and your family needs.

    So much competition during the growing months. Finding a strong demand that most flower growers don’t go after. Spreading them selves so thin by trying to do all seasons and falling into the “what all the other flower growers are doing” business plan. Summer is a great time to catch up on other things that need tending to. I really enjoyed that part of the interview the best.

    Good people and succeeding is priceless. Job well done!

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  37. Peggy on

    Loved the learning process and they kept doing it now for 20 years! Never gave up!

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  38. Megan on

    I just love how Mandy and Steve followed their 💜 for flower farming despite flowers not even selling well at their market! They brought something new and different and exciting! Their efforts on sustainability are inspiring! Love the poppy video!

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  39. Sydney McIntosh on

    Wow. What a beautiful story of perseverance and grit. Thank you for sharing your wisdom 3 porch farm. I loved the last question where Steve shared about how you can’t ground your farm or your business if you yourself are not grounded first. A truthful reminder when things feel like they are spinning a million miles. Thank you.

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  40. Rebecca on

    Love love love the forget me not story! got chills.

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  41. Ronda Schlumbohm on

    Such a great story. My favorite part of this story is that you are so intentional. I love the way you have “priorities over profits.” We farm in Alaska and also don’t use synthetic fertilizers or pesticides. We plant for bees and other beneficials. Thanks for inspiring us through our short season.

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  42. Jandi on

    I also work for a flower farm and it never ceases to amaze me the strength and energy and courage you and other owners of flower farms have to create such a business and make it become something. Keep it up. It does not seem an easy task but it’s so rewarding because flowers never fail to make people happy! I think my favorite part was the picture of your store:) it looks so dreamy I would just love to visit it someday.

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  43. Becky Reheis on

    I love seeing your newsletter in my inbox and was excited to read this fabulous interview. I cannot even imagine the work that goes into what you do but it’s a beautiful thing to see what you have built. Thank you so much for sharing!

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  44. Leeann kuiper on

    Thank you for sharing! It was a wonderful read with my my coffee this morning. I will say I did a few re-reads to give more pondering. I had not really realized the effect of Covid on farming. Although I hadn’t really thought about it, I just assumed that out in the open 10 people or less would be fine and not have to shut down as well. I am sorry for that! I enjoyed the section where you had a huge harvest and no way to get it out there. And your mad scramble to get it all sent out. Definitely new perspectives after this read . And I’m glad you were able to sell out of your dahlias at the markets! For me, it’s crazy to hear any flowers would be left at the market. That’s also based on where I live. They always sell out, no matter what variety. I’m not a seller I’m a buyer and they’re always sold out around here.
    I know I appreciate you saying
    “Those obstacles can be your best teachers if you let them.”
    Again, thank you! Thank you for sharing and thankful to the people that wrote this out!

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  45. Julie Donbroski on

    I love how 3 Porches came from a time of adversity in Covid and during Mandy’s dads illness and they bravely changed their business model which eventually was a better way to take their sustainable ideas and hard work to another level and to share their beauty with a larger reach audience. An inspiring story that brings you from a very bad position to an even greater success for the future by doing the work and taking the risks… it’s very daring not to stay in the same place, but trying new things like new planting materials, changing growing seasons and even breeding new flowers that will live on forever… shout out to you, Ms. Marilyn… Cheers!

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  46. Neera on

    I loved hearing this story of how 3 porch farm evolved over time. To be able to observe, respond, and adapt to the world happening around us to me is the ultimate skill set for our times. When Steve said, “If you can’t ground yourself, you can’t ground your business” , that really struck me as so important. I am inspired in so many ways from this blog post, but I will start with reflecting on how I ground myself today. Thank you!

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  47. Kathie on

    As soon as I finish typing, I’m going to sign up to the newsletter – I love hearing stories from different viewpoints = ecologists, farmers, conservationists, innovators, earth lovers. I respect 3 Porch Farm for honoring their workers – paying them during covid, giving them time off in the heat, listening to their ideas.

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  48. Donna on

    I love the Ms Marilyn forget me nots, they are beautiful! I love all flowers, especially the dahlias and I’m sad they don’t grow well in our harsh climate.

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  49. Rose on

    I loved the story about the Ms. Marilyn forget me nots and I can’t wait to see what exciting new things are coming in the future!

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  50. Amanda on

    I really enjoyed Steve’s process of “heart on his sleeve” when writing the farm updates newsletter. Oftentimes, we forget how much love goes into putting a newsletter together. I also enjoyed reading about Ms. Marylin coming to fruition and wow she is a stunner!! Thank you so much for these interviews Erin and sharing with all of us getting to know other flower farmers around the world. They are full of a wealth of knowledge, kindness, inspiration, and beauty.

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  51. lisandre st-cyr lamothe on

    Wow such a beautiful interview! My favorite part is the Ms. Marylin story. Love to know all the details behind this beautiful breeding. I’m now even more in love with 3 porch farm !

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  52. P. S Natalia on

    Such an inspiring article. I’m actually on my way to 3 Porch Farm right now, and the closer I get, the faster my heart beats. Thank you for this deeply moving piece and for revealing this hidden paradise I never knew existed.

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  53. Nicole Swick on

    My favorite part of the interview is in the way that Steve- and the team- work through challenges. They’re eager to learn to better the farm, and through this, the world. They’ve been an inspiration of mine for years now, and this interview just reinforces my hope in humanity. Thanks for this one.

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  54. Lisa Thompson on

    I love the story about Mandy’s dad, Covid lockdown and the rethinking of their flowers and farm. Also love the Ms. Marilyn story. She sounds like an amazing woman. Glad I’ve gotten to read about an amazing family, farm and flowers!!!

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  55. Deb on

    This is my first introduction to 3 Porch Farms. Their commitment to their values and tenacity is my favorite part of this posting. This read has been an insightful and heartwarming journey.

    I am heading over to their website to sign up for their newsletter.

    Thank you!

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  56. Sharon P on

    What a fun story and a beautiful couple. What wisdom!

    I like the story of Miss Marilyn. The forget me not is the state flower of Alaska but I have never seen a purple one. I love purple and being born in the southwest, I know the practice of adding “Miss” and “Mister” as a sign of respect. I will need to order some seeds. After Easter though. I gave up online shopping for Lent. ;). I hope they still have hellebores. I might have to wait until fall if I missed those.

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  57. Jennifer Wallstrom on

    That interview was pure heart and soul just like the farm. Thank you for your realness. Total inspiration.

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  58. Sarah Deeble on

    I enjoyed reading about mums as I’d bought mum cuttings years ago by mail but have not been able to find many online vendors for home gardens.

    3 porch Farm would be a place I’d love to visit!

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  59. sherrie kamm on

    3 porch farm is an inspiration in its beauty it puts in the world with both ethics and flowers.

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  60. Jamison B on

    My favorite part of this interview was about Ms. Marilyn and her forget-me-nots. I’m so also from Georgia and I can relate to calling special ladies “Miss.” What a wonderful way to honor someone’s life with something as beautiful as flowers!

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  61. Anna on

    I loved everything i read, but the part that touched my heart the most was this paragraph:
    “It was beautiful to see a woman, so driven in every fiber of her being to build this lifelong dream of having a farm, willing to give it all up in a literal moment’s notice in order to take care of someone she loved. It was a selflessness of extreme depth. I wanted to support that and give her that space to love and help her parents, and to be able to support them myself by taking the burden of the farm off of her.”
    Beautiful example of true and beautiful love. Mandy’s love for her dad and Steve’s love for Mandy. Very inspiring.

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  62. Jasmine Holliday-Hairgrove on

    This interview was inspiring and full of beauty, humility and meekness. I love their resilience as individuals, as a couple and as a company. I love how deeply they care about beauty on a macro, mezzo and micro level. For example, pollinators, their workers, and their personal lives. I appreciate their willingness to be less on social media and instead take time for their own hearts and minds by transitioning into personal newsletters. I am thankful for their willingness to teach us, to love others and creation.

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  63. SMC on

    Lovely interview. Incredible the methods that they use and sustain. I love the chrysanthemums and Chinese forget me nots!

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  64. Vicki Hodgman on

    I took a while to get to reading this interview and I loved it all. How you were able to get special lessons from the death of your cousin/aunt was a sweet part.

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  65. Bailey Wagner on

    I enjoyed reading about the shift in how business ran at the start of the pandemic. Very inspiring but also exhausting!

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  66. Izabelle Adams on

    I honestly enjoy the overall theme of this story, and seeing how their farm has naturally developed from an ethnical approach. Most businesses don’t practice sustainability (much less on a transportation/fuel level, wow!) because of the possible set back. Or having that humble approach to running a great team by humbly accepting feedback and finding better ways to instruct. Or sacrificing their entire business to help a family member in need. It’s so refreshing to see a business GROW because of these sacrifices, especially in a culture like ours. It’s inspiring to see that they’ve naturally ended up exactly where they needed to be.

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  67. Lori on

    I look forward to 3 Porch Farm news letter every Friday. Beautiful writing and pictures, truly inspirational!

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  68. Laurie on

    I really enjoyed this interview! The bit about exploring the boundaries of personal stubbornness and then really learning self awareness hit home. And as someone who also started businesses from a (most definite) place of scarcity I appreciate their tenacity and ability to keep growing and changing as needed. So impressive❤️

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  69. Wendy Trivisonno on

    What a wonderful interview- Steve so thoughtfully and articulately navigated the questions posed by Erin that I’m left wondering if he’s written a book on the subject of flower farming that I could purchase! Besides the warm and heartfelt story of the dear Ms. Marilyn and the beautiful Forget-Me-Nots, I think my favorite part of the interview is the end where Steve shares such practical and wise advice gleaned from his and Mandy’s invaluable experiences. Thank you for sharing this with us, Erin!

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  70. Jessica Kill on

    I really enjoyed learning more about them personally and how their determination and grit helped through a tough time with Mandy’s dad!

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  71. Tamara on

    Loved this interview and the authenticity that shines through the words. I live in Georgia and want to go to the farm store.

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  72. Emily Vercoe on

    Such a sweet story, almost as good as the strawberry honeypops that got me through a pregnancy in Georgia’s heat twelve + years ago. They are delightful and magical humans, so glad to see their grace and wisdom ripple outwards!

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  73. Colleen on

    What a beautiful business in so many ways! The common theme throughout that left me feeling warm and inspired was their willingness to shift their focus when they needed and do it in a way that was true to them. In the process in turns out so many people were looking for exactly what they are creating and that’s such a beautiful gift. Thanks so much for continuing to highlight this farm and all the work that they do!

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  74. Petra Clark on

    Refreshing, inspiring, and heartfelt story! I love your determination and faithfulness to your values!

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  75. Sarah on

    Such a lovely interview ❤ I subscribed to Mandy and Steve’s newsletter awhile back and always found them so informative, inspiring, and fun. So this interview was icing to the cake! I never knew their story and I am grateful for the opportunity to hear it. I am inspired by their grit and my favorite part of the interview was being able to figure out how to spend more time on the farm and going with virtual business and how their kindness reaches people who just read the newsletter.

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  76. Sarah Wood on

    This interview brought tears and laughs and head nods!

    This line right here, “ Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well. ”

    Whew! So much truth!

    I also really appreciate the perspective on the impact of a meaningful newsletter over a barrage of social media tactics. I really want to believe this can be so.

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  77. Angela Miller on

    I love the story of the Ms Marilyn seeds. I have personal experiences of finding comfort in nature after loss and was really struck by Marilyn’s memory and goodness being shared through the beauty of a flower hopefully in perpetuity. I’ve been too intimidated to try breeding, but looking at it from the emotional vs. scientific angle makes it feel more approachable.

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  78. Natalie Goodwin on

    Delicate and inspiring! It’s amazing how life can drastically change overnight and bring new visions to whatever challenges you may have. I’ve always said that things work out one way or another if you believe, are kind, have some patience, step back and listen and continue to work hard. Your story resonates with so many who face difficulties that require one to find balance and pursue their dreams. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story with us.☘️

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  79. Hannah Doyle on

    The development of the Ms. Marilyn flower. Wow!! What an heirloom and special resident in your garden!!

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  80. Amber Sandoval on

    I love how much 3 porch farm focuses on principles rather than profit ….thank you so much for sharing this ❤️

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  81. Andrea Lier on

    I love how your expectations were unrealistic but you did it anyway. Overcoming obstacles were lessons learned. Living your best life by doing what you love.

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  82. Karen on

    Wow! Such a beautiful story!! To hear all about the trials and tribulations along the way, it’s really inspiring, grounding, heartfelt, and all things hopeful. A huge thank you to Mandy and Steve for sharing their journey with the world.❤️

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  83. Pat Killian on

    i enjoyed reading about Ms. Marilyn forget me Not. I planted some forget me Not this year and they came up fast. I have ordered seeds, tubers and mums from 3 porch farms. I am excited now to see where I bought the forget Me Not seeds. I also enjoyed reading about using under used electricity for their cars. I understand somewhat the process since I have read of a location in southwest giving back their unused electricity to other people. The use of vegetable oil was fascinating too. They are amazing people.

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  84. Sarah Hostetler on

    I loved the story on how you started your journey into growing heirloom mums. I just recently fell in love with all the different varieties, and someday hoping to have my own little collection.

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  85. Cassie on

    This was a great read! Steve’s openness was refreshing and heartfelt. I especially appreciated his perspective as a business owner, cultivating a culture without taking frustration out on employees.

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  86. Jennifer Billig on

    Wonderful interview. I love what Steve said about building a team with kindness and clear expectations. It’s the heat of equity ❤️

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  87. Kristyn on

    I have never felt good about our consumerism culture. The flip side is that companies are often not deemed successful unless they have constant growth. None of this has ever felt healthy, sustainable, or even kind. Constant growth comes at a cost which is why the comment, “the dream for the years to come is to ease back on the throttle a bit,” resonated with me so profoundly. It’s speaks to sustainability for you & your employees as well as a contentedness that is often lost within our culture.

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  88. Jenn Taylor on

    I loved reading the history of Ms. Marilyn- the Chinese Forget Me Not. What a beautiful way to honor her. I hope one day when I’m gone, my family will hand out seeds from my garden- what a legacy that truly leaves the world more beautiful. I loved this interview so much. Many blessings to Three Porch Farm.

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  89. Heidi Kozar on

    Such a beautiful, endearing and inspiring story. Thank you Erin. The “Ms. Marilyn” story was wonderful. This part struck me as I have known two Marilyn’s in my life who were both larger than life, full of fun, silliness and joy. The first hired me as a 13 year old to help with her extensive gardens. I am sure I was more trouble than I was worth, but I was a motherless child and she was childless. We had an absolute blast every day. And I learned to love gardening. The second was my best friend. Marilyn a larger than life teacher and mother of four daughters, the youngest two became my two girls best friends. We were in each other’s pockets every day because honestly she was just too much fun to miss a moment. Sadly she passed a few years ago. I will be ordering some Ms. Marilyn seeds to grown on plants to send along with Steve’s description of his “aunt” to all four of my Marilyn’s daughters. They were Irish sisters from another mother. Thank you for this moving interview Erin.

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  90. Laura Belding on

    Such an inspiring story. Steve is so genuine and generous in his responses. Three Porch Farm’s mission statement “Be happy by doing good” and Steve’s comment that “we’re trying to create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in” are gold, and I think gets to the crux of their success. It is a simple but powerful philosophy. All their choices are rooted from it and have ultimately led to their successes.
    I believe a personal philosophy drives a person’s or group’s or business’ or political party’s actions. You have a goal but the philosophy paves the path you decide to take in getting there. It allows you to take a path that may not look like the best, most profitable or quickest path to your goal, but you do it that way because the why of your actions is more important than the end goal. A philosophy really simplifies and makes choosing easier in complex situations in any facet of business or politics or personal life.
    I know this is not an original thought, but we humans seem to need reminding of it at times. Steve and Mandy’s story is such a great example.
    My favorite part of the interview is the story of Mandy leaving the farm to care for her dad , a very difficult situation that ultimately led to unexpected positive outcomes for the farm.

    Every piece of practical wisdom Steve’s shares is note worthy but one that stood out for me was considering the difference between stubbornness and tenacity. That one really made me think.
    Thanks very much Erin for your excellent interview/great questions, and thank you Steve for taking the time to share your experiences.

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  91. Sally Gebelein on

    The interview was so inspiring. The resilience and passion in doing what they obviously love. The sustainable ways to accomplish the goal. The encouraging way he tells his story. The beauty they create. It all made me feel warm and uplifted. Thank you for taking the time to do this!

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  92. Frances Baxter on

    What a beautiful conversation with people in touch with humanity and nature. This felt like a meditation on bringing good into the world. My favorite part was the Ms. Marilyn passage, I love the idea of honoring our loved ones in plants to keep their memory alive.

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  93. Laura on

    Great read. Maybe a trip down south to a cute farm store is in my future?

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  94. Diana on

    I love Mandy and Steve’s story! Inspiring and impressive how they live their values and have pivoted over the years. I used to live in GA and visited the 3 Porch Farm plant sale and then their plant stand. Happy for their continued success. Great interview.

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  95. Tave Dunn on

    I was particularly struck by the period of time early in the pandemic when Mandy gave up the farm entirely to care for her dad. She and Steve decided that they should pivot the farm entirely and pulled it off. Very impressive and inspiring

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  96. Christina on

    What a wonderful story! Love all the photos! It makes you feel like we are right there visiting! :)

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  97. Charlotte on

    I loved how they stayed focused on creating a life focused on kindness and respect. Not many businesses focus on creating the world they want to live in.

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  98. Nicole on

    What a touching real life story, thank you. I found the story about Ms. Marilyn most moving – it’s a touching legacy. I‘d love to know what breed of flowers was most inspiring in Holland?

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  99. Kelley Kalinich on

    Great interview! I was surprised to learn that summer is their down time when it is the height of gardening for many others. It made me think about how the seasons of my zone can be so very different in other zones.

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  100. Jacqueline Kwan on

    Your flowers are amazing and bring me so much joy during my tax season as a tax accountant. As my firm grows, I was asked what do you want your culture to be? What kind of employees do you want to hire? I loved the be happy by doing good. By standing firm to your beliefs and not just growth, your farm can grow to be tremendously successful. Success is not just a number. You have successfully made me smile every spring time when your poppies show up at my door step. You have also inspired me to think through how I want my business to grow. Thank you! You are an inspiration!

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  101. Tabitha Baker on

    I love the “We had to explore the realities of our own stubborness… and adapt.” I feel like this is a weekly thing for me.
    It is with great encouragement to see you are organically growing as I feel it is so important for a sustainable future. You have beautiful flowers. Keep doing good and enjoying every bit that God blessed you with.

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  102. Sheila on

    Wonderful interview. I was especially touched to hear how Mandy shifted on a dime to taking care of her father. It shows how much she truly cares for those close to her. That is a shift very few people would make so completely.

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  103. Brandon on

    I loved how they highlight working with nature when developing new varieties

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  104. Karen Larsen on

    I was moved, in particular, by the love shown when taking care of her parents and the support of a loving spouse. I have been there. It is a blessing to help but it is also incredibly stressful. I’m so glad that the sacrifice and love opened new doors for you.

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  105. Merrilee Runyan on

    This is such a wonderful interview for so many reasons – I learned a lot about what it’s like to have to pivot your business model in an instant (COVID), the power of a values based business and the emphasis on kindness – there can never be too much of that, and finally, the connection to the earth that these growers have. They work with the natural systems of their land; not to subdue it, but to support it. I am inspired and moved by their story. Let’s reimagine business in the ways they (and Floret) work – with generosity, kindness and beauty. The world needs this NOW!

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  106. Michelle Smith on

    I love that Mandy didn’t hesitate to take care of her dad, day and night and you supported her decision, even when you didn’t know if your farm would make it. You guys worked so hard and diligently to make your dreams happen, but put everything second for someone you loved! I don’t think there is a higher act of love than that!
    I also love how you put forth the effort to make the world a better place…what an example of making changes that will have a ripple effect for good far beyond what you can imagine!
    The drawing is on my birthday, March 31st! I’m turning 50 years old this year! Yikes! My garden has helped pull me through some impossible times, it is so therapeutic for me. I love flowers and I’m crossing my fingers so hard that I win! ❤️

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  107. Angie High on

    You can tell how deeply meaningful their work is at 3 Porch Farms. From how Covid forced an about-face from the illness of a family member to how they have adapted their beautifully kind motto to fit how they do business and take care of their farm, it seems that every aspect of their farm is thoughtfully curated to nurture and strengthen connections within their farm family as well as their customer base. It’s a great story!

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  108. Crystal on

    Thank you Floret for sharing Steve & Mandy’s story! I loved the statement- that all we can truly impact is what & who our lives touch. This is very powerful. The story of Ms. Marilyn was touching. I can just imagine the special feeling seeing this lavender flower popping out of the rest of the blue ones saying I’m here with you. What a way to honor someone.
    Your Poppies are stunning ❤️

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  109. Catherine on

    I love the fact that money is never the bottom line for you or your wife. You both genuinely care about your family and employees above getting rich. Thank you for making the world a more beautiful place with your flowers, generosity and humble attitudes.

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  110. Nancy on

    I especially enjoyed reading about your experience during Covid. How wonderful to come out of that dark time with a new vision for your future.

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  111. Cherie S on

    I really appreciate your business philosophy centering your environmental footprint and kindness. I wish we had much more of that in the world today. I really love the story about “Ms. Marylin” too. It seems that lavender color stood out against the rest just like Marylin did in life. What a beautiful way to honor her. Thank you for all of your insightful thoughts – I’ll be signing up for your newsletter.

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  112. Anni Ellis on

    I loved the hard work they put in to being on the side of the most ecologically sustainable business and life.
    To read how Steve stepped up to help manage it all when Mandy took care of her father …. It shows the heart of them and how they recognize what is a true priority.
    And interestingly enough, that the change they had to do , made the business and life better. It’s wonderful to see good people doing the right thing being rewarded.
    I adore them👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🌿🌸

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  113. Natanya Piper on

    What a beautiful interview! So hard to pick a favorite part in the interview! I am a micro flower grower @enchantedoaks that specializes more so in personal floral arrangements for many different occasions. I love being able to bring flowers to people and see their smiles or witness the change in atmosphere for them. The part of the interview where you talked about being grateful for not having it all together when starting out and how that helped you grow, was so encouraging. I agree, those hardships and trials give life changing perspectives like nothing else can. It was a good reminder. Not every closed door is devastating but rather redirecting! Thanks again for the beautiful read, I thoroughly enjoyed it!

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  114. Emily Schaefer on

    I absolutely love and resonate with “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well.” Oof. Gonna write that down and hang it on the wall. I love the weekly newsletter and read it every week. It’s the only newsletter I actually read! I also love growing my 3 Porch mums and leaning more every year. Just got a fresh batch of baby mums in the mail and can’t wait to see them bloom!

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  115. Mani Blevins on

    I’ve followed 3 Porch Farm’s journey for years and years. Such an impressive couple and crew! How they have overcome so many life and farm challenges is so inspiring. I totally agree with “I’m always happy to see your newsletter, “Notes From the Farm,” in my inbox”. It’s always a fun read!

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  116. Jennifer Stanley on

    Loved how your perspective changed as a result of COVID to seeing yourself as the best green option in the bigger arena of large production farming. Love that the pandemic pushed you to grow in a different direction.

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  117. Stephanie on

    I love seeing your hard work, dedication and care for each other and your team pay off. This is the true sense of “Be happy by doing good.”

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  118. Sue T. on

    Interesting how family illness and Covid became a new opportunity. That resilience is needed for all parts of life and was a good reminder. I’m always amazed at Floret and the flower growing community at their willingness to share knowledge and spread beauty.

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  119. Brenda C on

    Love your mission of “Be happy by doing good.” I love that that philosophy carries through in all your practices on the farm, even to the smallest details.

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  120. Denise Greif on

    I enjoyed reading about how they adapted and changed their focus as circumstances around them changed. Something I try to do but struggle with. The story of Ms. Marilyn I really loved. What a beautiful tribute to a special person in their life. I have a blackberry plant that my great grandfather bred and grew. While it is a beast to pick because of the thorns it has a flavor like none other. The first taste every year of those berries takes me back to being a little girl in the garden with him in the summer. Some of my favorite times growing up.

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  121. Cindy Nyberg on

    Throughout my professional business career I’ve always believed if you did what you love, do it with conscience, be nimble and not afraid to change, take care of your staff and customers, you will be successful. Congratulations! Your story is impressive and your flowers are beautiful! I’m from NC and I like your summer schedule; good for you! Flower people are fantastic.

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  122. Bonnie on

    What an interesting couple! To enjoying working together is so wonderful to see. Keep up the fantastic job.

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  123. Susan Harding on

    The part about her Dad Covid snd the flip in business was so inspiring. It is slwsys amazing as a nurse what people do for loved ones . I live in BC so not able to participate but will send to s friend in Wash if i win . Thanks Erin as slwsys

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  124. Sarah S on

    The Miss Marilyn story has me 😭🥲 What a beautiful legacy a flower is.

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  125. Nancy S on

    “We sure wish the world was a kinder place “. Amen. Thank you for the inspiring read and the swooningly beautiful pictures. Now I’m off to explore your website!

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  126. Wanda Sheppler on

    Amazing how ingenuity and imagination have created such an amazing farm! I especially liked the mums. They have always been a favorite fall flower. The Icelandic poppy colors are so vibrant, a guaranteed boost to any spirit down with winter doldrums! Keep up amazing!

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  127. Stephanie on

    I never really considered the amount of waste that must be experienced from dragging flowers to a market to sell vs staying in a controlled environment and shipping flowers nationwide. It does make sense when you think about it, but it initially feels counterintuitive.

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  128. Dee Wilson on

    Loved the interview but as I planted some forget me nots today I liked how she created her own forget me not for her “ favorite aunt.” I’d love to have that ability to do that for loved ones passed on.

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  129. Jennifer Casati on

    This is a wonderful interview. All of it is fascinating but the part that touches me the most is the story about Mandy’s dad and the sacrifices she made during the crazy, unknowns of Covid to care for him and consequently and in addition how life on the farm changed for Steve. His description of literally running all day long motivated by survival and love was amazing. This story of 3 Porch Farm is a story of commitment, sacrifice, strength, ingenuity and inspiration. Amazing.

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  130. Fotini Donnelly on

    I wish he would have expanded more on his trip to the Dutch flower breeders/producers. I’m
    Always curious and fascinated by the incredible varieties of flowers and the robust colors I see when I visit the Netherlands.
    Great interview on resilience and leaning on your own aspirations, and love for what you do and offer in this wild world of ours we live in.

    Thank you Erin snd 3 porch farm for sharing your perspective and love of beautiful flowers 💕🌺

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  131. Jan on

    I love the Ms Marilyn story. 💕

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  132. Gigi Copeland on

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with us! I most enjoyed hearing about how you navigated life and business amid Mandy’s dad’s illness and CoVid. How challenging that must have been! And you handled it with grit and grace!

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  133. Barb McCray on

    Working in the flower business for 35 years you see how things change! I grow a lot of flowers and know how hard it is to get that beautiful flower! I’m so appreciative of the next generation using the tools of knowledge for the next generation! Land is precious we have to respect it!
    Thank you for your hard work!!

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  134. Jaime on

    It was interesting about how they try to be as sustainable as possible. All the different ways they use.

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  135. Megan on

    Be happy by doing good 💜

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  136. Alexandra on

    There was so much goodness in this interview! I found myself in awe of the resilience, passion, and care Mandy and Steve poured into not only their farm, but the people around them. I’m really narrowing this down, but if I had to choose a favorite part, it would be when they were discussing their approaches to sustainability as well as their employees. Their commitment to what they do, sustainable practices, and the way they build others up really resonated with me and inspired me.

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  137. Susan Zakanycz on

    I love reading this story! So inspiring! My favorite part was looking at all the photos! The flowers were all colorful and beautiful!!!

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  138. Stephanie Koenig on

    I really love your honesty about the work required to run a small farm. Clearly, you and your wife love farming even though it takes an enormous amount of time, energy, and sheer determination. Inspiring!

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  139. Karen R on

    This farm couple is such an inspiration! I applaud them for tenacity, farming from the heart and giving to the community and world. Good people, we say. Thank you for the beauty!

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  140. Ann Smith on

    I’m turning 56 soon. What struck me most about the interview was when he said “that time is flying by and we need to infuse some more good times into our remaining time”. Things have not worked out in my life exactly as I had wished, but as I’m moving further down the path of life I’m realizing that yes I have to prioritize making wonderful times and memories for me, my family and friends and not focus on the bad or what should have been. To realize that time is flying by and I need to start seeing the good and choosing joy and thankfulness in the time that’s left. The flowers are beautiful but I’d really love to have that popsicle recipe even more😂!

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  141. Crystal mullen on

    Community, heart, care for the environment, bring joy and color to the world…amazing journey!

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  142. Devra on

    What a lovely interview! I enjoyed just learning about their story and all of the beautiful photos included within it.

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  143. Ashley Schlegel on

    There is rarely a time I’m reading a blog and wiping my tear-soaked face at the same time, but this interview did just that. The humble approach in every response, the way they lead their farm with kindness, the honest and raw advice given throughout this entire read was extraordinary. I can’t pick one favorite in this read, because I felt as if I was handed nugget after nugget of wisdom and learning. I am excited to continue to follow 3 Porch Farm’s journey and will be chewing on what I read in this blog for a long time. Thank you for sharing such a valuable interview, Floret, and thank you, 3 Porch Farm, for your practices in taking care of the earth, your employees, and customers.

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  144. Kristyn on

    Their story of risk and inspiration despite hardship and not looking like everyone else from the beginning made me tear up. It is such an overlooked gift for people to offer something new and bold to the world. Uncertainty keeps people from continuing onward. What a gift and what a beautiful story of struggle and redemption. The world needs more stories like that right now 🩷

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  145. Angela on

    Thank you for sharing your story. Your love for your wife and her love for her dad were my favorite part of this article. Learning the heart of people behind the business, seeing their care and concern for others is one of the biggest factors that move me to support their business. I will certainly be looking to order from you in the future to support you and the work you do. The world needs more people with generous hearts like yours. Thank you for all you do.

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  146. Aimee Enriquez on

    The level of commitment to kindness, community, and ethical farming is absolutely amazing. Taking care of your land and farm hands…sending them home in the heat of summer…absolutely inspiring. I also wish the rest of the industry and mankind in general would be as careful as you all. God bless!

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  147. Whitney Rice on

    The whole interview was amazing. To get just a glimpse into this couple’s business, care for family, determination, creativity, love for people, wellbeing and beauty. The list could go on. What an inspiration! Thank you for taking the time to do this interview.

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  148. Robin McGlinchey on

    What a wonderful interview! I’m so happy to learn about Three Porch Farm! I think my favorite part of the interview is how excited and hopeful their philosophy and lifestyle makes me feel! I love their ability to reflect, pivot, and figure out what works for them, their employees and even their clientelle. I am definitely signing up for their newsletter. I need more of this magic and that of Florette Flowers in my life!

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  149. Marie on

    Treated others with respect and kindness is the way I try to live my life, it’s nice to see how applying that has helped their business and their life.

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  150. Christina on

    This interview was fantastic! I discovered 3 Porch Farm through Floret and am very happily on my second year of growing their seeds. I love everything about their mission, and it’s so heartening to see a business with such a beautiful mission thriving. I wish more businesses were like you all! I absolutely loved hearing the storing of Ms Marilyn. Flowers can be so impactful, and that was a great reminder that beauty can be meaningful.

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  151. Carol Comendador on

    Dear Steve and Maddy of 3 Porch Farm,

    From the deepest place in my heart, I want to thank you—truly and without reservation—for sharing your soulful Flower Farming Journey. What you’ve created and courageously opened to the world has been nothing short of eye-opening inspiration for me. Every chapter of your story feels like a living testament to what’s possible when we align with something greater than ourselves.

    I am especially moved by the way you lead this entire journey from the frequency of love, accountability, and humility. In a world that so often rushes toward shortcuts and ego, you have chosen the slower, truer path—one rooted in reverence for the land, honest self-reflection, and a quiet strength that lifts everyone around you. Watching you embody these qualities has reminded me that real beauty, real growth, and real impact don’t bloom from force… they bloom from presence, integrity, and an open heart.

    Thank you for letting us witness the raw, sacred work of tending soil, tending dreams, and tending each other. Your transparency and grace have planted seeds in me that I know will keep flowering for years to come.

    With overflowing gratitude and continued awe,
    Carolina 🌸

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  152. Lorrin on

    “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not.”
    🙃 felt personal. So important.

    I’m a sucker for iceland poppies. ❤️ I already loved 3 porch, and now I love them more.

    Thank you!

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  153. Angela Rinaldi on

    What resonated with me was that you’re creating the world you wished we lived in, a kinder place. I wish that were the ethos of every business model. I love Ms. Marilyn. She’s a beauty. My hellebores are on their third season and they are glorious! Thank you for all the inspiration and beauty.

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  154. Peggy on

    I love the mission statement “Be happy by doing good”!
    The way that they were able to pivot and transition during challenging times is so inspiring!

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  155. Ellie Hall on

    Wow! Truly an inspiration! This story is so incredibly moving.

    The way you honored Ms. Marilyn—not just in name, but through years of careful selection and intention—is such a beautiful testament to how love can live on in the most unexpected ways. There’s something really powerful about that one lavender bloom standing out, and how you chose to nurture it into something lasting and shareable with the world.

    I also love how this process gave something back to you—rekindling music and inspiring new creativity. It’s a reminder that even in loss, there can be quiet gifts that shape us in meaningful ways. Truly such a special story behind a beautiful flower.

    Many blessing to you all in this business!!

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  156. Ann Norwich on

    It’s all about happiness, doing what you love, staying true to your values, and creating a life of meaning. Caring for family, honoring loved ones, and sharing that love and happiness with others. Thank you for your inspiration.

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  157. Jenny Zeltwanger on

    I loved the sentiment you shared of “we’re trying to create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in”. We all can do a little more of this and share our gifts with those around us, building up our communities with great effect.

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  158. Susann Rehbock on

    It thrills me no end that there are so many flower lovers like my Mother was. I too hate leaving my garden, that I may miss one flower opening that I haven’t grown before, or miss the scent of the different narcissus that popped out overnight.
    I grow mainly for scent, but poppies coming up through a sea of blue forget-me-nots is heaven to me!

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  159. Kathy Cunningham on

    What a great interview and what a journey it’s been! My favorite part was “We always say that we’re trying to create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in. We sure wish the world was a kinder place. We wish corporations prioritized the well-being of their employees, their communities, and natural resources above profit.” This would be an amazing world! But you have stayed true to your mission. I discovered you through Floret but it was after the fall season. I am excited to plan for a shipment of those beautiful fall mums. I find so much encouragement through the interviews and stories of others journeys. Thank you for sharing your story!

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  160. Lori Schutz on

    Living in alignment with one’s beliefs….this embodies the message of the interview for me.

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  161. Meg on

    It was truly inspiring to read how Steve and Mandy navigated so many challenges and ultimately built something so successful. I especially appreciated the reminder to stay grounded and to reevaluate with each season—it’s such valuable advice.
    I was particularly struck by how the farm pivoted during COVID, both to adapt to the circumstances and to care for Mandy’s dad. It’s a beautiful example of putting family first, and it’s remarkable how those decisions ultimately strengthened the farm’s structure in the long run.
    Thank you for sharing such a meaningful and thoughtful interview.

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  162. Deb on

    So much here to take in. So much beauty. Love. Tenderness. Drive. Passion. Strength. Perseverance.
    Caring.
    I’m most taken with and in awe of a relationship that puts love first. Not money. I applaud you both and wish you well:)

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  163. Dianna Melville on

    I’m grateful to Erin for guiding me to the interview during her unpacking of the delicious poppy delivery from 3 Porch Farm. (I’ve seen several of her “unpackings” over the past few years! Delightful to watch.)
    I took my time reading and looking at every photo. I believe I need to re-read it again to fully absorb everything. The incredible devotion and hard work in your ever evolving farm. So many life lessons in your answers…
    What struck me most though was one of your final statements,

    “Blindly running in the same direction without stopping to breathe and reevaluate where you’re going and why you are going there won’t give the results you’re hoping for.”

    “Recalibrate your personal goals, assess your individual strengths, revisit the big “Why” of it all, then rebuild the business outward from there.” Just replace the words “the business” with “your life”. Wow. So easily forgotten in our day to day life and struggles.

    Just an amazing story start to finish. Congratulations to you on setting such a beautiful example of a beautiful business.
    I will be anxiously watching wherever you go from here. Best to you both.

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  164. Ruby C. on

    I’m in CA, but just want to share my thoughts without anything in return. I’m a gardener aspiring farmer, so I found the early stories inspiring. How well the popsicles did from the strawberries is such a fun detail. Learning how farmers markets work and the reality of how much doesn’t get sold it’s important for someone still learning and looking to sell flowers. Also, the major pivot with covid was so interesting. Right now my family is having to pivot and find a way through so many things, so this story is helping me know that there are many ways to work through these problems and the difficulties can make a way for something better. Such great storytelling!!

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  165. Leora on

    Beautiful article! I loved learning about the farm and their resiliency and action to pivot. Their motto is so inspiring, Be happy by doing good, it’s clear to see it in their actions, the way the farm cares for its people and its ecosystem! Thank you for sharing!

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  166. Susan Zimmerman on

    I love how you made something work for you when it seemed like nothing was going right. I love all your flowers and the way you package all of your flowers. You guys are doing a tremendous work. Thank you for sharing your journey.

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  167. Heidi Noppert on

    This was a beautiful article to read! It’s encouraging to know that others see the value in practicing the older ways of doing things for the future benefit of others and the land. I liked the statement, “If you can’t ground yourself, how can you ground a business?” This is true in so many industries, but especially when you are a farmer or grower. Your flowers are a reflection of the beauty in that process.

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  168. Sam Rogers on

    A book composed of these types of interviews would be such a treat!

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  169. Laurene Bissell on

    I loved the story telling of the history of commitment and strength in character of Mandy and Steve. I loved thinking about growing in northern Georgia too. A whole different world from what I know. I liked how they pivoted when life directed them too, it inspired me to think differently about my own landscaping and property as the times and goals change.

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  170. Susan Painter on

    The most striking part of the interview was Steve talking about the catastrophic effect of the covid pandemic “crossed,” if you will, with the sudden absence of Mandy as she left the farm to care for her father. Somehow, Steve is able to convey the devastating personal and business effects of the losses of their markets, their staff and their entire way of life while still focusing on the solutions they came up with even while their worlds were collapsing all around them. This is helping me realize that my current challenges, which can seem so overwhelming, are truly manageable–some way, somehow–and that approaching my challenges as Steve and Mandy do, throughout their career, with humility and creativity, while reminding myself of my own values, will help me through. Thank you, Erin–and Steve!–for these inspiring moments this morning. ❤️

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  171. Eunice on

    I love that this is not just a business and passion for them. It also about their care of their employees, their community, and being stewards of all of the beauty and goodness of these amazing plants an ecosystem. Thank you for taking the time and care to do and share this interview with us!!!

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  172. Sharon White on

    I truly enjoyed reading your passion developing your beautiful flowers. Your caring for your team and the Earth should be shared with the world. My mind dreams about making my garden beautiful with your flowers, however, this 80 year old body has forgotten how to work. Keep up the great work and I’m very grateful for finding your interview. I must register for your newsletter in order to keep the heart young. Norfolk, VA

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  173. Julie Kokkeler on

    I love the intentional end of season review, making sure you are making choices that support the long term journey of the business. And demonstrating that change is always okay!

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  174. Ina S Hostretler on

    Such an inspiring interview. So many parts of the interview resonated with me. The treatment of their employees – valuing them, creating a “kind and generous” work environment. I appreciate how they are aware of the goodness of God’s earth and treat it with kindness so the earth can give back to them. When the shift was made to ship flowers, I thought it was so selfless to have Steve and Mandy enjoying that when they stepped back from farm markets etc, it opened opportunities for smaller flower farms. And of course, the obvious alignment of having their priorities correct when they so selflessly took care of Mandy’s father. Thank you for sharing!

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  175. Jess on

    What a lovely interview, it was so nice to read about how living their values paid off and was the consistent theme throughout the different iterations of their business, whether it be working to be truly environmentally sustainable and knowing that there would be a customer base that would appreciate that, or Mandy leaving the farm in order to care for her dad after lung surgery and how beautifully reorganizing what’s important led to a completely new business model. Though my favorite part was probably the beautiful flower photos! I love getting introduced to new varieties of different flowers I don’t always think about like chrysanthemums, so stunning!

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  176. Emily on

    I was so impressed by their resilience through a difficult season with a sick parent and Covid and the way that they used that desperation as an opportunity for growth. The care that Mandy gave to her father by putting her own ambitions to the side was honorable and the way that Steve supported her through that shows their commitment to doing what is right even when it comes at a personal expense.

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  177. Jane Martone on

    As you said this interview is long, but be that as it may, taking the time to read it says something that oftentimes gets overlooked. We live in such an atmosphere of instantaneous gratification that taking the time to read this interview speaks to my soul. The part where it’s mentioned about having a ton of money, land, and help really wouldn’t have done as well in developing this farm as we did coming from a place of scarcity. Your limitations in resources can actually be helpful.
    I was always taught that scarcity is the mother of invention. Thank you for sharing your journey.

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  178. Marisol on

    How much better the world would be if we all adopted their mission statement of “Be happy by doing good”. I can imagine many of us would want to live in the slice of the world they’ve created. Executive leadership trainers should reference this interview and Steve’s advice that all people in their midst be treated with kindness as much as possible. I loved when he talked their resilience and adaptability, and about protecting their employees and themselves. I know I’ll be thinking about and sharing this interview with friends and family and the message “we need to infuse some more good times into our remaining time”.

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  179. Margie Hakala on

    This couple are such kind-hearted folks. What impressed me was how they respect their employees and everyone works together for a common goal. Stewards of this land doesn’t go unnoticed. Protecting and encouraging safe practices is vital. I’m so impressed by their tenacity and hard work! Talk about role models for not only the flower farming business but also life! Steve and Mandy you’ve made this world a better place to live!

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  180. Becky Snow on

    This was such a great interview. I loved most, the story of family love and devotion during Covid times.
    Thank you so much for sharing!
    Signing up for your newsletter now!🌼

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  181. Heidi Faune on

    Wow!! I had to reread this interview to grasp it all! The amount of dedication, perseverance, vision, and love you share with the each other and the farm, is beyond inspiring. Also, the tribute to Marilyne exemplifying your dedication to your roots…. had to.
    I am so pleased to have found you and will be keeping an eye on you and your progress (which seems never ending!)!
    Beautiful flowers, beautiful people- and dog!
    Best,
    Heidi

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  182. Bly on

    “Gosh, it’s all so raw and real—I can hardly imagine it, and yet I can! These folks are an inspiration to anyone dreaming of starting their own small business. A huge ‘Yay!’ to these amazing people—keep going!”

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  183. Kayla on

    Thank you Floret for sharing this farm with us. I love the passion and integrity behind 3 Porch Farm’s it very inspiring.

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  184. Kristin on

    My favorite part of reading flower farmer stories, this one included, is the awareness they had about the business and the willingness to pivot the business-with no roadmap but just a sense of what might work. Selling flowers nationally, selling flower starts-I, dieing to have some of those forget me not seeds! Just the bravery to make a change that seems right-inspiring!

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  185. Mary Dunn on

    Love the grounding points Steve made on focusing and refocusing your goals every year to align with one’s personal family and priorities. To adjust your goals when life makes you pivot. Thank you for a beautiful and inspiring interview. Heading outside to see where my garden can benefit from some exquisite heirloom mums!

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  186. Wendy C on

    Erin, you were right, it was a fabulous and very touching interview. Their love for each other and their farm is so evident. And I loved the line about tenacity versus stubbornness, it is such a fine line. If I won flowers, they would have to be shipped to a friend in the states who loves flowers, as I live in Canada. I use to garden for her in Nova Scotia, she had fabulous flower gardens that her grandmother started. I hope I win for my friend.

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  187. Casey on

    I think one of my favorite parts is when he talked about how they stepped back from the farmers markets (even if it wasn’t the plan) and others farmers started to sell flowers and were flourishing. I think as someone just starting out, I get really intimidated when I hear of another flower farm in my area and sometimes feel like I shouldn’t even try. So it is very refreshing to hear that such a well known farm is not only rooting for, but also sort of assisting in the success of other small farms. I think there is a place for all of us in the flower farming world and the more people who grow flowers, the more beautiful the world will be.

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  188. Anne Smith on

    I love that your decisions and approach are rooted in creating space / a world that you want to live in. Especially now, it’s a great reminder that we can make a difference through this approach and hopefully inspire others to do the same!

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  189. Sheila on

    This is such a beautiful story. I love how u started out selling Popsicles and now are a large flower farm what a leap. I am sure the amount of work u all have had to put in to make it as successful as it is would have made most people quit. Your story is a inspiration to all. And ur pictures of ur flowers are beautiful

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  190. Catherine Schuerman on

    Wow! This has been quite a journey! The key themes that came up for me as I read this were, balance, flexibility, integrity and kindness. What a great business model! Thanks for sharing your story!

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  191. flora b on

    So inspired by their plastic-free packaging and genuine commitment to a low carbon footprint!

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  192. Marebear on

    These folks are kind-hearted people and it’s so refreshing to hear their story. There are so many take always from what Steve shared. Number one for me, speaking from the heart with generosity and truth. It influenced everything he said.

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  193. Maureen on

    I love your company I have purchased seeds, helebrore and mum starts in the past year and a half the mums gave a glorious show this fall still waiting to see if all the starts made it thru the very cold winter we had. I love hearing the back story in more detail and I love the Aunt Marilyn story. Thank you

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  194. Anna on

    What a beautiful operation you run! I loved hearing about Mandy sacrificing all her life long efforts to build this farm to take care of her dad during his cancer treatment. Also the care and consideration for sustainability is so wonderful!

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  195. hilary on

    I am amazed at the Icelandic poppies my favorite flowers. I ran a cut flower garden in the 80’s and it took so much energy your success is admirable. I also admire you resolve to pick up and switch your strategies according to the market and what you want to commit to.
    Great interview… I wish I was 30 years younger and could go work for you!

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  196. Andrea on

    This was very peaceful to read your story! I especially connected with your urge and happiness at “staying on the farm”. I am a homebody too and can easily fill my days right here! So to hear you say that you can run an entire business, day in and day out, by staying on the farm, was great.

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  197. Maria Cruz on

    I love this interview! The fact that we all have failed but find something positive out of it! “Obstacles can be your best teachers” its exactly what I live by, specifically with flowers. Thank you so much for the encouragement and sharing knowledge.

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  198. Heidi on

    It is inspiring to read how Steve and Mandy have found their way through all the challenges and built to success. It is impressive and motivating to see this example of living in line with your values. Not an easy thing to do in our modern world. Thank you for sharing some of your journey so far!

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  199. Elizabeth on

    This comment resonates with me “We always say that we’re trying to create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in. We sure wish the world was a kinder place”.

    I’ve been slowly piecing my flower garden together to become a place that is a getaway from tje stressful environment around me. I live in MN and we’ve been through alot lately. The world seems so heavy and ugly right now. I took wish the word was a kinder place. This inspires me to stay on the path I am on.

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  200. Allison Gorham on

    “Obstacles can be your best teachers”…yes indeed. They seem to be the epitome of fortitude and positivity…thank you for this interview, Erin. You are always so willing to lift up others. Always inspiring.

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  201. Danielle on

    Beautiful interview. I love that they were able to memorialize their loved one with a flower. What an awesome heartfelt way to carry on her memory. To walk outside and see that flower with her in mind is a gift. Thank you.

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  202. Anne on

    I think the Ms. Marilyn forget-me-not story is so sweet.
    And the poppies are gorgeous. I’ve always loved poppies but have struggled to get them to grow. Maybe someday!

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  203. Paula on

    How can a flower lover not enjoy every word of this?
    My favorite part is that it’s written from a male prospective. Most things relating to flowers seem to come from the females point of view.
    I also know how difficult it is to run a business and care for family members. I did the same thing for my aged parents. My father died at the age of 101 and my mother died at 97.
    The sacrifices a husband has to make while the spouse is absent from the home is not an easy task. Kudos to Steve for holding down the fort and juggling everything else while being alone. Great job.
    Mandy, your efforts are nothing short of heroic. I know how difficult it is to do the right thing, while missing your husband and home life. Always conflict but never regrets.
    Blessings to you both.

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  204. Janet Colgan on

    I loved the part about how Mandy stopped everything to lovingly take care of her father . Such an inspirational way to love and live ! Their philosophy on life is uplifting.

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  205. Marie on

    Steve’s openness regarding the genuine struggles of running their operation – as well as the many joys, made this an honest telling of a story, which in our current world of glossy depictions of lives is a rare and valuable thing.

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  206. Donia Lilly on

    I love the section talking about saving the farm while caring for her father ❤️‍🩹
    (And so many beautiful pictures!!)

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  207. Janet on

    I loved reading the entire interview, I’m really touched that they care so deeply for our earth.
    Thank you for sharing!

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  208. Becky Grinstead on

    I enjoyed the story behind Ms. Marilyn- what a lovely tribute!

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  209. Deb on

    “Ms. Marilyn!” What a great story and legacy.❤️

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  210. Gabrielle Bedinghaus on

    I really enjoyed the part about what you would tell your younger self just starting out. Goal setting and being realistic is so important!

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  211. Scott Gibson on

    Diversity and perseverance applied to your passion helps dreams to come true. I liked the examples of starting your business small and keeping things local. In my retirement, hopefully in the next 5 years or so, my plans are to have a small garden and raise varieties of flowers. Tapping into local markets will be a great starting point for marketing. I also liked your example of thinking outside the box at farmers markets by not selling the same products as others. Thank you for sharing this interview.

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  212. Tori on

    I loved hearing about how Steve took on the newsletter writing. It was beautiful to see the seasons and ebb and flow of he and Mandy to turns promoting the farm

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  213. Lynne Carberry on

    Mandy and Steve,
    This is your cousin Lynne in California. Congratulations on fostering a community of flowers and people, on the strength of your kindness, love, business acumen, and hard work.

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  214. Larisa on

    My favorite part of this interview is the backstory of how Mandy went away to take care of her dad and Steve running the entire farm on his own. It is amazing to me the amount of grit they have and tremendous support they are to each other. Those circumstances just seemed too difficult to be real. I was riveted wanting to know how it all played out. This interview was a beautiful glimpse into this small farm and how it was shaped. Makes me appreciate twice over all the little mum seedlings I will be getting in the mail soon.

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  215. Mom & Dad O’Shea on

    As your parents we couldn’t be prouder and love the story & the interview and your history and I’m sure cousin Marilyn is smiling down on you . we love you and hope to get out to the farm again very soon!

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  216. Patricia Ovington on

    I loved this interview! Such honesty. My favorite part was his advice about starting from a place of few resources and letting your obstacles become your teachers. It really encouraged me to keep reassessing what I’m doing and pressing on. Poppies are my favorites!

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  217. Jessica Ovitz on

    “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well.” That stuck out to me…so well put…sounds like a lesson hard-won, huh? But those are the ones that stick! The story behind the farm’s COVID pivot was another poignant moment. The way Steve describes working on the ‘hauntingly silent farm’ while Mandy pulled double duty as the farm ‘webmaster’ while also caring for her dad – so very hard and scary. You can clearly feel Steve’s love and admiration for the woman he married. I’m so glad to know that they’re on the other side of those days now and their farm continues to thrive…what a beautiful testament to Steve and Mandy’s partnership. I look forward to seeing how 3 Porch Farm continues to evolve. Well done, Steve, Mandy, and the 3 Porch Farm team!

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  218. Tuffy on

    I really appreciate the advice to stay grounded and to reevaluate in every season. As a subscriber to your newsletter I also look forward to seeing it in my inbox – thanks for the sweet storytelling and for being real about farm life.

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  219. Wendy Pearson on

    This was such an amazing interview and I feel a renewed sense of purpose moving into our farm’s first growing year. I can already feel that I will come back and read this over and over. I honestly cannot pinpoint just one favourite thing, but something that really struck a chord with me is focusing on growing non-summer flowers, those that are available when everyone’s personal gardens have gone to sleep. Actually, something even more so is building a world and life that you want to live in- one filled with kindness. To live in that authentic place will provide a ripple effect and in turn allow others to do the same. Thank you so much for sharing. My heart feels full.

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  220. Nicola on

    What a heartfelt honest interview, loved it! I can totally relate to the struggles to leave your life behind to care for a loved one, who was in need, since I’ve been doing that. It gives you such appreciation for what you do have and makes you even more resilient in every way. I loved that you were able to pivot and build a new business model that still upheld all your values. 3 Porch Farm rocks!

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  221. Wendy Stahr on

    What an amazing interview! Thank you for sharing! I enjoyed the realness of this interview – showing how wonderful they are as human beings.

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  222. Abby Sundell on

    I am local to 3 Porch Farms, but haven’t been a customer yet. I loved learning about everything yall have gone through, what you created with the pivots and re-evaluations, and your values in regards to business and your employees. Thank you for sharing. You have a new customer for sure! I can’t wait to grow some Ms. Marilyns

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  223. Kim on

    Thank you so much for sharing your story of what it took, all the blood sweat and tears you went through to get to where you are now, and what you are planning for in the future. I loved how you realized the market was not giving you guys what you needed for growth, and health, and that you decided to pivot to what actually felt best for the farm, and you’re overall wellbeing. I really learned a lot from this interview.

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  224. Susan Millet on

    Such real and honest information from people who obviously love what they do…thank you.

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  225. Eugenia on

    This was such a fantastic and insightful read! Your story is truly inspiring, hearing everything you’ve faced, pushed through, and ultimately persevered through, even in the hardest seasons is incredibly motivating. Thank you for sharing your journey with such honesty and heart. It’s a beautiful reminder of the passion, resilience, and dedication that go into growing something meaningful. – Fort Worth, Tx!

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  226. Tina Evans on

    Wow what a lovely interview. I’m just so in awe of how they manage to grow such a successful business sustainably and still have a deep love for what they are doing. They definitely walk the walk! Thank you for sharing.

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  227. Valerie Calvo on

    I enjoyed hearing about the changing business model over time and how life drive those decisions, the resilience needed to sustain the business, the philosophy held regarding pest control, and the way in which the blog writing is approached. I literally enjoyed it all, as well as the accompanying pictures. Thank you for sharing it all.

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  228. Dana Mitchell on

    What a great interview! I’m a home gardener living also in Georgia and really enjoyed hearing about their solutions to the heat and humidity. I always think of Georgia being a spring / summer planting time and now will consider fall flower planting as well.

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  229. Carrie on

    As an member of our Executive Leadership Team in the automotive industry I will be sharing these 2 points: (1) give clear guidance and instructions, while remaining receptive to and even grateful for feedback, and (2) create a culture of kindness, individual empowerment, harmonious teamwork, and mutual respect.
    Solid wisdom that transcends industries, thank you for article.

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  230. Rachel K on

    I was fascinated by the way the whole farm pivoted around Covid and the need to care for Mandy’s dad. It was a beautiful story of putting family first but also really neat how it worked out well in the end for the farm structure. Thank you for sharing this interview!

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  231. Katherine Ball on

    Thank you for this interview! I appreciate the honesty in the hardships that come with your mission of “being happy by doing good” . Staying true to yourself and working hard is followed by success.

    That being said, my favorite part was when Mandy’s dad was ill and you pivoted to shipping; the farm discovered the silver lining. Change comes at difficult times. Staying true to your mission you have created something wonderful. You have given me hope during dark times.

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  232. Jasmine Davis on

    Loved the story and hard work and time put into the Ms. Marilyn flowers. Will order some for sure! Thank you!

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  233. Melanie on

    What a great interview! I loved the whole thing, but especially the part about Ms. Marilyn ❤️

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  234. Sandra Salaz on

    I am so glad to read about a flower farm here in Georgia. I love anything about flowers. I grew up on a tobacco farm in the 50s. We grew our food also. It was all hard work. My Mama had a green thumb and I can’t remember her ever failing at growing vegetables or flowers. She really loved both flowers and vegetables. I guess I inherited that love from her. We would go out early in the morning to check the garden. We didn’t carry a bucket but Mama always wore an apron and we would come back with her apron full of peas, beans, cucumbers, squash, tomatoes and anything else that needed picking. We grew watermelons and cantaloupes also I can remember she and I going down a row of watermelons and when she saw one that she liked she would pick it and heave it over her head and drop it on the ground and bust it. Then she and I would have a feast. Those were the days! Children today have no idea what I am talking about. Now back to flowers. It is wonderful to know that we have commercial flower growers in Georgia. It was great to read about 3 Porch Farms and their struggles to grow not just flowers but in size also as well as knowledge. Good luck with all your endeavors.

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  235. Joanna Vinson on

    Thank you for the inspiration to keep dreaming BIG and give it all you’ve got! To reevaluate and pivot as needed, to let things evolve, especially from places of difficulty.

    My favorite portion of this artle is:
    Trying to build a successful small farm from scratch is a massive undertaking. The process requires a lot of resilience and repeatedly humbles you. You almost need an unrealistic belief in your ability to be successful in order to get started, because a realistic understanding of the challenges would be enough to prevent most people from ever trying. The same can be said about a lot of life’s most valuable experiences though.

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  236. Hannah B. on

    What an incredible journey they have been and are on! About to go subscribe to their newsletter. :) Loved the part from Steve about being an introspective leader, the Ms. Marilyn flowers story, and how sweetly Steve spoke about Mandy. Truly a special couple doing amazing things!

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  237. L. Agraso on

    I love how they approach the new ideas and remain intentional with everyday life and enjoy pursuing their dreams. Very encouraging article.

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  238. Kristin on

    The part about letting your limitations and obstacles inform your decisions, instead of fighting against them, was really impactful. Loved this whole interview!

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  239. Sam Majors on

    It’s hard to pick just one aspect of the interview that I connected with – as each sentence felt like a handwritten letter to a friend. The authenticity of both Mandy & Steve and those they surround themselves with is glaring in the best way. I think if I had to pick a thread through it all, is to keep finding the moments to stay grounded amid the beautiful chaos & to recalibrate when your observations show you as such. This blog post was beautiful and I can’t wait to see the unfurling of the exciting new projects you have coming. 3 Porch Farm is like you said the gold standard!

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  240. Sue Warthen on

    This is a beautiful life story of the upsides and downsides of life and business/careers. The sacrifices given to care for those we love knowing those sacrifices can cost us our career and business. Life has a plan, we just need to reinvent and be resilient to those hiccups in life. This couples journey shows the true understanding and respect of not only each other, but their employees. The resilience and reinventing their business time after time and much dedication paid off in many ways.

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  241. Sharlene Stipp on

    My favorite part of the interview was learning how their business had to pivot during COVID and a better business coming out of it. I also can relate to taking care of a parent. The past few years I have been helping with parents and extended family that live in our area while maintaining a teaching job and trying to build a home flower farm.

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  242. Nancy Filbin on

    “We always say that we’re trying to create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in.” I just loved these words from Steve.
    Aren’t we all trying to do that, with our own yards and gardens: to bring a little more peace and beauty into the world and create spaces of refuge for our friends and family. It isn’t as much about the flowers as it is about the effort to find balance and beauty.
    Thank you for this interview!

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  243. Sarah on

    I really appreciate how fluid in their roles Steve and Mandy can be. If one person starts to burn out, or has to step out, the other has the capacity to step in. This reinforces the need for cross training in small business in order to keep flowing. The power of team leadership was so strongly addressed in this interview. Thank you both for being such flexible, supportive partners and sharing that with the rest of us.

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  244. Aliza Anderson on

    I just loved the whole article. Im from Comer GA who had moved to New Hampshire (my parents are still in Comer) and I love shipping a little piece of home to my friends and family and growing seeds from Comer in NH. It was so nice to learn about the farm on a more intimate level! T

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  245. Elizabeth on

    Reading this interview gives you a good perspective on one’s resilience and perseverance that can change things in life and business when problems or situations arise that are out of your control and you must pivot to survive. Thank you for such valuable information and insight on your flower farming and life’s journey!

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  246. Alicia Milligan on

    I love hearing about other flower farmers journeys, struggles, and how they overcame those challenges. I love the realness that Chris and Mandy bring. The point I took to heart in the interview was their ability to pivot when Mandy had to step away from the farm to care for family all during the pandemic. Being resilient and staying true to what brings you and others joy is so important. Thank you for sharing your story….now I’m going to go order Ms. Marilyn!

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  247. Beverly S on

    I love reading about the struggles of farming. So many things are out of our control and know seeing how people change and adapt give me so much hope for the future.

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  248. Sally on

    Thank you for sharing this conversation! I loved hearing the story about how some devastating life events led to an amazing pivot for their business because of their desire to serve loved ones. Steve’s advice right at the end about seeing “….obstacles (as) your best teachers if you let them,” is so true but so hard to remember.

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  249. Lauren D Micheil on

    The words of wisdom shared and reflection of others who have shaped us to be the people we are today is so inspiring. Resilience and self belief go hand in hand and often times, I forget that; so thank you for sharing and that lovely reminder, much needed in this period of quiet growth! Really looking forward for what 3 Porch Farm has in store and for all the success to come!! Loved this interview so much! Can’t wait for more!

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  250. Meghan P on

    I am so impressed by this interview. I am a new cut flower farmer, transitioning out of owning a dog training business so, all of this is new to me. It’s really helpful to get so many golden nuggets of wisdom in this interview. Thank you so much for your time and insightfulness.

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  251. Karin M Turmelle on

    What a beautiful conversation! I was incredibly moved by the partnership that Mandy and Steve have and what happened when Mandy’s father became ill. Truly inspiring. I found the insights regarding how to build a team and how to manage people to help them be their best was also very good. Likewise, I found the discussion around the surprises that each evolution of the business brought helpful – embracing the idea of being open – I likened it to a “farmer’s walk” through the business, taking in what was happening first before drawing any conclusions, giving space for the “where to next” . That they do this every year was an important reminder no matter what path you are traveling. Thank you.

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  252. Alana Mezo on

    It is amazing to me how many reincarnations their business had. And they were successful at all of them. Covid taught business people how to do things differently. 3 Porch Farm got it right.

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  253. Kathryn Terry on

    This inspired me to think about my own resilience in the garden and looking at how to learn more from what feels like adversity. Thank you!

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  254. Jennifer on

    I love the honesty in this interview–their journey is such an inspiration especially how they infuse sustainability into everything they do!

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  255. Cheryl Wright on

    Honesty, flexibility and resilience has been a cornerstone for your business and life. I truly appreciate your care and concern for your staff, the environment and the changes/growth of your farm/business. All of this and more to come produces a beautiful life.

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  256. Barb F on

    Thank you for sharing this history and insight with us

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  257. Quinn Bartus on

    I really enjoyed the perspective that stepping out of the farmers market space allowed other local farms to flourish. That and the focus on treating employees
    And the environment right! What a wonderful business

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  258. Penrhyn O on

    Coming from an age that a lot of women would consider “time to relax and reflect”, there is still a pull to dream of new ventures. A new venture becomes an adventure: very active, creative, and exciting. Reading your story has my wheels turning. Thank you Floret and 3 Porch Farm!

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  259. Tasha Hussey on

    This is such a treat! I am a small Georgia grower and a pay attention to 3 Porch Farm. It is so nice to hear their story and I love the weekly newsletter. I have bought mum cuttings from them and had great success growing them. Steve and Mandy are such an inspiration. Thank you Floret for doing this interview.

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  260. Brittney on

    My favorite part of the interview was how resilient they have been and to learn about their successes in times of stress. They sound like amazing people and I’m grateful they’ve introduced me to heirloom chrysanthemums.

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  261. Leopold on

    Advice that applies to a broad category of things can be reassuring yet vague enough to be dangerous to be taken at face value. My favorite part, and the part I am appreciative of most is this quote “You almost need an unrealistic belief in your ability to be successful in order to get started, because a realistic understanding of the challenges would be enough to prevent most people from ever trying. The same can be said about a lot of life’s most valuable experiences though.”–not because it is dangerous, but that hopefully when I find myself in such a daunting place I will not take it for only its downsides. I also really liked the part about removing themselves from the competing pool of small organic growers, each trying to to their best for their community and land, to competing with the large industry players that are able to outcompete by using the harshest tactics possible, and finding the niche there. I also really appreciate the effort given to involving readers into this article; when I read something inspiring, I want to write about it. Thank you for the thoughts and inspiration.

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  262. Annie Collacchi on

    This was a wonderful, honest and inspiring interview- yes about farming and flowers but especially about humanity. Hearing about people who care as much about the environment and kindness as they do about their business is such a hopeful message. I feel like our world has shifted away from that and more towards capitalism and individual gain. Sharing this beautiful success story will hopefully inspire and encourage others to take a similar path towards the greater good. And of course nothing could make me happier than doing it with flowers!!

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  263. Connie Cooney on

    I think of myself as a gardener rather than a farmer. I’ve given up on vegetables and have created a rather small yet picturesque flower garden in my backyard. I’ve read much of Florets’ newsletters and have been inspired to grow a variety of cut flowers. Up until now, I haven’t been truly devoted to attending the garden; summer is often too busy with travel, and boating, and beaching and general summer fun. This year will be different. My husband has been diagnosed with a serious and debilitating illness that will limit our adventures. I have set my intention to caring for him and caring for my garden. My flowers will be my retreat and my refuge. Your newsletter will provide inspiration.

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  264. Marcia Miller on

    The breadth and depth of this interview was beautiful, helping us experience parts of their journey in life and on their farm.

    I loved the descriptions of organic growing, starting with this quote:
    “Gardening organically is a more mindful practice that invites you to be a part of the garden habitat, as opposed to operating as an outsider.” Also this: “…maintaining a degree of harmony in the immediate habitat.”

    Thank you for this heartfelt glimpse into Mandy and Steve’s farm and lives.

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  265. Margie H on

    I was most impacted by Steve’s description of how he and Mandy adjusted/pivoted during her father’s illness. Their familial love, partnership, and dedication—to their own family and their employee-family—was tangible to me in his telling that part of their business’ story.

    I very much appreciate the consistency in values their business story represents. It has evolved/morphed/pivoted over the years but seems to still be familiar, grounded, joyful endeavor for them and their employees. I hope they’re proud of what they’ve accomplished.

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  266. Jessica on

    SO MUCH stood out to me but, “obstacles can be your best teachers if you let them” and “to develop a practice of self-awareness at the personal level and at the business level. If you can’t ground yourself, you can’t ground your business. If you can’t see the terrain clearly, you can’t effectively navigate toward your goals” are both such profound life advice. Newsletters are my favorite and I love how Steve doesn’t look for perfection in his writing but keeps his audience in mind and speaks from the heart. Lovely interview, just so inspiring all around!

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  267. Osha on

    Thanks for the newsletter! I really enjoyed reading about their work ethics and their appreciation and kindness towards their team. I love the pictures of their flowers and the story of Ms Marilyn. Their Covid story was touching.
    Thank you!

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  268. Robin on

    The whole interview was pretty inspiring and revealing. I have felt, since being introduced to 3-Porch Farm, that these were a special kind of people. Hearing the deeper story about the building of a flower farming life is humbling…. coming from a well aged flower farmer, that’s saying something. Regardless, my respect for your farm, your business model, your gifts to the world grew that much more with this interview ( wow)! At 68, I too recognize the limited time I have here, and have begun scaling down the 80 hour work weeks… but not without resistance. This life is not for everyone, but it’s always given back equally….if not monetarily, then certainly through the magic of a life lived in nature. Keep cultivating that magic! 💕

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  269. Kerri on

    What a beautiful tribute to Ms. Marilyn! An extraordinary flower named for such a cherished soul.

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  270. Debi Williams on

    Wow such an amazing interview! I love Steve and Mandy’s heart of setting the culture of kindness in the workplace with their team. The Ms Marilyn creation of honoring in such a beautiful way and the view of the gift received and passed on, so precious. The value placed on Mandy’s father’s care with creativity to transition in such trying times. My heart was touched on so many levels. I’ve been a small customer in the past now more proud than ever to refer and continue to support 3 Porch Farm. Thank you for your heartfelt experience and wisdom. Blessings ~
    P.S. A book should be in your future!

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  271. Laura Minthorne-Brown on

    Such a fabulous and inspiring interview! I love the rather humble advice for aspiring farmers towards the end: A deep understanding of the market, allowing the obstacles to teach and guide, and an almost unrealistic belief in your ability to be successful in order to get started. Thank you so much for sharing this incredible farm.

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  272. Janet C. Plummer on

    It strikes me that not only are you farming organically- in a mindful manner that flows with natural processes- but also you are living organically- flowing with challenges and building strength from a place of richness and love. Good on you! Your story is inspirational.

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  273. Cheryl Skornik on

    I have been reading and enjoying the 3 Porch Farm newsletter for a few years now. It is very helpful and fun to read. Often, it is easy to assume people are saying and doing things just to promote a business and at first I assumed 3 Porch Farm was the same. Over time, I began to realize the kindness and genuine character of Steve and Mandy. They have answered me on email on a few occasions and kindly sent me a new package of seeds when I lost the seeds as I opened the package. They did not have to do that and more importantly were very nice to not point out that I was the novice that I clearly was. Anyway, I really appreciate the Farm and how they truly value their employees, their community and the customers. I really enjoyed how this interview reminded me of information I had read in the newsletter. Like memories of an old friend. Thank you Erin, for sharing this great interview.

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  274. Brian Bots on

    Steve writing of being bald resonated w/me.

    Cue balls unite!

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  275. Cheryl Skornik on

    I have been reading and enjoying the 3 Porch Farm newsletter for a few years now. It is very helpful and fun to read. Often, it is easy to assume people are saying and doing things just to promote a business and at first I assumed 3 Porch Farm was the same. Over time, I began to realize the kindness and genuine character of Steve and Mandy. They have answered me on email on a few occasions and kindly sent me a new package of seeds when I lost the seeds as I opened the package. They did not have to do that and more importantly were very nice to not point out that I was the novice that I clearly was. Anyway, I really appreciate the Farm and how they truly value their employees, their community and the customers. Thank you Erin, for sharing this great interview.

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  276. Kerry O. on

    Favorite part? (-_-)
    /. \
    _/. \_
    That’s “easy”-

    The sage learned &

    Unselfishly shared advice given

    Can be applied to ANYTHING

    & ANYONE attempting to embark

    On reaching either personal &

    Or professional & sustainable

    growth .

    Only people of “the earth”; that

    value not just microbes, where

    It ALL begins

    Equally as they do

    Others, that have respect for the

    Land as much as people would

    Have shared their life’s lessons –

    In hopes that someone, anyone

    Could benefit .

    As a side note, I would be most

    Satisfied with just a packet of

    Seed, selected on the farm;

    Be it a packet of lavender forget

    Me nots or something

    Anything

    That can fit into an envelope

    As I strongly believe in reducing

    My carbon footprint with every

    Step I take, from cutting out with

    Scissors a food package box

    To draw upon

    To bicycling and composting .

    Blessings to you both .

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  277. Corisa N on

    Love the updates on 3 Porch Farm.. What an amazing interview. I enjoyed reading great things coming after difficult times. From Covid we get shipped flowers, from keeping up with social media, we get the transition to a newsletter.

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  278. Joy Deffinbaugh on

    I enjoyed reading about the intersection of mums, 3 porch, and Floret. But all of this was fascinating

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  279. Katriina Hughes on

    The dream for the years to come is to ease back on the throttle a bit. Time is flying by. We need to infuse some more good times into our remaining time. 

    I had so many good reminders for my own life reading this interview. Thank you so much!

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  280. Nancy on

    I live in Minneapolis, and am envious of flowers blooming anywhere right now. I enjoyed reading this interview, I particularly appreciate how they treat their employees on the farm. Such a great read.

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  281. Sharon Stephens on

    Really enjoyed the journey of change in their business. Making pivots. Taking risks. Sometimes gulp-worthy changes. Finding a new sense of balance. Yet, they kept true to their business mission, “Be happy by doing good” with customers and employees. The photos were a great addition to the piece. Actually loved the behind-the-scenes and irrigation images as much as the flower beauty shots. May we all learn to lean into our own North Star.

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  282. Hannah Marcellino on

    I loved reading this newsletter and the progression of their lives through long hours, dedication to Mandy’s father and her husbands loving response. It is so encouraging as I had purchased some of their heirloom mums, and loved them. I believe so many of us began our journeys inspired by Floret, Erin has changed our world in so many ways. I know we all have our stories along this flower farm journey, and truly I have been greatly touched by their precious story. Thank you for posting and encouraging us to read to the end!

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  283. Rose Gillette on

    Real life events happen while we’re working toward our own pursuits. It’s encouraging to hear Steve share how Mandy unexpectedly left the farm to take care of her dad. I could feel the challenge of that meaningful sacrifice and hear the tenacity of surviving in unexpected circumstances. Thank you.

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  284. Alana on

    I am a big fan of 3 Porch Farm! As a fellow Georgian, I loved hearing how they have learned to work around the unique challenges of farming organically in the hot humid Georgia climate. Rather than constantly fighting these challenges, they have embraced them and adapted in a truly beautiful way! I aspire to do the same in my garden! Thank you for sharing this lovely interview!

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  285. Michelle Best on

    I enjoyed reading about your commitment to honoring nature through organic farming, and how that impacts and sustains a balance in what kinds of insects are found on the farm.

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  286. Lee on

    I think my favorite part of the interview was “ 3 Porch Farm’s mission says “Be happy by doing good,” ”. There is nothing more wonderful in life than to try your best to do good. This is evident in every part of the interview, and it turns out that it is probably the best mission they could have landed on. The beauty of the photos was so captivating! I am trying poppy seedlings for the very first time this spring, and I could not be more inspired about that than I am in this moment! And I must get some Ms. Marilyn seeds! Thank you for sharing!

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  287. Katie Swerdloff on

    what an honest take on the wonders and challenges of flower farming. my favorite part is the tidbit about how having an almost unrealistic expectation of your success is necessary to start

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  288. Mary Escobar on

    I loved every word! Their story is so sweet the way they hold each other up, through good times and in hard times.
    One of my favorite parts was Ms. Marilyn. The way our loved ones come back to us in different ways & Ms. Marilyn
    came back as a sweet & beautiful flower. Such a touching and beautiful story.

    Kind Regards
    Mary

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  289. Raechel Chambers on

    I liked the advice at the end that scarcity can teach lessons and help grow a business in creative ways. Visiting a why and vision for growth is also great advice. Thanks for sharing this interview!

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  290. Kathleen on

    I loved the story of the Ms. Marilyn flower seed. The whole article is inspiring. Thank you for your dedication to your values and to your sincere offerings to the world.

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  291. Victoria Shestak on

    Thank you for such a great interview! It was long but I read it on one breath.
    For now as a dreamer to create my own little flower farm in the future I loved Steve’s feedback on the sustainability! It is so easy nowadays to excesses and use all kinds of chemicals without thinking how it actually impacts all the living things and us humans as well. And it’s hard but so rewarding and so impactful to use sustainability in the farming. Recently I had received the roses form the farm in Ecuador. They were “fresher” than from the flower shop as came straight from the “farm” and they lasted more then two weeks, they were not wilting but “freezing” in their state. I liked them at the beginning but as I saw that it’s not naturally lasting too long, I realized that those flowers had no soul. They were empty. Even though I should be happy they lasted so long. But I realized that I should not smell them or stay close as they must have been applied with so strong chemicals to last. And then I decided not to order them anymore ever. They were not healthy flowers. And it is so rear and so special to have “healthy” organically and sustainable grown flowers. I admire Steve’s and Mandy hard work to stay on sustainability. And now I know that when I will create my flower farm, I will try my best to keep it sustainable. Thank you Erin for sharing it with us!

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  292. Belinda on

    I enjoyed reading the back story of “Ms. Marilyn.” It was beautiful to hear about who she was and how she was honored.

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  293. Emily Miller on

    This was incredibly inspiring and written beautifully. I found myself smiling multiple times when you talked about your team and the culture you strive to maintain.

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  294. Audrey Ansley on

    I feel honored to know the story of “Ms. Marilyn.” These have been on my wish list for 2 seasons now due to their beauty, but now I feel it would be an honor to carry the legacy in my garden. They have definitely moved to the top of my wish list. I would love to plant them in my garden that also holds my great grandmothers Althea. What a beautiful story and legacy to behold.

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  295. Gwen Kline on

    I love the story of your special Ms Marilyn. Because of your love for her, and flower breeding expertise, she will not be forgotten…And will continue to bless so many w her beauty!

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  296. Edie on

    “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not”; This is comforting, as I’ve been assessing a trait of tenacity as my downfall when someone once tagged me as that; and realizing that stubbornness has been a hindrance in my life. I will hold onto my tendency toward tenaciousness, and lean into being more careful, watchful, and adaptive! Your story is awesome and a sense of a love story between the two of you that awakens beauty in life. Blessings!

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  297. Stacey on

    I honestly don’t know if I could actually pick a favorite part of Mandy and Steve’s story. I love that they use solar to power their farm and drive electric cars and focus on sustainability; I drive an electric car and try my best to be as sustainable as possible in my small way and take care of the natural resources too, so that really spoke to my heart. Their sheer dedication to all they do and their passion is truly inspiring. Thanks for this blog post and you were right I smiled and was teary eyed and enjoyed every word.

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  298. Esther on

    I loved this interview, it was very inspiring!
    My favourite part was about the heirloom chrysanthemums, I haven’t grown them myself (yet!) but there are some amazing varieties!
    Thank you to all of you flower farmers who work so hard to bring joy to the world through one of the most beautiful things God has created: Flowers.
    Floret, everything you do has inspired me to start my own cut flower garden and I appreciate all that you do.
    Thank you!

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  299. Beverley Simmons on

    Wow- what a great story of dedication and determination. It is wonderful to hear all the hard work is still a love. Thank you for the wisdom.

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  300. Kira on

    This was such a beautiful interview! I’ve bookmarked 3 Porch Farms for next time I want to send flowers to someone. Can’t wait!

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  301. Peggy Dlugos on

    My favorite part of the interview was the story of Miss Marilyn. What a way to live on in the lives of others.

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  302. Janie Hansen on

    Their “massive crash course in rapid transition and resilience,” brought back a flood of memories and smiles as I remembered how FrogHollow Farm (where I was working) had to transition as well during that time. I have such admiration for how they have expanded and I’m even more pleased that I had already placed my order for their chrysanthemums.

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  303. Brooke on

    Loved what they shared about how they changed their practices during COVID to fit their family, their values, their business goals…etc. So inspired by this interview!

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  304. Pam Georgeson on

    Your family has accomplished truly remarkable achievements on your farm that most couldn’t have done! Your wisdom of your knowledge to share with others is remarkable. Wishing you well in your continuing success! Thank you for making your sacrifice to have a better plant world!🧜‍♀️😎🏴‍☠️

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  305. Valerie on

    I loved how Mandy planted some seeds given at Ms. Marilyn’s funeral and discovered a lavender forget-me-not, which Mandy then bred to become the Ms. Marilyn Forget-me-not. This is such a special way to pay tribute to a beloved family member! Then from that experience, the farm is now doing more plant breeding! It was interesting to read how whimsical or side interests become new directions for the farm.

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  306. Cara on

    My favorite part was hearing about the way you fuel! I love hearing about excess solar to run the electric vehicle and the recycled vegetable oil for the other vehicles. I didn’t even know you could do that. So cool!

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  307. Michelle on

    “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well.” ~Steve O’Shea of 3 Porch Farm

    I think I’m going to print this and post it beside the mirror. Such great advice.

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  308. Gail King on

    I am so thankful for farmers whom I believe are the backbone of our country. I purchased from 3 Porch farms about a year ago. What drew me in? The unique selection of starts and the photos posted online that revealed the hard work that went into their business. Hmmm I thought; I need to check this place out. I can’t imagine a world without flower farmers who work tirelessly to bring joy to so many that they will never meet or hear from. So, from the bottom of my heart, thank you, thank you, thank you for your toil and sweat, your sore muscles, joints and bones, for working the soil in such a way as to honor it and the sun that warms the soil to bring forth the blooms. Thank you for your sacrifices, risk taking, endurance, multitasking, and countless hours of worry. Thank you for having a dream to bring warmth and grace to a troubled world that desperately needs to feel the joy of God’s flowers. Most of all, THANK YOU for making your dream come true so other can enjoy it too.

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  309. Lorri on

    I have enjoyed your unboxing of the mums you received from Steve & Mandy each fall. Now learning the backstory of 3 Porch Farm makes me appreciate the mum unboxing even more.

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  310. Brooke on

    It is so inspiring to read these types of stories, thank you for sharing!

    I love the part about Ms. Marilyn, as I am also from a San Francisco Irish family and also now live in the south. I think I need a packet of those seeds!

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  311. Jess R. on

    I love the advice section about following your dreams with just hope and determination.

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  312. Shelly Allen on

    It was so enjoyable and touching to read the story of 3 Porch Farm through this interview. I am thankful to be able to learn more about the beautiful flowers and the people working so hard on the farm each day. We were able to visit the Farm Store last year to pick up several varieties of tomato plants and cosmos seeds. We had both growing all the way until November!! Thank you for sharing your gifts and talents with us!

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  313. Jen on

    What a great interview! It was fun and special to read the story behind Ms. Marilyn. Thank you.

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  314. Michele Foster on

    Not mentioned but very apparent is their love and support for one another, the strength of their marriage and commitment to each other growing in different ways. From taking care of family to switching how you communicate with their followers. All of this kindness shows in the quality of their flowers and plants.

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  315. Sue Dempsey on

    I was really struck with Steve’s words: “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well.” Whoa. Truth. I needed to hear that! And I found validation in his: “Blindly running in the same direction without stopping to breathe and reevaluate where you’re going and why . . . won’t give the results you’re hoping for.” I “people please,” expanding into more and more – because people ask. But it’s a recipe for burnout; the only cure is stopping, re-calibrating, and saying, “NO.” Thanks to both of you for these words of wisdom.

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  316. Ellen Engels on

    Always happy to see the newsletter from 3 Porch Farm in my inbox, I read it immediately. I’m a farmer at heart, reduced to a few pots on my patio now, but always happiest when my hands are in the dirt. Thank you for this wonderful conversation, Steve and Mandy are an inspiration.

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  317. Linda on

    My favorite part of the article was reading about how you pivoted to a new business model after Mandy’s dad needed emergency surgery. The challenges you faced and overcame during this time, were nothing short of amazing!

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  318. Mary Mihailoff on

    Enjoyed the article. Loved the story about the Auntie. Thanks for sharing life lessons in pivoting and caring deeply for loved ones. Really liked your philosophy in working and caring for employees. Love the flowers!

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  319. Cathy Kampstra on

    Very heart felt. I am grateful that Mandy took care of her Father, no matter the cost. And Steve what a wonderful gift to her to do what ever it took to allow her to do that.
    I too want to do it all, but know that I will burn out quickly or get discouraged, I also just turned 68. Thank you for the encouragement of pivoting! AND not feeling like you have to do it all… Pick my lane this year and stick to it. Our Farmer’s Market’s are saturated with flower’s and it’s hard to get in. I am inspired by the beautiful gardens. This year I want to create a space where rows of flower’s used to be. A garden that will inspire other’s. A place where we can meet, do arrangements together. Hopefully open the self serve farm stand this year and sell cut flower garden boxes to give other’s something to create that will bring them joy.

    Thank you for giving me inspiration.

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  320. Shaina Dotson on

    I love the reminder to recalibrate the goals of your business every season! That’s great advice for life in general and such a good reminder to take stock of where you’ve been and where you want to go – and realize that it’s ok if it changes. Loved this interview and the flowers!

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  321. Geri Olson on

    I am moved by the strength, support and compassion that Steve and Mandy preserved in their relationship through the evolving chapters of their business life. Their commitment to living in harmony with their values while bringing beauty into the world is inspiring. I also love how the relationships between longtime flower farmers such as Floret and 3 Porch Farm can bring abundance and prosperity instead of the fear of scarcity.

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  322. Vicki Waters on

    The values of this couple really astound me in this day and age of money being the most important goal. Thank you for giving me hope that the world will always survive with people like Steve and Mandy. I live in SC and am thrilled that my neighbors in Ga. are doing the right thing!

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  323. Judi Walker on

    Last fall you did a video expressing your JOY of receiving boxes of mums from 3 porch farm. Their beauty was amazing…so beyond the standard of the pots you find at local pumpkin patches and fall vegetable markets. I fell in love with them and went immediately to the 3 porch farm website to sign up for their newsletter. I also reached out to my children and “planted the seed” that I wanted their mum cuttings as a Christmas gift (they came through). I still pull up their website nearly every day to consider purchasing a few more.

    The interview was excellent. I have admired their work ethic since you first introduced them to ‘me’ through that video. It was so humbling to read about how they treat their employees through training and trust.

    I also have a love for many things that are Georgia. My late sister and brother law lived in Atlanta and for 30 plus years a trip to GA was always on the list. My sister in law had cognitive issues due to a stroke and as COVID raised its ugly head it became apparent she could no longer take care of herself (her husband passed in 2018). I was preparing to retire so we moved her to Nebraska to take care of her until she passed away in 2024. I could certainly relate to how important it is to shift gears to take care of family.

    Erin, thank you for this wonderful interview and for sharing your relationships with so many wonderful people doing what they can to make a difference in this crazy world.

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  324. Amanda Lewis on

    Thank you for sharing this interview. Good reminder if you’re passionate about something to just start. Your path and business can morph and be reshaped many times, and that’s just the journey of life and business. Appreciated him mentioning scarcity can work in your favor, helping you to be creative and have ingenuity. We tend to think we need all these resources to build something magical.

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  325. Cheryl Mandler on

    I loved the part where Mandy took off and helped her beloved father and Steve came up with the idea of shipping those flowers in the greenhouse. Creativity and resourcefulness personified!

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  326. Katherine Robinson on

    Each part of this article was incredible! 3 Porch Farm mentioning the tough times they endured during covid definitely was close to my heart. I work in the healthcare field. I worked every day during the pandemic working in the unknown and never lost hope.Each day was tough. I love seeing as this farm did not give up and pushed through with brilliant ideas! My husband actually surprised me with a vist to 3 Porch Farm right before Christmas. Their store was very beautiful! I hope to visit 3 Porch Farm soon!

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  327. Colleen Kelly on

    Thanks for sharing this in depth interview with Steve O’Shea of 3 Porch Farm. I liked the comment “we are famous with toddlers”, the popsicle fans, and their project developing Ms. Marilyn. You and Steve share a philosopher/farmer vibe that acknowledges both the struggle and the privilege.

    Lucky me, now I know where to order flowers from!

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  328. Kathryn VW on

    How wise to plan “from a place of scarcity.” And to “focus on self-awareness.” Congratulations on your success! I can’t believe that Iceland poppies, so delicate and ephemeral, can be shipped…. Yours look beautiful.

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  329. Sheila on

    I enjoyed this interview for the beautiful photos and the sharing of their lessons. But even more powerful to me was the outline of life lessons that apply to big companies, small businesses, and community organizations . If everyone approached work and life like this interview…what a wonderful world.

    Start with why, tell a story, share generously, culture of kindness, respect and accountability, tenacity v stubbornness, resilience, scarcity enabling creativity, and be grounded in knowing yourself. Thank you Steve and Mandy!

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  330. Lisa Ferguson on

    Wow, what a beautiful story about Marilyn! I love the flowers too!

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  331. Sarah on

    This was a wonderful interview to read. As a beginning flower farmer I think what I’ll hold on to the most is …”You almost need an unrealistic belief in your ability to be successful in order to get started, because a realistic understanding of the challenges would be enough to prevent most people from ever trying.” Reading about how 3 Porches started and was able to evolve and pivot. Gives me the permission to just start!

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  332. Risa Card on

    This was such a pleasure to read! I am a hobbyist that found joy and peace in the garden after a divorce and the loss of my father. For myself and many others gardening became my peace, my therapy and a way to grow from my losses. My favorite part of this interview that truly resonated with me are the sentimental stories, like forget me not “Ms. Marilyn” and your ability to remain resilient and to find meaning in what you are doing. It is beautiful in so many ways and speaks to my mission as I expand my cutting flower garden. Thank you 🩷

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  333. Kristine E. on

    This whole interview definitely was very “heart on the sleeve”— I loved it! My favorite part was hearing how some of the most stressful times in their lives were when they pivoted into some of the biggest and best decisions in their business. Specifically the story about Covid and being afraid they would lose the business. What a powerful lesson for us all.

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  334. Jody Nickerson-Powell on

    It is truly amazing how COVID changed everyone’s life in some way. I loved and was brought to tears reading about Mandy’s father, her devoted care for him, and Steve’s devotion to his own life partner as together they shifted and build a new. Beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing.

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  335. Kaye on

    I love the “self-awareness” advice towards the end of the article. “Recalibrate your personal goals, assess your individual strengths, revisit the big “Why” of it all…”Great advice for living!

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  336. Rachel Swanson on

    It’s amazing how Covid, which could have destroyed the business, instead led to a whole new business model that allowed all of us across the US to enjoy these beautiful flowers! It must have been so overwhelming in the beginning but they turned a devastating circumstance into something beautiful!

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  337. Pam Rowell on

    I’m very touched by the resiliency of small farm growers and how seemingly insurmountable bottlenecks turn into life changing opportunities that touch the world. It’s a life lesson for all of us and maybe the nature of farm life and curating close to the land. The shift Mandy and Steve made during Covid, and how they pivoted to a new perspective creates a life balance that few can so consciously create. It shows in your product and your words. What insightful entrepreneurs!

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  338. Shari Howard on

    I loved this interview. It is always inspiring to hear of a small business that still cares for our environment, their employees and making the world a better place through flowers. Thank you for sharing this interview. I have always loved chrysanthemums and glad to know there is somewhere to get them.

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  339. Joanne Chase on

    This is a delightful interview that also highlights the relationship between farmers. My faith in humanity and our goodness is bolstered reading it. I especially loved reading about the quick shift during Covid. It was a challenging and amazing time for us all and it’s great to hear about the bright side of the shifts you made. Thank you all for this sweet story!

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  340. MaryAnne Flynn on

    What a great interview! Living up in VT I’m at the stage of just thinking about what seeds to start inside for my small home garden. My favorite part of this interview was learning about Ms Marilyn and how she lives on in your lives, and throughout the world, through the pretty lavender flowers named after her. That was really special. Thank you for your sustainable approach to your business. That is a gift to all of us.

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  341. deanna smith on

    I experienced a roller coaster of emotions reading this–hope, positivity, security by sage advice, exhaustion from thinking about the tireless work and commitment, pining realizing my passions in growing and being useful to those around me by what I can offer are not 1st and foremost out of fears to make such difficult shifts, sentiment, empathy, connection with a little detail in the story. My gram passed during co-vid. she lived in a care facility but my father and really took over the engagement and social aspect of caring for someone. once co-vid hit I was no longer allowed to visit since I was a granddaughter not immediate family. she passed a few months later. her husband (who passed 20 years prior) had been an avid gardener in his community and worked as a horticulturalist for the UW extension. My gram, having grown up on a farm in Coloma, WI joined right in and I loved them dearly. my favorite aunt, at her funeral, passed out homemade packages of for-get-me-not seeds from her garden and just yesterday I marveled at seeing signs of their return in my yard, despite our recent snow. Thank you for sharing the stories, the interview, the advice, the inspirations.

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  342. Kirsten on

    I loved hearing about the business evolution and the reality of how much hard work goes into both farming and small businesses. The sheer effort required is so often glossed over, but success takes work. It’s such a joy to see good people succeed.

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  343. Deni on

    What a journey and such an interesting interview. As a person who grows in the Pacific Northwest I can’t imagine the hot humid growing conditions in the summer. It’s fortunate that they have been able to shift their working year somewhat. I guess we all have various challenges and ours can be too much rain.

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  344. Diane on

    I loved all of it. What touched me the most was Mandy taking care of her Dad and Steve discovering a new way to do business. We took care of my Mom for four years before she passed. Wasn’t the traveling and farming we planned for long because of health issues. I am grateful they stick to their principles. Wish all businesses were run like that. What a pleasant place the world would be for everyone.

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  345. Mily on

    Wonderful interview, Erin. Thank you for showcasing the passion behind 3 Porch Farm. Kudos to Steven and Mandy for their honesty, sustainability efforts, and care for their team. Ms. Marilyn’s story was incredibly moving a beautiful tribute, and I can’t wait to grow that Ms Marilyn in my own garden.

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  346. Kay LeMieux on

    I so enjoyed the down to earth information you shared. It will be so helpful! Thank you!!

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  347. Robin Banks on

    This is a great story of overcoming many challenges and setbacks and not giving up. The part about Mandy taking care of her father thru Covid really was amazing. The amazing part of the story is how you can see when on door closes God opens another. The change into a shipping business and now having summers off wow what a blessing out of heart ache. I love flowers they are a hobby passion for me love planting in spring and watching the beauty all spring and summer. I rarely cut them I have my garden right out my kitchen window and love looking out at the beauty of flowers and small garden.

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  348. Julie Benson on

    I love all the honesty and wisdom here. I especially love the thought that it all turned out better than you could have imagined and I think that is what you must be thinking when you are lovingly looking at each other in that terrific photo of the two of you among your beautiful flowers! Thank you!

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  349. Malin on

    Wow! What an amazing interview! Very inspiring! My favorite was Ms. Marilyn spreading laughter and happiness throughout the world with her seeds. Thank you so much for sharing you story.

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  350. Tina Farthing on

    What a delightful interview to read! My favorite part is the evolution of the farm, from many types of farm products tried, grown, produced, successes, failures, and the winnowing to finally settle on what works best for the GA climate, finances, and personally for Mandy, Steve, and their employees. I love to read about and hear stories about successful entrepreneurs! Small businesses is so vital to our neighborhoods and I’d be honored to receive anything from 3Porch farm.

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  351. Meredith on

    My favorite was describing the difference between stubbornness and tenacity. They do feel the same! I’m going to be cultivating this awareness for a long time to come, and I think it will be very helpful. Thanks for a beautiful interview!!

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  352. Dean Rogers on

    The portion of the interview describing the hardships of COVID were striking and humbling. The pair are true entrepreneurs and most inspiring.

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  353. Alisa K. on

    My favorite part was how Mandy cared for her dad and Steve cared for the farm during challenging times. If I should win, please send my flowers to a local cancer patient.

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  354. Veranika Sh on

    It was so fascinating to read how you navigated hardships during covid and your dad’s sickness and became stronger and more successful in the end. What a great interview!

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  355. Diane Korosec on

    Both you and Erin have given me the inspiration to try a beginner’s cutting flower “mini”garden. I will be getting a raised garden bed at our local community garden. I can’t wait to see what happens! It’s my personal great experiment!!!

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  356. Anne O'Grady Feeney Gassner on

    What a wonderful interview! I loved many aspects of this interview. I love the story behind Ms. Marylin Chinese Forget Me Nots. My favorite plants on my property are the ones that my loved ones or friends have given to me. I have my father’s original fig tree, my mother’s limelight hydrangea, my mother-in-law’s Boysenberries, and the list goes on. To honor someone you love with a seed named after them, which originally came from an anomaly from a packet of her seeds, is a true gift of love. And being of Irish descent as well, I love the fact that these seeds are growing in Ireland now!

    This poetic quote by Steve says it all, “…manifestation of a true collaboration between you, a flower, the sun, the rain, and a bee or fly…. it’s really a beautiful and quite magical thing.”

    I was happy to hear that out of Mandy’s top 4 favorite mums, I already have two of them! River City and Seaton’s Coffee. I used to dislike chrysanthemums. I used to associate them with Home Depot and Halloween and big mounds of one color next to hay by front porches . . . until I found these beautiful heirloom varieties. And it is true about their vase life – some flowers lasting for 2 -3 weeks in a vase!

    I love that they are an environmentally friendly farm even using vegetable oil in their vehicles and machinery. They are living in an environment they want to live in and that takes a lot of work but it must be incredibly rewarding. Thank you for this interview:)

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  357. Jo on

    Thank you for sharing your story, with all the ups and down of life, farming, and running a business. Beautifully written.

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  358. Lauren Laborde on

    This is an amazing and gratifying article. I love the way Steve is so committed to Mandy and the farm.
    I was truly inspired and read the entire article because it kept my attention. I wanted the story ( interview)to continue and not end.

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  359. Jenny on

    I really needed this today. I’m having a tough week as a new farmer and reading their story reminded me that this all part of the process. So painful (and confusing) at times but I know I will come out on the other end! Thank you for sharing so candidly.

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  360. Vickie M on

    My favorite part of this story is the finding success from a place of scarcity. We can do so much with limited resources and people need to re-learn this concept. Thank you for all that you do and for sharing your story!

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  361. Sherri Mojica on

    The fullness and honesty of this interview hit me straight to my heart. Reading this was like being on a seesaw, with so many highs and lows, and it just kept getting better. I have bought your mum seedlings, and keep propagating their abundance for the last two seasons all around my gardens. The importance of your work touches all of us who have had the pleasure of your flowers.

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  362. Shelley Trunnell on

    The love that Mandy had for her father was so touching. The fact that she dropped everything to care for him was beyond touching and the fact that Steve supported her was amazing. That’s what true love is, right there. Love between a father and daughter and also between husband and wife. The description of Ms. Marilyn made me feel like she may have been everyone’s best friend if given the chance to meet her. What a wonderful interview. I enjoyed reading it, just as much as you did conducting it, I imagine. Thank you.

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  363. Lisa on

    My favorite part of Mandy and Steve’s experience is their recounting how they made a major transformation in their flower farm and marketing. Under extremely difficult and stressful circumstances, they pivoted with such resilience and dedication! In the interview, they shared how their values drove their commitment to quickly adapt and change. Caring for an ailing relative, considering the well~being of their workers, and seeing the resulting market opportunities for other local farmers in the community. Ultimately, their efforts made it more possible for us to source beautiful flowers in a more sustainable way. Thank you for sharing their story!

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  364. Diane N. on

    I just love looking at all your beautiful flowers! I especially loved the story of Ms. Marilyn

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  365. Betty on

    I agree with several readers that the “best advice” shared by Steven is best. Such sound and sage advice!

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  366. Teresa Edwards on

    My favorite part of the interview is the Ms. Marilyn story. What a beautiful, fun, energetic woman she must’ve been!

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  367. Kristie Winters on

    I loved when Steve spoke about Mandy lovingly taking care of her father. Those early days of Covid were so difficult. I can’t imagine everything she was dealing with.

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  368. Kathy Kulus on

    What a beautiful interview! I especially liked the story of Ms. Marilyn – forget-me-nots ate some of my favorite flowers. Thank you so much for sharing!

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  369. Danette on

    That interview was fantastic! It’s hard to pick one favorite part because I loved it all and there was such a variety of topics. These lines resonated with the yoga teacher in me though. Awareness and grounding benefit us all in many ways. I appreciate Steve and Mandy leading with cultivating a positive personal life that then spills into their business. So genuine. It’s the energy behind that which we do that blooms. 💜

    ‘The best advice I’d give to the folks coming up behind us is to develop a practice of self-awareness at the personal level and at the business level. If you can’t ground yourself, you can’t ground your business’

    Truly a wonderful read. Thank you both for sharing this with us.

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  370. Kari on

    Lovely & inspiring interview. Not just lessons learned flower farming, but life lessons for us all.

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  371. Dee Ann on

    It’s great to hear of a farm that has the conviction to take care of the piece of earth he/she has been entrusted with. Your perseverance through learning times and hard times is inspiring and an amazing example of how to navigate not only life on a farm, or a business, but life itself. Thank you for sharing your hard work so openly and explicitly! It’s a great article that I plan to share with others.

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  372. Shannon on

    I adore their mission of “be happy by doing good” – it encompasses so many beautiful thoughts. Also love the photo of the dog sniffing flowers… so precious!

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  373. Enjaneek Frye on

    What a beautiful post! I’m hoping to incorporate poppies into my garden for the first time this year and can’t wait! I am also hoping to incorporate some organic practices little by little into my garden until it becomes a full practice so this gave me a lot of inspiration!

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  374. Kelly B on

    Love seeing the flowers you’ve grown- unique colors and the Ms. Marilyn

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  375. Rebecca Jensen on

    What an amazing story. My favorite was learning how they pivoted through the hard times and eventually transitioned to a better model for their well-being. I’m working on establishing my own small market garden focused on peppers, and the farmer’s market model did not seem like the right fit. This encourages me to find new distribution methods, and gives me some very exciting ideas. Thank you so much for sharing!

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  376. Carla Tucker on

    What a heartfelt message. So enjoyed the story of how they endured many life challenges and thru their hard work and dedication they have achieved their dream
    As with Florets story, it proves that anything is possible as long as we keep dreaming
    Thanks for sharing this story
    Carla

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  377. Karlie Relyea on

    I came across your page and it’s so beautiful, thoughtful and inspiring! If I was near I’d come work with you!! I am in California on the Central Coast.

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  378. Jane on

    I look forward to Notes from the Farm every week. I love the way Steve and Mandy appreciate each other, their help, the land, our earth and their community. It says alot about how they became a successful flower farm. Thanks for telling your story, it was a pleasure to read.

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  379. Nicole Ghezali on

    Seeing the journey unfold and the reasons behind the pivots and decisions that needed to be made was so inspiring and a reminder to keep evaluating at every step of the journey. The work is never done in that regard, and change is inevitable, but seeing the consistency in values across all of these choices and shifts was truly inspiring!! Amazing people and contribution to a better world.

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  380. Allison Koehn on

    This quote:
    “You almost need an unrealistic belief in your ability to be successful in order to get started, because a realistic understanding of the challenges would be enough to prevent most people from ever trying. “

    Jumped right off the page.
    I’ll probably be taping that to the window of my greenhouse.

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  381. Hillary Talbott on

    So many good parts, but the divinely led breeding of Miss Marylin takes the cake. As a fellow small business power I appreciated the reminder of being a better communicator and remembering our staff doesn’t always have our own knowledge base. And I resonated so deeply with the transition in Covid and the silver linings that came about. I feel that those of us that both survived and flourished on the other side of Covid have so much wisdom to share with new up and comers in any business model. Cheers to your new found farm life balance.

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  382. Janet Salonius on

    My favorite part of the interview was seeing how they persevered not only through Covid, but also the need to care for a loved one. And they did it, really well even! I loved reading that. I also love their commitment to caring for the environment. What an inspiration!

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  383. Teresa on

    I enjoyed all the beautiful photos that accompanied the post. Thank you for sharing your expertise.

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  384. Angelina on

    I love how ready Steve was to support Mandy and do everything he could to prioritize her family and her need to be away from the farm. Hearing how the two of them work together to adapt and have fought so hard to get to where they are is truly inspiring!

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  385. Kirstin on

    “Take time to recalibrate the goals of your business every season and definitely every year.” This is something I have started to focus on, now that I’m getting older. When I began with flowers, I grew as many annuals as I could fit in my space. Last year I started looking more closely at the value of perennials and shrubs as sources of blooms and greenery. That meant changing the amount and the varieties of annuals I now grow. This piece of advice from Steve is so worth considering, whether you are a flower farmer or gardener or somewhere on that journey.

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  386. Beth H on

    Fascinating read. I loved hearing how their business model has changed over time and thus shared a lot about the hard parts of running a business.

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  387. Eileen Johnson on

    Your experiences and advice are seeds for growth to everyone. Thank you 🌱

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  388. Cynthia Green on

    I especially love take time and don’t rush things. Really know what you want to do

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  389. Lara on

    The moment which speaks to me most in this article is the observation that in our most difficult times, we rise to the occasion often with better results in hand than had we never faced the challenge in the first place. Very inspiring :)

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  390. Melanie Edwards on

    It was interesting to read how covid forced you in a completely new direction that is now your business model as it brought major changes in direction of my own life as well.

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  391. Bob Gow on

    My family created market garden business in the extreme NW tip of NWNC, the upper elevations of the Blue Ridge. I had previously apprenticed to Alan Chadwick in Covelo, CA and cultivated the active philosophy that we need to feed the spirit of the land and all peoples with the life force of flowers just as urgently as healing with clean, vibrant food. There was no market back then (1980) but we built a portable 4 shelf stand and daily trucked some 40 differing cut flowers and 4 young children into Boone, NC and became a sidewalk fixture. That led to growing 26 varieties of flowers for drying. They were hung from the 2nd story rafters of our ancient tobacco barns and sold as street bouquets and breathes. Alan nurtured my beliefs that all of nature speaks to and guides us. This gift has guided me through the inevitable physical and emotional valleys of small farming/ labor intensive gardening. Im 80 now. My wife 75. I still thrive each day allowing myself to be swallowed by soil and bloom as the outcome of holding seed, now often my own ever evolving, ever crossing vessels of startling joy.
    So…this writing you shared filled me with hope for lives lived often alone outdoors but never lonely. You put into words the last 52 years of my life and left me very simply hopeful and grateful. Thank you, Bob Gow

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  392. Stacey McPhee on

    Wow, I was moved by reading how the priority shifted to caring for Mandy’s Dad, as someone who has also cared for a parent in need.
    The care for the land and those working together with you is so inspiring to read .Thank you for bringing this story to us all Erin.🙂

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  393. Lisa on

    The interview was fantastic. I really loved the detail about naming the flower “Miss Marilyn” as well as understanding the effort and work they have put into their farm.

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  394. Diane Hollister on

    “trying to create a little slice of the world we wished we lived in” is such an uplifting thought. Thank you

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  395. Catherine on

    Collective resilience and creating a place you wish existed linger in my mind since reading this interview. 3 Porch has a lovely story to tell. Thanks for sharing it.

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  396. Trey on

    The part where Mandy left the farm immediately to be with her dad really speaks of her character! Amazing flowers and story!

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  397. Edie Diver on

    Thank you Erin for generously publishing this inciteful and most interesting 3 Porch Farm article by Steve and Mandy. Bravo to you flower growers !
    Georgia is fortunate that your farm production is succeeding with love and determination, Steve. Here in the Skagit Valley of Washinton, I am personally so very proud of Erin and FloretFlowers.

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  398. Melanie Coombes on

    I have been getting this newsletter for a few years now. Its always filled with beautiful pictures of flowers and stories. I garden in the heat and humidity of coastal SC, so I’m often inspired by their gardening tips. My favorite part of this blig post was reading about how Ms. Marilyn forget me not flower is being planted by gardeners all over. What a wonderful tribute.

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  399. Becky-TN on

    I was so moved by how they dealt with the trauma of COVID, her dad’s cancer and keeping a beloved business going…..separated from each other. Shows the “death to self” that they have for each other and their marriage. What grit! What grace!!

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  400. Vicki Tayloe on

    Steve’s story is one of perseverance and dedication to making your dreams come true. They share thru their flowers & their farm is a labor of love & they share it with us.
    I have always loved flowers, as a very young girl we would to go into the woods with my grandmother and pick wildflowers. I loved the special time together with my grandmother, learning from her to see & love the beauty all around us.
    Now I’m a grandmother sharing with my grandchildren the beauty around us.

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  401. Abigail on

    Loved reading the perspective on managing the farm team and how much differences can be used for growth.

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  402. Ruth Dohner on

    My daughter, granddaughter and I loved visiting 3 porch farm when you had your visitor day years ago. Last year when I visited my daughter in Woodstock, I came to visit your store. I bought a piece of your beautiful pottery and love using it to enhance my flowers.
    Like the newsletter, Steve is able to share who he is and how that relates to his and Mandys farm. This is like a an extended newsletter. Thank you Floret for this.
    My small garden in Columbus OH is enhanced by 3 porch farm heirloom mum’s, dahlias, and recently I added your hallebore. Thank you. I share my flowers with my neighbors, and they love them too.

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  403. Angela Salsgiver on

    I truly appreciated the legacy of Ms. Marilyn. The flower means so much more, based on the back story.

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  404. Kristina Kau'i Bouquet on

    Thank you so much for sharing!
    • know your limits
    • connectedness to self awareness
    • remain grounded
    • recalibration of your goals
    (Past present & future)

    Sound wisdom right there. My goals remain the same for long term. But circumstances change and so does the “way” i have to go about things. But the “why” always remains, to be the mainstay. I really got a lot from reading this article. It fanned the spark inside to endeavor to persevere. So, thank you, so much, for that.

    Have a beautiful day, today & every day of every season!

    Thanks so much!
    Love & prayers from NW Montana!🌤
    Kristina Kau’i Bouquet 🪱🐦🪺🍀🦢
    🎀💐🌺🌹🐝🧚🏼‍♀️🦄🦋🌹🌺💐🎀

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  405. Helen R on

    Hmmm. Hard to pick my favorite part of the interview, but I think I’m most impressed by how Steve and Mandy run their small business and how they adjust their farming goals and practices for the different growing seasons as well as for where they’re at in their own lives. An outstanding interview with a truly inspiring couple. Good luck to 3 Proch Farm in all their future endeavors.

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  406. Nicole Candelaria on

    In taking my time reading through the interview. I found myself pausing to copy and paste a few segments in my Mantra doc. that reminds me daily of values to life by.

    – Culture of kindness, individual empowerment, harmonious teamwork, and mutual respect.

    – Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well.

    Thank you for the wisdom. Signed up for more through the newsletter.

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  407. Jean on

    Love how you stay ecologically conscious through all of your work changes. Beautiful fliwers!

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  408. Martha on

    Growing up, I always found chrysanthemums to be boring. Further, they were considered as funeral flowers, as my Chinese mom would tell me. I love how Steve and Mandy are changing that narrative by breeding such beautiful chrysanthemums!! As a result of my renewed interest in mums, I went to the annual chrysanthemum festival at Longwood Gardens last year. And I love Steve’s and Mandy’s ethics and sacrifices for their families. That makes their flowers even more precious.

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  409. Kay Hitch, Menlo Park, CA on

    Liked the annual revisit of vision and analysis of the market and what they wanted to do.
    Classic entrepreneur/small business importance.

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  410. Tamara Jensen on

    The Covid-era brought out many realizations to so many folks. I rejoice when I hear stories like this one from 3 Porch Farm, who realized what is of most importance in life. People! Thank you for this insightful post!

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  411. Lisa Ann Walker on

    My favorite part of the interview is the entire saga of beginning and maintaining a flower business with all the challenges and victories. Brand new to this process, but loving nature and dreaming of new beginnings – just thank you Erin and Three Porch Farm!
    Sincerely,
    Lisa Ann Walker

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  412. Ginger on

    Hearing Mandy and Steve’s story was so awe inspiring as they kept persevering – the importance of helping Mandy’s father during the covid epidemic, supporting staff during the shutdown, adapting to the ever-changing reality we were all experiencing while keeping their business afloat. It helped remind me of the importance of putting family first, helping others, and adapting to change each and every day.

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  413. Alissa Eyre on

    I loved this interview! Thank you so much for sharing. I was particularly inspired and encouraged by the story of Mandy’s father and how she dropped everything to care for him during covid. I also had a similar thing happen when our son, Andrew, almost died in the hospital from a rare syndrome, and 7 years ago, to the day, we had to take him back to his home and care for him because everything shut down. My husband and I didn’t sleep in the same bed until September, when Andrew finally had a better living arrangement.
    I admire Mandy and Steve for weathering that storm and supporting one another during that difficult time.

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  414. Lindsey on

    Incredibly refreshing to hear they opt’d for the harder, but more sustainable route in organic gardening. Labeling it as “more mindful” is a great way to describe the true love and respect for gardening, rather than the mass production / monetary optimization that we’re all too familiar with now. Gorgeous flowers, will be ordering seeds from them!

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  415. Krista Flory on

    Thoroughly enjoyed reading about Steve and Mandy’s small business and how they continually adjusted their farming goals and practices to meet the growing seasons and the seasons of their lives. The health crisis and Covid shutdown put your nurturing and caring skills into action for humans – Mandy’s dad and your employees. It spoke volumes. Your positive mindset and work ethic took a curse and turned it into a blessing allowing your small business to pivot for this next season of your life. THANK YOU for sharing. It was a very encouraging read for the day.

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  416. Brooke on

    As a new small business owner, I really appreciated Steve’s insight that scarcity can actually be a positive element to encourage creativity and connect you to your Why. Thanks for a great interview!

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  417. Lisa Newland on

    What an amazing story and so heartfelt! I was most impressed by the pivot you did during the pandemic and how it has totally transformed your business and lives. I can’t wait to start receiving your newsletter.

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  418. Maureen Cullen on

    The O’Shea’s make the world a more beautiful place season upon season and we who share in their story, their products, their learned knowledge and advice, add to a more beautiful world along with them. This interview is thoughtful, thorough, packed with experience and grounded advice. I smile with inspiration and enthusiasm to keep developing beauty in my little corner of the world. My joy from being out in the garden, from reading the broader joy of other gardeners and always “the learning/the sharing”, gives hope for our mother earth. Very Sincerely, Maureen Cullen
    Thank-you Floret for doing this interview with Steve and Mandy O’Shea

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  419. Nancy Uruskyj on

    I love this interview, especially hearing how 3 Porch values the contribution of their employees. How refreshing! A reflection of their integrity and character which resonates through every word.

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  420. Abby on

    Thank you for sharing all your hard earned wisdom with a new flower farmer. I have the passion but need the know how. It’s so helpful to hear your story and a big congratulations!

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  421. Virginia Levie on

    I know it’s not a dream life story and has had more than its share of challenges, but boy, does it sound good to this 70 year old Alabama ex pat living and gardening in Brooklyn. The recounting of Mandy’s care of her sick father very much resonates and I am heartened and inspired by how both of you combined to encompass it.
    On a much less profound note, good for you to be able to write a newsletter in an hour. It can take me almost that long to craft an email, so kudos!

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  422. Jan on

    What a story! Pivoting your business model (even when forced by illness) is a powerful lesson. Having a crew is not easy, and I so appreciate your notes to (1) give clear guidance and instructions, while remaining receptive to and even grateful for feedback, and (2) create a culture of kindness, individual empowerment, harmonious teamwork, and mutual respect.

    SO impressed with your commitment to the environment and critters!!

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  423. adrienne wolfe on

    I think my favorite part of this amazing article was the discussion on their business pivot during the pandemic. It was terrifying and exhausting. But, ultimately put them on a path that is more sustainable for them in the long run and help their local farmers branch out into the void they had created. That is truly inspiring!

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  424. Andrea Steele on

    I’ve followed Mandy and Steve for about three years, I’ve ordered heirloom chrysanthemum rooted cuttings from them. I love how they’ve evolved their business and how eco conscience they are.

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  425. Ashley Reiss on

    I appreciated all the responses. They were able to turn what could have been the end of their farm to expanding it in a new way by shipping out. I liked how Mandy saw something unique and worked until she made a new color breed of flower. My big take away was at the end of the interview and the well spoken advice to those of us still figuring it all out. I like him saying you needed to be grounded in who you are to ground your business. Know what your goals are and reevaluate every year. I appreciate the flower community. There is something about flowers that draws our hearts in especially in the seasons we do desperately need beauty.

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  426. Stephanie J Hoyt on

    I love the candor of these words and found myself thinking how well they apply beyond flower farming—to business building in general and just plain life in general. My favorite part was how he shared the difference between tenacity and stubbornness and knowing which one you’re exhibiting. Wise words!

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  427. Lisa S. on

    In an upending global world this story is beyond inspiring. Thank you Steve and Mandy for what you have done, what you are doing and what you will do in the future…

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  428. K Hanrahan on

    So much personality shines through in this interview, I loved the full of heart filled stories and their strident energy and persistence during all the years gone by.

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  429. Jamie on

    I love hearing firsthand about the trials and successes of family run businesses. Thank you for sharing!

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  430. Kathryn Van Alstein on

    What a beautiful story about Mandy and Steve on their farming journey. They are an inspiration in this crazy world. My favorite part was about the Ms Marilyn flowers. It truly shows how things can bind history, people and land. They both seem to value everything in a throw away society. Thank you for telling that important and valuable story.

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  431. Barbara Gustafson on

    I loved the story about Marilyn and how she inspired the lavender Ms Marilyn flowers 😊❤️. It’s also wonderful reading about kind and thoughtful people who care about their workers, their customers and their planet.

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  432. Vanessa on

    The whole post was inspirational. I especially enjoyed the end where he talks about reevaluating your goals each season and each year. That can apply to all the areas of our lives. If we don’t reevaluate, we won’t progress.

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  433. Amy on

    What a lovely interview! I particularly appreciated the wisdom in how you approach team-building. As a leader in a totally different industry, I am surprised (and also not) by the parallels.

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  434. Joanne Guerin on

    I loved the flower arrangements. So flowing and natural. I also loved learning that mums can be a cutting flower .

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  435. Cathy Lear on

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and in the hearts of many that follow. Thank you for that path.

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  436. Teri on

    Be still my heart! The heirloom mums! I’m so glad they are being saved. I have always found they are such striking flowers when used correctly in arrangements. Such an amazing flower especially here in the south with our long summers and falls! Thank you for all the work you do in preserving these beauties and I love how they have gotten you through hard times.

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  437. Carissa on

    All of this is so great, I love your dedication to running a sustainable business! And oh did those popsicles look tasty!

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  438. Jan Cunningham on

    I have been following flower farmers for awhile now and Floret has brought so many levels of passion and knowledge to my gardening experience. I am retired resort garden manager, but will never retire from my own little magical cottage garden. I loved this interview because sharing organic, sustainable , kind and gorgeous practices enriches us all and supports a very fragile planet. Thank you got your time , experience and the love you sustain in conscience practices 🐝👩‍🌾🏡🌸💕🌷🪺🌼

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  439. Elyssa on

    Thank you so much for sharing all these stories! I had no idea the shipping business was born out of such a hard time and also out of such a big decision to lead with care and love. So many inspiring moments in the interview.

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  440. Carol Marshall on

    I love that he spoke of limitations as a positive thing.
    I’ll definitely check out his news letter and their plants!

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  441. D. Gencarello on

    Enjoyed the entire interview with this charming farming couple!
    A common thread throughout was their determination to succeed but willingness to pivot and adapt their expectations.

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  442. Jenny on

    What thoughtful questions and insights to all the flower questions we all have! I loved the shift from markets during the shutdown to still being able to brighten people’s day by sending bouquets to customers!! Thank you!

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  443. Jane A. on

    Just WOW! Incredible interview, incredible business, incredible flowers… but the people!! They are the WOW!

    Favorite part of this was the Covid story and how selflessness is what led to the transformation. “It was a hail Mary, and we had nothing to lose and everything to lose.” — a story that proves the magic of the universe. Thank you Floret & 3 Porch Farm for sharing!

    –Jane

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  444. Paula on

    I love his honesty about “listening to advice in the beginning” It was a great read, full of information and the loveliest photos of a farm & farmers doing things the right way.
    Hats off to you and Mandy & Steve.

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  445. Stephanie Mills on

    I loved hearing about how they are showing the growing world that it can be done profitably and organically at the same time

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  446. Nancy Engberg on

    The section on developing the farm from the place of scarcity spoke to me – so many great ideas come in times where you have to think outside the box because you don’t have the money or resources to just throw at a problem. You become so much more creative in those scarce times.

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  447. Constance Hansen on

    I am grateful for folks who conduct their lives, their businesses in a way that nurtures our planet rather than diminish it.

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  448. Alise on

    I immensely enjoyed reading your story. It is full of truth, dedication, innovation, and passion. There are many parts that are thought provoking; however, the most touching are those with the deepest, most personal human elements — caring for your dad and Ms. Marilyn. Beauty comes in many forms — from petals, to people. You have both.

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  449. Hannah Gilroy on

    Without hesitation, I copied and pasted straight into my notebook, “So the short answer is that you have to plow through it and take your licks up front in order to get a farm established, but the wise move is to find a way to blunt the sharpest edges of those realities however you can as your farm grows. That’s going to look different from one farm to the next, so remain as perceptive and flexible as you can while your farm grows. Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well.”

    “Learn the difference..” is exceptionally powerful and healthy dose of reality. This was a really incredible interview, Floret and 3Porch. You all blow me away with your ability to pivot under pressure, strike when the iron is hot, and defy what YOU thought was possible. I have immense respect for the journey and absolute grit 3 Porch’s Mandy and Steve have experienced. Bravo! I cannot wait to follow along in your newsletter for future endeavors.

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  450. Christy on

    WOW! How can I choose a favorite part! The whole interview was AMAZING!! I live just over an hour away from their farm and I’m going to have to go visit it SOON!! I mean the picture of the flowers and their little shop!! I love Spring and when it’s time for the flowers and vegetables start growing I want to do a happy dance!!

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  451. Maialisa Vanyo on

    The shared responsibility between Steve and Mandy is what stood out to me. Their care and respect for the earth with their environmentally responsible farming but also the care they have taken over the years to balance and adjust their work to make it possible for them to continue, grow and thrive. Just a wonderful love story in so many ways.

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  452. Cynthia Wright on

    Not a ‘farmer’ myself, really just trying to manage my small garden in the city, I’m fascinated about the pivots that Steve described over the time they have been farming. It makes total sense as I read it-I just never thought about it before. And, likely the most intense pivot when the pandemic hit at the same time as Mandy left to take care of her father. So much grace in how that was handled overall, and the growth that came from it.
    Great interview/article-thank you!

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  453. Barbara on

    Parts of the interview had my eyes “leaking” as when Mandy headed off to care for her father and Steve took on the responsibility of manning the farm in her absence…such a show of solidarity and love and family. I could also just about picture Ms Marilyn, the beloved aunt and now having the forget me nots as a perennial tie to the past is such a wonderful legacy. Such a heartwarming share; thank you. Sharing plants and having shared plants from friends and family’s gardens are such a wonderful way of connecting.

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  454. Margaret on

    I love that Mandy noticed the lavender colored forget-me-not. Then in the midst of all the busyness, she decided to save the seeds. It is such a simple action to take during the press of more demanding work. It has inspired me to stop when something unique catches my eye and to try to continue its life cycle.

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  455. Sheila on

    Reading this insightful interview, with all the wisdom, beauty, love and joy conveyed by story-telling and photos, was a moving and fulfilling experience. As I basked in the story, it brought to mind a little book my aunt, a musician and poet, sent to us when my boys were little. It was about a family of mice who were busy gatherings stores for their winter survival. One little mouse, instead of rushing to gather, spent a great deal of time studying the meadows, other creatures, bathing in the warm sunshine, etc. He was greatly criticized by his family as being lazy and foolish, but then in the ensuing dark winter months, as they huddled in their nest, he told stories about the meadow creatures, described the warm sunshine and fed the family with inspiration, which they then appreciated. We have such need of not just industry, but of thoughtful story-telling and life’s enriching poetry. This family and business embody the best of both. Thank you!

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  456. Dawn Pope on

    My favorite part of the interview is learning how they had to pivot their business focus during family crisis and the pandemic that shutdown many businesses and crushed dreams. Instead of defeat, they were inspired to push forward, find away, make it happen to provide a living for themselves and then eventually their employees. You know the saying…”When one door closes another one opens.” In this case, many doors opened. Well done!

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  457. Jana on

    The story of Ms. Marilyn was my favorite. What a lovely tribute to a beloved family member. The whole interview was informative, honest, and inspiring.

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  458. Holly Hagy on

    Beautiful stories and such a sustainable business!!! Loved all of this…I hope to get some Ms Marilyn seeds… beautiful flower

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  459. Cathy S Dickinson on

    The advice of a lifetime. Quoting Steve “pivot in response to obstacles. Obstacles can be your best teachers if you let them”. Note to self: please apply this to all aspects of life, not just gardening ☺️ Loved the interview and the conversation, thank you for sharing!

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  460. Jane Aalderks on

    I thoroughly enjoyed reading the entire interview. But you did strike a chord when you wrote about Mandy helping her father with his illness during the pandemic. My husband was diagnosed with multiple myeloma at the beginning of covid. As you stated, priorities change with this diagnosis. Our family and neighbors finished our harvest for us. (We’re farmers – corn and soybeans in MN). We needed to isolate as much as possible during covid because of his weakened immune system. Thankfully after a stem cell transplant he is in remission. One outlet for me during his illness was working in my flower and vegetable gardens. It’s very peaceful and soothing – always full of promise and joy. Every year is a new beginning – full of ideas and plans to improve my gardens. A creek cuts through the center of our farm. I listen to the creek while weeding and also enjoy watching the deer, turkey, and numerous other wildlife. It truly is a little bit of heaven.

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  461. Tracey Belser on

    You can certainly tell they are full of love and perseverance! Great people and great flowers. Thanks for sharing their story with us.

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  462. Dorcie on

    Great interview! The strength, warmth, kindness, and resiliency that is shown of Steve and Mandy is a model for us all. In addition, they grow beautiful flowers too! Thank you for sharing.

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  463. Christine on

    What a wonderful interview – real, human, hard and inspiring in all the right ways. So many great bits – the sustainability, commitment to employees and the earth. Right on… but my favorite bit is the Ms. Marylin story and am happy to have her in my garden and will share this story with the flowers.

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  464. Ruth on

    “A newsletter…can’t be a blatant attempt to beg for sales constantly or it’s a turnoff. It’s like any other relationship. It has to go both ways for it to be successful.” I absolutely love reading stories like this. Just so much good here. As always, thanks for sharing…it’s always beautiful and helpful!

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  465. Christine on

    I don’t read many blogs, in fact just Floret, but this interview made me subscribe to theirs also. Their ethical treatment of the earth and their team reminds me there are good people doing good things. My favorite part of the interview was the story about Ms Marilyn and how her memory is carried on by sharing the joyful lavender flowers around the world. I teared up. Thank you.

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  466. Madilyn Boostrom on

    Whew! What an arduous but rewarding journey…analagous to nature’s daily challenges!!! Was it the beauty of the floral prize that kept you in the game?

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  467. Lynn M on

    My favorite part is the humility in the dream for life lessons and peace of mind. Great storytelling and just signed up for the blog to read more. I’m in Canada but have a niece in Florida. Thanks Floret for this lovely introduction.

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  468. Rebecca Kitzmiller on

    What a lovely interview. I respect the honest insight into the world of flower farming. Mostly the crisis moment of a loved one being ill and making a deliberate choice resonates deeply with me. Even as I was reading, I sensed how life changing this was for work and personal living. I am thankful for you including this aspect of your story and the honest reflection. I cheer you on!

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  469. Megan Ellis on

    What a kind, thoughtful interview. Love to hear farming success stories.

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  470. Pamela Burke on

    What a beautiful story. I am taken by your ingenuity, gratitude and community . Such beauty you have created

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  471. Cherry on

    Every time I get their newsletter I am impressed with the writing. They make me fall in love with their little farm and your article has done the same. The story of Mandy’s father, the story of Miss Marilyn, the way the pictures on their website show off their team – all shows love for people. They are kindness in action.

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  472. Lisa Meacham on

    Enjoyed the entire article. Trying to imagine working the required hours at the beginning of your endeavor was mind blowing. My favorite take away is just how much love and family/friends you have in this farming operation. What a true inspiration!!!

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  473. Robin Ylvisaker on

    I enjoyed reading about Steve’s approach to building and leading his team on the farm. How important hiring is but still being open to leaving room for cultural and personal differences.

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  474. Barbara Berger on

    I loved the story of how Mandy went to care for her Dad and Steve kept the farm going. So beautiful that a family illness led to a shift in the business model and kept the farm going. I sure hope Mandy’s Dad is doing well. What an uplifting story, I needed that this morning. I hope to visit the farm this spring, I live in SC not too far away from Comer.

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  475. Hayley on

    I loved learning about the story behind the Chinese forget-me-not named ‘Ms. Marilyn.’ What an incredible way to honor her and share her beautiful spirit with the world!

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  476. Barb on

    Reading this interview was a wonderful relaxing start to my day! I especially enjoyed learning of the many mum varieties I’d never heard of. Long stemmed mums? Can’t wait to find some seeds.

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  477. Loretta on

    Beautiful story! I love that their business model evolved in the face of taking care of her dad and was a good fit. What selfless, loving people they are! Thanks for sharing.

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  478. Melissa Renner on

    I feel happier, lighter and more peaceful just having read this interview. The beauty, kindness and compassion of Mandy and Steve and 3 Porch Farm shines through their storytelling. I am excited to have a new resource for growing flowers and one more counterweight to the heaviness of current times. Thank you for sharing this today!

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  479. Kelly on

    When Mandy and Steve built their seasonal farm store and described it as “…a dreamy little place filled with all sorts of warm, fuzzy vibes.” I think that same sentiment can be enlarged in scope to reflect all that they do and who they are❣️ Beautiful interview, Erin. Thank you for sharing. 🍃🌸🍃🌸🍃

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  480. Kenzie on

    Such an inspiring interview! Everything about it has my wheels turning. My favorite part about it is all the things I love about farming – adapting and changing every season.

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  481. Denise on

    Honestly all of it was a delight to read.

    “Recalibrate your personal goals, assess your individual strengths, revisit the big “Why” of it all, then rebuild the business outward from there. We do it every year.”

    This bit at the end will sit with me for a while. It’s so true, not only for flower farmers but for ALL businesses (I’m a photographer/artist and hobby dahlia home gardener).

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  482. Kristin Mitchell on

    I have hesitated to dive into Chrysanthemums for many years, because for some reason, they intimidate me! But, Mandy and Steve are such a gift in their willingness to share their experiences and their wins/loses that it gives me the confidence to finally try! I loved reading about Mandy leaving the farm to care for her father, and Steve keeping things running. It’s one of my biggest fears in flower farming – if not me, who? But, we need to trust that people have our back. That it will be OK, that we will find another way. Thank you for the great newsletter/interview, Erin!

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  483. Denise on

    Wow, how inspiring on all fronts!!
    Never before have I felt so drawn to a couple of people, their farm and their business! The connection of people awareness, farm sustainability
    and business prowess was like magic. New follower here, looking forward to hearing and leaning much more from them.

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  484. Dana Gore on

    A truly great interview! Taking care of a family member during Covid. The business pivot you took during Covid. Life lessons, sacrifices, over coming obstacles. Learning & sharing. The whole interview was a favorite! Please write a book Mandy & Steve. I will be signing up for Steve’s newsletter. Thank you Erin for sharing the interview in your newsletter.

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  485. Jackie on

    Truly grateful for the sacrifices they both were willing to make for each other and family during the pandemic and the needs of Mandy’s father. This is something we shall strive to be like, if at all possible. Thank you for sharing this story.

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  486. Janet on

    The entire interview was inspiring, but I especially loved that you named your forget-me-not after a special relative.

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  487. Iana CraneWing on

    I think what I appreciate most in this interview is how Steve kept returning to the idea that when difficulty arises, adapting to it brings unexpected innovation and resilience. I am so grateful also for their commitment to a low carbon footprint and keeping soil health at topmost importance along with kindness to community and employees. These values are so vital and to see folks loving them and finding a way to thrive while doing so is deeply insping!

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  488. Sandy McCarthy on

    Fantastic interview!!! I felt a part of the blood, sweat and tears as well as the elation of a huge job done extremely well!
    Yours is the kind of grass roots business that made America great and the work ethic, human kindness and joy in a job well done that would make America great again. Your story is as inspiring and beautiful as your bright and perky poppies!! I have long been a big fan of Floret and now of 3 Porch Farm🌸

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  489. Karen McKee on

    Wow ! Such an inspiring story. I especially loved hearing the back story of the Ms. Marilyn Forget Me Nots. I am lucky enough to have some of these seeds and look forward to seeing them bloom every year . Thank you Mandy and Steve for sharing their beauty with the world.

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  490. Meg King on

    The photos were gorgeous 🤗

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  491. Courtney on

    Wonderful post, thank you for sharing. I now want a whole field of Ms Marilyn dancing and laughing in their beauty. You two are an inspiration.

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  492. Synthia Baynes on

    Love love love is what I got from the interview, he loved mandy so much that he worked day and night so she could care for her father. Its what marriage is all about x

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  493. Sharon Sams on

    That story was so inspiring in so many ways. The resilience, willingness to try new things, but also the heart and morals of Steve and Mandy are so encouraging and heartwarming. Thank you for this wonderful story. I will start following them.

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  494. Kristi Carpenter on

    Beautiful and so inspiring. My seeds from you are growing and I can’t wait to see them bloom! So fun!

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  495. Amy on

    I screen shot their goals for working with staff because they perfectly align with my views as a manager at a small nursery/garden center. I truly believe in creating kindness and mutual respect in our own little corners of the world.

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  496. Lily G on

    Wow! I was so touch by Mandy’s care for her father and how you worked tirelessly to run (in both senses of the word) the farm. Also love the mindset of running your corner of the world the way you wish it was!

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  497. Lindalu Meadows on

    Mandy and Steve are yet another example of
    So many young couples being inspired by going back to the land and creating something “for the good of all concerned”. The high regard for their workers inspires me greatly. I’m only 83 years old, but when I grow up…
    I want to be just like Steve and Mandy!
    Lindalu Meadows, Boulder Colorado

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  498. Melissa on

    Amazing! Such a great interview – so very inspiring. I loved ALL of it!!

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  499. Heidi on

    My favorite part of his story is how quickly they changed everything when carrying for her father, and how hard and they worked to pursue the change after years of creating their former and massive success. I am too rigid, I think. I must learn to pivot for the greater good and to stay true to principles. I am too scared to take risks. They are an inspiration in MANY ways to me. I needed to read this today. The Iceland Poppies will symbolize courage to me, to adapt with vigorous passion and discover blessings I could not have conceived of before.

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  500. Amber R on

    I love their mission of “Be happy by doing good“ and it seems they are fully embracing and living this mission in everything they do. Their focus on sustainability is a perfect example of “doing good” that translates directly into happiness.

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  501. Becky on

    What a great story! I do appreciate the humility and respect you have for nature and your plants but even more so for your family and employees! God bless & continued prosperity!

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  502. Sara Giswold on

    When my kids were growing up I used to advise them to “ take the disadvantage and turn it into an advantage “. I loved reading how Steve and Mindy chose to pivot and redefine their goals and energies, the changes from farmers market to mail order, growing mums instead of summer annuals, taking summer time off instead of working thru those scorching hot times, finding newsletters worked when social media demands became too overwhelming. They were so flexible and creative! And they are real in their resolve to save and be good stewards of our beautiful planet. What an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your story.

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  503. Stephanie on

    “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well.” WOW I love that so much. I need to teach that to my kids.

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  504. Janet Dillard on

    What a beautiful story and insight into the importance of doing things for the earth as well as for sustainability of a business. They have wonderful hearts and attitudes towards how to look for ways to move forward in a ways good for the land and the people involved. Thank you for sharing their story. It is inspirational and I will be checking out their website.

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  505. Amy on

    I loved Steve’s story of Marilyn. The kind of woman she was, the gifts and lessons she left behind, and Mandy’s time spent developing her namesake Forget Me Nots brought tears to my eyes.

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  506. Tess on

    “ You almost need an unrealistic belief in your ability to be successful in order to get started”. This is a powerful insight and a feeling I am trying to tap into to get started on my own growing journey. Mandy and Steve’s evolution is an incredible inspiration of what can be grown out of resilience, being open to learning, and giving back. Thanks for sharing!

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  507. Louisa Brand on

    Thank you so much for sharing this about 3 Porch Farm, as I did not know they were on Instagram, or that you could order from them. I am now following them on Instagram! ♥️

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  508. DeeAnn on

    Wow! Caring for the land and people and plants! So inspiring! The complete shift to care for family…the beautiful Ms Marilyn flower…thank you Erin and Chris and Mandy and Steve for making our world a better place!

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  509. Heather on

    What a beautiful interview. I’m so glad I took the time to read it.

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  510. Alice El-Hamaki on

    Creating a slice of world they wish they lived in… wow! Imagine if we all did that. But my favorite part is how they put people, including themselves eventually, ahead of profits. Quality of life, in every part of it, matters. It’s beautiful to see how they evaluated and adapted to ensure they preserve that.
    Great article. Thanks for sharing.

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  511. Dinelle Hunsberger on

    Love this post! So interesting reading about their processes and how they adapted during hard times. Honestly it says a-lot to me how you care for your employees. COVID was hard on everyone & paying them was a blessing for both them & you too. Good employees are hard to find but good employers are hard too.

    Love the story behind Ms Marilyn 💖.

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  512. Liza Hust on

    What a wonderful interview! My favorite part was the story of the “Ms. Marilyn” Chinese forget me not. What a beautiful tale for a beautiful flower! 💙

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  513. Chanda on

    Wow! What an interview. So much wisdom and life lessons. Thanks for sharing.

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  514. Annika McIntosh on

    Is all a journey! Inspiring to hear yours. Rough spots turn into fruitful pivots with the right attitude. Your big hearts, tenacity and ability to keep perspective really shine through in this interview.

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  515. Dona Warner on

    I enjoyed so much of this interview, but I was especially moved by how they approached building and maintaining their team. This applies across all types businesses and endeavors. The meticulous instruction, respect and kindness are core values that we desperately need to cultivate in our lives and in our communities. Steve and Mandy have produced a model for this that is both beautiful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing both the challenges and successful outcomes!

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  516. Renee Fisher on

    When talking about their environmentally-friendly approach on the farm, I loved Steve’s expression of changing their philosophy from “point and shoot to observe and adapt”. That phrase feels like a calming mantra for allowing Nature to handle a situation in which we sometimes are too quick to intervene.

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  517. Cheryl on

    What a great interview. I love the way they are so intentional with everything they do, from caring for their employees to a thoughtful newsletter. What a great example for all of us on how to run a business with integrity and love.

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  518. Cali Walters on

    What a great example of being willing to follow where the business takes you. We pour our hearts into our visions and then it takes on a life of its own. And Steve and Mandy did a fantastic job of following it along for the ride. I love where it’s taken them. What beautiful souls growing beautiful flowers.

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  519. Joan on

    What a wonderful story to read! I’m headed over to sign up for their newsletter now!

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  520. Lindsay Nolan on

    Wow! What a great interview and many helpful pieces of advice woven throughout.

    The most encouraging words were about building a business from a place of scarcity and being willing to pivot. As well as knowing the difference between stubbornness and tenacity.

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  521. B Davidson on

    I enjoyed reading about the way 3 Porch Farm pivoted their business model in response to the market AND their personal values and interests. I also appreciated the underscore at the end of the interview on the amount of work required to make flower farming profitable.

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  522. Katie on

    Mandy and Steve are the pathfinders for the future of domestic flowers and farming and just living a good, kind life. The ultimate power couple in love and in business, I admire their resilience, tenacity, and disposition. Thank you for sharing this great interview and thank you Mandy and Steve for setting such a powerful and inspiration example for us.

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  523. Danielle Armstrong on

    I wasn’t a big fan of mums until today – looks like I’ll be planting some soon! I appreciate 3 Porch Farm’s approach to building and training a team and the support this husband and wife have shown each other through tough times. I’m so glad to see they weathered the pandemic and came out stronger through their response and tenacity.

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  524. Rachael Perry on

    Such a wonderful interview!!! The part I loved most and brought a tear to my eye was about Mandy dropping everything to care for her dad! There is nothing more important than family and we all have a limited time. And kudos to Steve for carrying all the farm load during that time! A true love story!!!

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  525. Caroline K on

    I’m always in awe with the amount of work it takes to run a farm. Being a “city girl” living in Iowa, I’m surrounded by various farms in the state but don’t often appreciate what life on a farm is like. Especially one that is working to live earth friendly. I was most impressed by the care you gave your employees especially during hard times. That spoke volumes.

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  526. Debbie on

    Love the kindness mantra, as well as the resilience in your message. Good words for anyone wishing to grow =)

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  527. Holly Kerr on

    Ahhhh….perseverance prevails.
    Thank you for sharing.

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  528. Tracy Ruhs on

    I applaud the determination to keep going in the face of health challenges and a pandemic, and to come out with a better system after-Bravo!

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  529. Susan H on

    Thank you for sharing, what a story!

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  530. Anthony Grein on

    I saved this quote:

    “You almost need an unrealistic belief in your ability to be successful in order to get started, because a realistic understanding of the challenges would be enough to prevent most people from ever trying.” – Steve O’Shea – 3 Porch Farm

    That is so true. Goes with another quote I love, “you eat an elephant one bite at a time…”

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  531. Connie Gonzalez on

    Definitely a Labor of Love.. Greatly Appreciated Now..
    Thank You🌸🌼🌻🌷🪻🥀♥️

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  532. Abby Keith on

    Thanks for sharing! I’m a regular Notes from the Farm reader and look forward to Steve’s perspective and insights every Friday. Understanding the difference between tenacity and stubbornness is a skill set worth developing—such as great reminder!

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  533. Patti on

    Great read for someone just starting out! Liked hearing about all the pivots over the years.

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  534. Amy Puckett on

    Favorite part of the interview? Holy cow how about ALL of it! lol.
    So much beauty and depth- I loved it!
    As someone who is gathering as much info as to getting started on this flower growing process the overall message of being environmentally conscious, employee friendly and the design process, the soil, the environment, and all of that……. but also the phrase “ find a way to blunt the sharpest edges of your reality- every farm looks different AND tenacity is an ally stubbornness is not! Wow just wow! Those words and more will SO resonate with me in this upcoming season! Great interview! Oh and also I’ve already ordered my Dahlias from them and love reading their newsletters! So for the rambling on but I’m sure I will come back to this post many more times!

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  535. Rebecca Allen Lamptey on

    Such an inspiring interview – I might need to start growing Chrysanthemums now! Thank you, as always, for sharing!

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  536. Miriam Bonk on

    Your interview was so well thought out I can picture the evolution of Mandy and Steve’s journey from their dream of providing a wealth of delights at their local flower markets, through sustainable practices, to focusing on transitioning to an on line business due to the unforseen changes imposed by Covid and their personal challenges of caring for Mandy’s father. Its inspiring to see how they breached the storm to not only survive but how they creatively are thriving with their newer projects of seed propagation, the story of Ms. Marilyn being truly heartwarming. You brought the whole story together and gave us a vivid picture of lives well spent with inspiration to do the same.

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  537. Candace on

    What a beautiful interview and collection of photos. Thank you for being so generous with your time and insights, Steve! I particularly loved the story of Ms Marilyn. These cynoglossums have found a permanent place in my heart and on the farm, and knowing more about their namesake was so touching.

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  538. Patti Joyner on

    So many life lessons to learn from this interview….no matter what you have chosen to do in your life. The most meaningful one? There is magic in the struggle. Obstacles can be a gift. Don’t let them discourage you.

    Thank you! Now, I think I’ll will go dig in the dirt some.

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  539. Cynthia Johnson on

    I appreciated reading the story of 3 Porch Farms. It was calming for me to follow your journey through the questions and answers. I could feel the sincerity in both. Thank you for the details of what it took to respond to the challenges life and farming brought to you. I’m in awe at how God used them to create a better flow of operations for you, that benefited you and other organic growers. That’s a divine impact that you couldn’t have imagined with all that you all were managing. It’s encouraging. Thank you again.😊

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  540. Tammy L. on

    There is so much hard work and sacrifice that goes into the flower growing process, but it is all worth it! Can’t imagine a life without flowers!

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  541. Lea on

    I enjoyed learning about this remarkable business. Thank you for an insightful look at their business model and devotion to their farm business, their principles, and their approach to working with their employees. I especially appreciate the tenacity it took to caregive for an ill parent while trying to navigate the Covid impact on their farm and market.

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  542. Eva on

    This is such a great interview— very inspiring. My favorite part was Steve’s description of how hard they worked to successfully— but extremely laboriously— change their business dramatically when they experienced such wild challenges. And how they’ve gotten away from doing farmers markets and yet remained super successful.

    Thank you for sharing this! The reminder that each season requires careful self examination and consideration, to keep your business going where you need it to, is valuable.

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  543. Carol Doherty on

    The mums have it! I bought my first chrysanthemum from a local conservatory plant sale and have been entranced with their beauty ever since. It made me absolutely giddy when I saw them start each year and could look forward to what was the end of the flower season in Washington but was the peak of the chrysanthemums blooms. I have relocated to Utah and dug out my mums to bring here and guess what? They are leafing out and ready for a new season with a whole new climate! Just like us, they are adapting and thriving. Cheers to another year of glorious blooms to share and admire!

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  544. Roynan Jones on

    The interview was informative, inspiring and entertaining to read. I was drawn to read the interview in hopes of gaining some tips and insights but was held by the personal aspects Steve was willing to share. I had to reread it as I was caught up in the emotional side and missed some of the “technical” insights. Thank you for sharing.

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  545. Ada Fisher on

    Very inspiring ! I loved all the encouragement you gave in hanging in there especially in hard times

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  546. Kathleen on

    This interview was so full of love- love for family, the farm and everyone involved with it, and for each other. What a beautiful story, thank so much for sharing.

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  547. Anna on

    Love the photographs of all the flowers and their farm/work!

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  548. Shu-Jean on

    Resilience in the face of adversity. I’ve bought flower starts from their website but didn’t realize how the website came to be. What an inspiring story. :)

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  549. Becca on

    My favorite part of this interview was how much he gushed on his wife!! You can tell he just thinks the world of her. It’s also refreshing to hear that you have a successful business without relying on social media—a feat that seems impossible in today’s day.

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  550. Liz on

    I really enjoyed the ‘pivot’ to not doing summer flowers and markets – it can be hard to take that kind of a leap away from what you’ve always done – but the whole article is full of examples where that has happened – and each one has been a part of the journey to where they are now. Loved it!

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  551. Pearl on

    I so admire how every obstacle became an opportunity to recalibrate and find a better, greener way of doing things. The world changed with Covid, for better and worse, but your agency to make things work, get your flowers into peoples homes, and survive as a small farmer—wow. Truly impressive!

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  552. Dannah Stephens on

    Wow- I loved reading this interview, just as I enjoy and look forward to reading Steve’s newsletters each week and any article that pops in from Floret. As a beginner in growing flowers (right now as a home gardener, but with hopes to go beyond that someday), Steve’s discussion about their overarching theme of making a little slice of the world they wish they lived it resonates with me. Through many trials and perseverance and hard work, hand in hand with those you love and working alongside others, to make it to the end goal and see all the beauty that comes forth …. It isn’t just about the gorgeous gifts that the flowers themselves are. There is more of a wholeness in all of it – all of what comes from the entire process. Flower growers want beauty in this world and we want to share that beauty (whether in flowers or pieces of our personal stories!) because it is so very valuable and may just be the encouragement or lifting up that someone needed for the day. And who doesn’t need a little of that? :)

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  553. Pearl on

    I so admire how every obstacle became an opportunity to recalibrate and find a better, greener way of doing things. The world change with Covid, for better and worse, but your agency to make things work and survive as a small farmer—wow. Truly impressive!

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  554. Christie Thomas on

    Thank you, Erin for sharing the interview and to 3-porch farm for sharing. I needed to hear so much that it’s ok to pivot and rethink things each season. For some reason, I’ve felt flaky or like I’m doing something wrong as we have been leaning towards changing how we do things! Thank you for providing the “permission” 🩷 Sure hope you’ll be able to ship your Mum’s to CA someday. They are my favorite flower to grow! In the meantime, I just ordered some seeds! Thank you to both Floret and 3-porch for putting all this goodness out into the world for the rest of us to be able to continue to learn and be inspired! 🩷

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  555. Nancy R on

    Wow this was a heart-felt story about your experiences with your farm and business. You all are amazing, I have to say. My favorite and special moment was when Mandy could leave and take care of her dad full time while Steve kept the farm going. Mandy was focused on “life of a human being”, her precious dad while Steve, her precious husband took over the farm without complaining of worry Mandy about their farm ( so she could focus on her dad). How precious and loving this couple is! You both work so well together and taking care of the environment! Thank so much for sharing your story.

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  556. Zack on

    Inspiring to say the least! Taking notes for my future flower farm. Thank you!

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  557. Madeline H on

    Loved reading about Ms Marilyn, now that I’m working to fill my yard with beautiful things I’ll have to stop by the farm store and get some more seeds.

    I had been working plant sales for a couple years and then markets (it was always a delight being the booth at the market all the children knew they could get popsicles from, fond memories of dealing smiles and flowers with Rachel every Saturday), and I remember Steve emailing us about pausing when covid hit. It feels like a lifetime ago but I can’t believe it’s already been 6 years. Love you Steve and Mandy dearly xoxo

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  558. Stephanie Alsup on

    I am always amazed at the work that goes in to creating beautiful flowers. There is nothing better than buying flowers from a farm that infuses them with love. Truly a blessing!🌺

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  559. Kiley on

    I’ve read a lot of interviews with 3 Porch Farm and this was by far the best one. I learned so many new things about their journey and the why’s behind their farm. They’re an inspiration.

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  560. Kelley Mendenhall on

    You’re right! This was a great interview. Just hearing about their first iteration of their business was exhausting and inspirational and learning about Mandy’s dad made my heart break, and then the pivot due to COVID and and worrying about employees and my child has been taught to add Ms to her elders names, okay, okay okay, I really enjoyed every square inch of this interview/conversation. Just one more thing, I was very interested in hearing about practices in Holland. Makes me wonder what or if they have the same practices in South America or Africa? My curiosity has been piqued.

    Fine, enough is enough!
    Thank you so much,
    Kelley Mendenhall

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  561. Arvilla on

    I love the grit and willingness to shift that helped them get thru very difficult times, dealing with sudden and completely unpredictable life changes.

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  562. Liz Francis on

    The hard work dedication and commitment described here in organic flower farming is inspiring not just in the realm of gardening but in whatever the life pursuit chosen. To accomplish excellence and a job well done!

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  563. Meredith on

    This is an incredible story! I’ve always dreamt of starting a cut flower garden, a dream Floret has helped fuel even more. To hear of other small growers across our country in small towns is so fun. Their trip to Holland sounded magical – one day I hope to see the blooms there too!

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  564. Apryl Harbaugh on

    The interview was lovely! I really enjoyed the story of Ms. Marilyn and her seeds. It’s a beautiful legacy.

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  565. Deanna Nihill on

    I loved hearing about Mandy’s commitment to her dad and how she put caring for him above her work on the farm. That says so much about her.

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  566. Kelly Ohly on

    “Be happy by doing good”. What a beautiful, simple, yet profound mission to live by.

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  567. Jan Burgett on

    This interview filled my heart! Learning of people living their lives so authentically is inspiring especially when news seems bleak. Great reminder to impact what we can in our lives. I loved the entire interview! I’m excited to visit their website and sign up for their newsletter.

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  568. Chris on

    The evolution of the farm and business through the years and covid was inspiring. A huge pivot, a huge risk, a huge amount of work, and unbelievable perseverance.

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  569. April A. on

    I enjoyed your story and your commitment to, “Be happy doing good” to create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in. So much wisdom in those values. Thank you for sharing!

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  570. Lisa on

    I am a home gardener and although I do not aspire to have a flower farm, I found the advice and take away from his writing applies to life in general, not just flower farms. He has a great gift of communication and a beautiful style of writing that is relatable and inspiring to all who read it.
    The “long” article was so well written it was easily absorbed , yet settled in for a lifetime. I would encourage him to write a book and include their lovely floral photos.
    Thank you for sharing 3 Porch Farms with us. Floret is just as generous.

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  571. Ruth Flemming on

    Your “Collective resilience” is what stood out to me. You’ve held on and kept on working to share to world your love of flower farming. Thank you!

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  572. Rachel Householder on

    Mandy and Steve,
    What a beautiful story of resilience. Thank you for staying true to your convictions- finding ways to bring kindness to the world and to your workers. I love that throughout the whole interview not only did I hear the love of the beauty of flowers, but that you see beauty in your people, your family, and in caring for our world. I love that you have challenged yourselves to grow organically and ship things sustainable. I grew up in Ecuador- so I have always loved flowers. Roses were everywhere. But I also recognize the long term effects of many of those practices that end up harming the growers. I hope that what you have learned can be a catalyst for other growers.

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  573. Courtney on

    My favorite part of the interview was the story of Ms. Marilyn. It’s so touching and also interesting to me to see a common thread that connects us to our loved ones – especially those who are no longer with us – through their favorite flowers. My father lovingly removed his father’s favorite rose bush and planted it at his own home where he’s tended to it for over 30 years. When his favorite aunt passed some years later (who happened to be his father’s sister) he was able to get some of her prized lilies to add to his garden as well. There’s something sacred in nurturing a loved one’s flowers after they are gone. It’s as if you get to spend time with a piece of their soul out in the garden.

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  574. Donna on

    “Allowing the obstacles teach you” is a good life lesson that the interview clearly teaches. Such a great success story. Thanks for sharing!!

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  575. Cherry on

    Loved reading how ya’ll prioritize personal things in your life and not letting work take over and run you over! Thanks for sharing! :)

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  576. Ali on

    I love everything about this interveiw! Vehicles running on veg. oil, carbon neuteral footprint, the care they show employees all the things I want in my world as well. It gives me hope in these uncertain times and inspires me to work on my own slice of world. If I had to pick a favorite part is would be the story of Ms Marilyn and her namesake flower, a beautiful tribute!

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  577. Bridget on

    There is so much wisdom and kindness in this interview. I loved the story about caring for her father and how you pay and respect your team. Thank you !

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  578. Heidi Klammer on

    I absolutely loved their personal caregiving choice. That is one of the hardest but best jobs to do in one’s life. It gives and takes so much. It teaches resilience and connects you to your loved ones and your history and will forever be part of how you live. Thank you for sharing with us that sacrificial journey.
    I also was happy to hear about mums! I want to get some growing here!

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  579. Rochelle on

    The resiliency to continue on, try new farming endeavors, and rethinking strategies to get flowers stood out to me. So many times in their story, I think so many people may have felt like it was a sign to give up – but their perseverance and continued ingenuity is something I wish we could all have more of. My favorite part was reading about their connectedness to the community and how after transitioning to shipping flowers, they noticed other small local growers flourishing. What a beautiful sentiment – to care about your community so deeply that they could see the impact they had and how that change actually benefited others.

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  580. MaryAnne on

    I often think we are never going to make it, that we must be crazy, that we are too old. Your interview brought tears and encouragement. We are 68. Should we stop? A family member needed you. Did you quit? No. I loved how that event actually made you stronger. And I appreciated how not competing with other organic farmers contributed to your success. (I actually purchased some of your mums a couple of years ago through Bailey. They were gorgeous.) Thank you for sharing your story.

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  581. Donna on

    Such a great interview! I love the mission “Be happy by doing good”. It is evident through-out everything this business does. Great photos, gorgeous plants, interesting story, and downright decent people. Makes me want to support this business and ethos too.

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  582. Mary Myers on

    Steve and Mandy’s story is full of dedication, heart, integrity, resilience, and above all, adaptability as they navigated life’s challenges. My favorite part is how they turned the crisis of COVID into an opportunity, reshaping their business model to fit their family’s needs and, in the process, unlocking new possibilities. It’s a wonderful tale of love, hard work, and the success of a beautiful business.

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  583. Mary Jorgensen on

    This was an exceptionally interesting interview with such helpful information. I love that they are ‘blooming where they are planted’ and the reminder that every farmer has difficulties, especially with weather. But my favorite part was that darling little garden store…..so inviting!

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  584. Jen Ihrig on

    I just recently discovered 3 Porch Farm since moving to GA. I’ve been digging through their past blogs and devouring everything they’ve written. I love seeing their emails in my inbox. I’ll be going to explore their cute little market now that’s it’s open for the season!

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  585. Katherine Read on

    Loved your words, “So many of our best decisions were pivots in response to obstacles that seemed devastating at first glance. Those obstacles can be your best teachers if you let them.” If….. So true to all aspects of our lives. Thank you

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  586. Janet Selzer on

    The covid and family crisis situation really spoke to me as the dedication to family and your livelihood were on the line. Your family kept going among these insurmountable and unplanned obstacles. So appreciate your genuine sharing of your story; both the beginning of your farm and progress. What a journey! This is encouraging for the rest of us.

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  587. Ashlynd King on

    I’m commenting from North Mississippi — Columbus to be exact — and it was so lovely to read about work happening in the South East. The summers are absolutely brutal and I struggle in my own garden during that time, it was inspiring and refreshing to read about their summers off. Perhaps I’ll take a hint. Also, I’ve been way too scared to try dahlias in our climate, but this has given me some encouragement. Thank you for sharing!

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  588. Alison Trombley on

    What a great interview! Many struggles and trials with a beautiful ending! My husband and myself visit north Georgia and it is wonderful. I am sure that your business brings wonderful things to your area. Thank you!

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  589. Amy on

    The best part? Simply, the Heart

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  590. Pamm Brittain on

    Thank you so much for this beautiful story Erin… so many lovely people still on this planet to share the joy and love of mother nature. xx Pamm

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  591. Michelle Cloutier on

    “Revisit the big WHY of it all.”

    Those words are why I absolutely have to grow. For me, the WHY is the connection I feel. The soil, the seeds, the MIRACLES. Germination, growth, bugs, birds, wind, sky, life, death, renewal, the whole experience, for someone wired as I am – sharing the peace and healing and again, connection of growing with others is my WHY. Imperative to my life as food and water.

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  592. Elisabeth on

    So much of this really resonated with me. I grow cut flowers for fun on a small scale. Steve’s comment “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well” is brilliant. I’ve started using regenerative practices, so his whole take on that was great. I love his sum-up:
    “a change in philosophy, from point and shoot to observe and adapt”. I recently reluctantly recognized the truth in Briana Bosch’s new book that every caterpillar munching your plants is a future pollinator. Sigh. Put away the man-made chemicals and “observe and adapt. Thank you Erin and Steve.

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  593. Sara Keene on

    The final paragraph of this remarkable essay really resonated with me. So many of us forget to reflect on what is best for living a sustainable and wholly rewarding life when we are in the thick of a busy career.

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  594. Danielle K on

    I am a ICU nurse and reading how Mandy had to care for her father during the pandemic was very moving. I started my urban backyard garden oasis during that time and the beauty of it still brings so much joy! Running a full scale operation is SO much work and I have so much appreciation reading about both of your journeys!

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  595. Lori on

    I love reading about reinvention stories. I’m in the middle of one now, and I enjoy reading what others were thinking/doing as they transitioned because of something unexpected (or even expected) going on in their lives.

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  596. Laura on

    This was such an inspiring interview. As an aspiring flower farmer in Middle Georgia I love reading the success stories of other southern farmers. I really loved the story of Ms Marilyn. It is such a beautiful flower! Also the amount of dedication Mandy and Steve put in to caring for her father and keeping the farm going through lockdown is amazing!

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  597. Candace on

    Such hard work with a smile! beautiful flowers!

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  598. Dianne Schmidgall on

    Their interview is refreshing! A well done story of honesty & their love for flowers! Thank you!

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  599. Rhonda Tapply on

    Steve and Mandy have created a wonderful life. Loving and caring for family, friends and their employees. Growing beautiful flowers and sharing them with the world. As I was reading the interview, there was one paragraph that really stuck me. There are many things that I have accomplished in my life only through hard work. At the time I did not appreciate that limitations in resources could be helpful. Obstacles were devastating. At the time they were road blocks. Looking in the rear view mirror, those obstacles were my best teachers. Thank you so much for sharing.

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  600. Maura Balog on

    I LOVED your story about your “Ms Marilyn” forget me nots! I ordered those seeds from 3 Porch Farm (and have them in a winter sown milk jug in upstate NY (zone 5b) right now, as my traditional forget me nots grow well, by reseeding! I look forward to seeing their little lavender blooms (any shade of purple or blue is a favorite of mine in the garden!) and I will smile as I think of the story of their namesake!

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  601. Hannah Brown on

    This is a wonderful interview and a really FUN read.
    I laughed out loud when you asked what advice they wished they could’ve had in the beginning, to which they replied they don’t know what anyone would have told them that they would have actually listened to.
    I felt a little bit of excitement to hear their advice, and then laughed out loud because I’m the same way. Sometimes you have to learn by doing it yourself and making your own mistakes!
    Thank you to three porch farms and for taking the time to give this lovely interview.

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  602. Amy M. on

    What a wonderful interview full of information about how Tom and Mandy started their farm. So inspiring!! I recently retired as a public school teacher and work part-time. I’ve collected my seeds and have been planning my small small cut flower garden. Now I need to get those Ms. Marilyn seeds to add to my garden. I also need to find some mums to add since I am in Zone6b. Thank you for sharing your wealth of knowledge with us!! I am also a solar-powered believer!! We are the first in our small area to get solar and shared the benefits of doing such with our neighbors. I cannot wait to read the newsletter!!

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  603. Kimerly Felger on

    I loved hearing about Mandy’s care of her father. Everyone being able to reshift priorities to care for someone in need…Lessons taught and lessons learned during COVID have been so powerful and have made me refocus my attention to life and beauty. I’m fascinated and drawn to those who have gone through great sacrifice in pursuit of these things. Thank you so very much for the sharing!

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  604. Stephanie Merrett on

    The way you’ve evolved… amazing. I hope others out there are able to read this and change their ways towards a more organic, globally friendly way of living. My eight year old son’s first flowers from seeds were chrysanthemums. 💕

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  605. Kathleen Miller on

    When frustrated take a step back and look at what you could’ve done better. Instructions and guidance needed to be clear. Working together as a team.

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  606. Janis Haley on

    I loved that when things started looking bleak (the shutdown) you dug deep and took an even bigger risk to start your mail order business. Most people would have given up and blamed the economy or the universe. It took a lot of courage and I’m so glad you have been rewarded. Keep up the good work!

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  607. Christine Pritchard on

    What a beautiful way to live. The flowers are gorgeous! Chrysanthemums are so beautiful. You are living your dream life with a conscience, being good stewards of the land you own. Wonderful interview!

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  608. Susan Umberger on

    My favorite part of this story is how, through patience, resilience, and love, a caregiver and a daughter were stronger. This is forging in fire.

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  609. Suzanne on

    The determination and ingenuity described here is palpable, right alongside the love of flowers. I especially enjoyed the forget-me-not story!

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  610. Pamela Clark on

    Incredible article that has inspired me to add more cut flowers to my pick your own berry farm, The Berry Farm, LLC, in western NC. Thanks for the beautiful inspiration! I will be following your adventures!😃🌷😃

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  611. Michelle Moore on

    This is a wonderful story to read with my cup of coffee. You truly have to respect the commitment and hard work that has been put into building this business. I am a flower nut and have just started cleaning up and ripping out a large portion of my garden to refresh perennials that over just over spent through the years. It’s a lot of work but so rewarding when all the colors start to pop. Wish this farm was in Maryland, I sure would love to visit it.

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  612. Katie S on

    “I don’t know what anyone could have told us … at least that we would’ve listened to.” Aint it the truth! There’s a line from a relatively recent Disney sequel song that says, “…there’s only failing, then learning, then death.” While a bit morbid, perhaps, for a Disney flick, I actually quite enjoy the perspective and find myself telling my girls, “We fail, then we learn!” more often these days.

    I’ve just barely begun my first year intentionally growing a cut flower garden (after taking the Floret Farming Workshop this past winter, zone 6b) and while I am very excited to watch the flowers grow, I’m equally as excited, and curious, to see what grows and changes within myself.

    Thank you for sharing Mandy and Steve!

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  613. Karen Mason on

    I really love how real Steve was in this interview. As a new farmer remembering my why is super important. I also appreciate the honesty in this story about how changing a direction can be beneficial and turn out better than what you thought it would. I like the growth mindset he shares. I do find a lot of inspiration here for my future.

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  614. Reb on

    Heart-opening to read about the evolution of 3 Porch Farm. Especially all the careful tending on all fronts during lockdown.

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  615. Toni Owens on

    I enjoyed reading about the chrysanthemums. A flower I don’t really think about or gravitate towards but it really is beautiful and fun! I could imagine it in a fall or winter vase with the colors you described and now am looking forward to seeking those out!

    Also just love the care and intention. Thank you for growing beautiful things for people to enjoy!

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  616. Betsy Munk on

    My favorite takeaways from the interview: I greatly admire their respect for the earth, its creatures, and its processes. I am inspired to be the very best environmentally conscious gardener possible with my own organic gardening practices. I am reminded that every little bit of nature matters, and that, with some thought and effort, I can “create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in.”

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  617. Robin Holland on

    I’m so glad I read this.. my inbox is exploding every day and there is no shortage of important things to put my attention toward and I just gleaned so much inspiration and faith in humanity from this interview. I’ve been fans of Steve and Mandy for years (when the porch house was destroyed I felt so intensely sad for them —the record player 🥲) and of course I grow ms Marylin and have their hellebores punching through leaf residue and a dusting of snow as I type. We put solar in when Steve wrote about that. When they pivoted away from farmers markets during covid we took a chance too and transformed how we did business—(yes! The waste at market was too much to bear). There’s nothing I didn’t like about this interview but the piece about newsletter vs battling an algorithm combined with Steve’s rekindled love for guitar reminded me that I once loved writing… thanks for this start to my day.

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  618. Helen Standen on

    I purchased Ms Marilyn seeds from 3 Porch Farm several years ago, knowing the sweet story, so while re-reading it here left a lump in my throat, what struck me about this interview is the commitment to their employees, to their practice of looking inward first and asking how better education or communication might improve an employees production. Truly rare and inspiring.

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  619. kelly g on

    …”that takes time and experience”… reminds me to slow down and breath the present experience in deeply.

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  620. Laurie on

    Loved to learn of their tenacity over the years while sticking to their values. Kindness in this world is so important.

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  621. Dana on

    What a beautiful farm and story! It was a helpful reminder that the best farms start small and work with what they have and with lots of hard work can grow into something awesome!

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  622. Jennifer Lu’Becke on

    The story of ‘Ms.Marilyn’ had me teary! A sweet story and I had no idea when I grew her last year- the seeds and flowers are even more special now. Thank you for sharing.

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  623. Robin Curras on

    I am most impressed by the commitment to sustainability. At the end of the day, we have to live with ourselves and our decisions. Integrity is a beautiful thing! Peace, Robin

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  624. Donna Cochrac on

    This is such a beautiful story of dedication, resilience and partnership. God bless Steve for taking on ALL the responsibilities of the farm so Mandy could nurse her father during Covid. Their love shines brightly through that story. My favorite farming lesson from them is to annually evaluate the WHY of the whole enterprise. I farm for a nonprofit organization that provides food and flowers to an inner city neighborhood at affordable prices (or free if they can’t afford it). I have to weigh my desire to grow everything I love, which is just about everything, with the cost of growing and producing, so I don’t become an expense to the charity I work for. Thanks to 3 Porch and Floret for giving me encouragement and inspiration.

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  625. Kaela on

    How fun to read about their adventure in Holland as I sit on a train in Holland zipping by the beautiful spring fields in bloom!! Timing was sheer perfection. Thank you!

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  626. Meredith Brown on

    The support Steve gave Mandy when her father was ill was beautiful and incredible! Very heartwarming!!

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  627. Carol McCutcheon on

    I loved the part of how they care about the earth & are trying to not leave a carbon footprint. Also about Mandy caring for her Dad brought tears to my eyes & goosebumps to my arms. The love for her parent became number one.

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  628. Katie Schulze on

    Wow! I loved learning about their use of sustainable energy on the farm and to ignore what others are doing – follow your own beliefs and path.

    Also, the story of Ms Marilyn was beautiful. I only hope to leave my girls with some unique dahlia for us to share when I’m long gone.

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  629. Daisy on

    Great interview! Your journey in organic production, the reinvention of your business during COVID and work in establishing new varieties all makes for an uplifting and emotional story – and I’m here for it! Very, very inspiring and now I want to grow heirloom chrysanthemums and forget-me-nots in MY garden. Congratulations on your success 3 Porch Farm and thank you for your commitment to the environment!

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  630. Heather on

    I’ll now be following 3 Porch Farm! What a lovely interview.

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  631. Tammie Crouch on

    I thoroughly enjoyed the 3 Porch Farm interview, especially the tough times they endured during the Pandemic. The love shown by Mandy and Steve for their flower farm is heartwarming and truly inspiring.💕

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  632. Glenda Blomberg on

    I’m not sure I can carve a favorite,but it’s such a wonderful story about Ms. Marilyn. This is the best interview. Couldn’t stop reading. It’s amazing the tenacity and vision you are driven from and to all that you’re creating. It’s so fascinating to read. Thank you for sharing and I’ll certainly be following andxwatching for more developments from you a 3 Porch Farm.

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  633. Jessica Northen on

    Thanks for sharing the interview. Im a flower hobbyist who is a daughter of a small business owner, so learning about other small businesses is always a dive into the stories my father shared about having a business. There are common themes about taking good care of employees and knowing your direct community. Your back breaking work is paying off and your product is beautiful!

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  634. Gail on

    The story of Ms. Marilyn was so sweet. What a special way to honor a special woman. Her memory will live in in the gorgeous flower named in her honor.

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  635. Suzanne Cerrone on

    There was SO much to love in this post! Tenacity, resilience, kindness, thoughtful intention and so much LOVE. Love for the land, love for the Earth, for their employees, their family, for the world, and mostly for each other touched my heart deeply. I am inspired to work harder, think more strategically, thoughtfully and most importantly inspires me to love harder!
    Thank you for sharing.

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  636. Jan W on

    In the late seventies my husband and I started a cheese and gourmet shop with little money and virtually no prior retail experience. Reading about Steve and Mandy’s journey as their business has evolved brought back many memories of our own experiences. Resilience, patience with others, helping employees learn and grow … resonated throughout their story. Oh, and the hard, hard work!

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  637. Sherry Siebenaler on

    The best part of the interview, in my eyes – is someone stepping out and telling their story. Flower farming is not easy but, telling someone’s story is real and, it can be very grounding. I look forward to their newsletters and love the story about Ms. Marilyn. Something so beautiful that will last forever is a very special gift. Ms. Marilyn is growing in our grow room. Thank you to Mandy & Steve!!

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  638. Jenny on

    I so enjoyed hearing Mandy and Steve’s story from 3 Porch Farm. It’s hard for me to pick it was all so good. I do love a good story and this was packed full of golden nuggets of perseverance, grit and teamwork.

    I love the story behind Ms. Marilyn and the bond between Mandy and Ms. Marilyn over the years. Being a southern girl myself I’ll have to snatch up a pack of these beautys. Knowing the story behind it will make me smile and think of 3 Porch Farm and Ms. Marilyn every time they bloom.

    I also loved seeing the support and teamwork Mandy and Steve have for each other and their employees. Especially, during such hard times as when her dad was sick during Covid. It shows such encouragement to others hearing your story, how you both supported each other through such a hard time and where you are now because of it. How kindness and dedication does bring such good into the world. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

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  639. Tamara Hattery on

    Your mission statement, “Be happy by doing good”, love that!

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  640. Lainey Riebesehl on

    Needed to hear that “your limitations in resources can actually be helpful.” Beautiful flowers and advice!

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  641. Bev Hendry on

    Love the story behind the naming of the Ms Marilyn Forget Me Not! Also, just how clearly they shared the trials and challenges and their pivots and risk-taking! It’s not an easy business or hobby. Lovely interview!

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  642. Trisha Leslein on

    Oh I loved hearing about Ms. Marilyn, she is stunning! I love when a flower has a story, and what an AMAZING tribute. Thank you for such an uplifting interview this morning :)

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  643. Christine on

    I loved reading about the sustainability aspect. Really fascinating! I wish everyone would adopt their motto.

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  644. Mary Boettcher on

    “Recalibrate your personal goals, assess your individual strengths, revisit the big “Why” of it all.” So important to do throughout life.

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  645. Elizabeth on

    Delighted to read the story about Ms. Marilyn. Here in central Florida, Ms. Marilyn and several mums reside in my garden. Thank you!

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  646. Charlotte M. on

    What a great interview. I’m not sure if there is a part I could specify as a favorite. I loved the backstory of how they got to where they are today. The story of the Forget-Me-Nots made me tear up. So sweet, even though I think I heard it before in a Newsletter Steve wrote. I first discovered 3 Porch Farms when I was following Floret and Erin got a shipment of flowers which she shared on a video. I ordered a bunch for myself, because I lived in an apartment with no garden at that point. Two years later, I am living in a house with a yard and I am growing 3 Porch Farms heirloom mums and Floret Dahlias as part of my small personal garden. I am the only garden in my small neighborhood. I am hoping someone else will be inspired. Thank you for this great interview. Floret and 3 Porch Farms have change my life for the better.

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  647. Suzzelle Smith on

    My favorite part of this interview was to hear about a business that cares about their employees as much as Mandy and Steve. These days, compassion and inclusion in the work force seem like a fairy tale. It is heartening to know there are still people who put the well being of other people above profits. I also just love big pictures of armloads of flowers!

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  648. Diane on

    Mandy and Steve have a lot of good advice. It’s hard to pick one.
    “Your limitations in resources can actually be helpful. So many of our best decisions were pivots in response to obstacles that seemed devastating at first glance. Those obstacles can be your best teachers if you let them.”
    It doesn’t matter if I have a large scale farm or a small roadside stand, any business has its limitations. To be self aware and analyze those and pivot is great advice. To see the positive in the challenge is a great attitude and skill.
    Appreciate your transparency and all the good advice.
    Makes me wish I could pop into their store. For now, I will add them to my “want to go” places on my map.

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  649. Lori Merrill on

    I enjoyed every bit of it❤️the Ms Marilyn was my favorite!

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  650. Jessica Tuttle on

    I absolutely loved this blog post! What incredible adaptability of Mandy and Steve and how they’ve continually shaped 3 Porch Farm with both heart and purpose. I appreciate how deeply they prioritize a family-first approach, not just with their own loved ones but in the way they treat their team like extended family. I’ve been a customer for years but knowing how hard they fought and worked during their most trying times, to do what they do, is very special.

    The story of ‘Ms. Marilyn’ completely stole my heart. It’s such a beautiful, meaningful way to honor someone special, and I love how her legacy now blooms in gardens across the world. Thank you, Floret! Your post truly showcases the warmth, resilience, and values that make 3 Porch Farm so exceptional.

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  651. Lindsay Nedella on

    This was a wonderful interview! Authentic and inspiring – I wasn’t very familiar with 3 Porch Farm, but now I’m a lifelong fan.

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  652. Beccy on

    Hearing how the farm’s clear identity emerged out of hardship and limitations is helpful. I am on the struggle bus right now, still trying to figure out how to pivot and figure out my direction. So much encouragement. Thank you for sharing.

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  653. Kimberly on

    I loved this interview. Truly following their passion. It really hit me when they said: Time is flying by. We need to infuse some more good times into our remaining time. I have just realized that. For me, that will mean more garden time.😊

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  654. Brittany Rizzo on

    Beautiful!! The concept of “limitations drive resourcefulness” resonates with me. I always feel so limited in the garden with my time and energy, but it spurs creativity and presence or enjoyment of what’s at hand that is life giving! Thanks for sharing this article! 🤗

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  655. Marga on

    Very impressive to see Mandy and Steve’s devotion to their farm, the “never give up” attitude amidst all those difficulties, and especially their ability to navigate through the challenges of Covid, when so many businesses failed. Their constant evolution to success is a testament to hard work and the realities of running a farm.

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  656. Meredith Klamm on

    Wow! What a wonderful example Steve and Mandy are! I came from a small rural farming community myself , they are my kind of people! My favorite part of this story is “We always say that we’re trying to create a little slice of the world we wish we lived in.” I think of that when I leave the leaves in my garden, or remove the plastic labels from cardboard boxes before recycling … I think to myself, “The world would be a better place if everyone were doing this.”

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  657. Monica Djerassi on

    I love the advice- If you can’t ground yourself, you can’t ground your business. It’s so simple and yet so hard.
    I really enjoyed reading about the twists and the pivots to get where they are today. The flowers are beautiful and I love the hellebores and have a new appreciation for chrysanthemums.
    Thank you.

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  658. Sofi on

    I love that the interview sounded just like Steve’s newsletter. Authentic to the core. And that he took care to express his gratitude for Floret’s help and influence. I love when successful people remain grateful. Much respect to Steve and Mandy.

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  659. Amy VanderKooi on

    Such a great story all around but their strength and pivot thru Covid is amazing

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  660. Alaina R on

    I love hearing how you navigated Covid and transforming your business model: you have a positive perspective on something that was obviously very challenging.

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  661. Jean Berube on

    Wonderful post and a great way to start my day!

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  662. robin adkison on

    As a farmer, the description of forging a lifestyle resonated with me. We have had to pivot over and over again, just as in life, when we are brave enough to adapt and grow. Thank you for a lovely, authentic conversation.

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  663. Marie Gomez on

    The tenacity of continually showing up every day through all seasons,, doing the work even when it’s hard, and staying committed to what matters most. Hard work builds the future, and dedication to family gives it purpose. There.must be love to grow!
    A beautiful touching interview.

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  664. Beth on

    Heavenly. 3 Porch Farms is my idea of heaven hard work and all.

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  665. Lisa Kjaer on

    I loved Steve’s statement, “ Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not.” Going to have to needlepoint that one on a pillow!

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  666. Jessica Wielitzka on

    This was lovely, from the story of Ms.Marilyn to the chrysanthemums. I have 4 heirloom chrysanthemums ordered from them and I am so excited to add them into my garden this year. I especially love hearing the origins of names that breeders give to their plants, it makes such a personal connection and makes it an honor to grow those plants in my garden. It’s like being surrounded by a bunch of friends you’ve never met.

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  667. Grace F on

    Great advice for a newcomer in the flower farming community: “ So many of our best decisions were pivots in response to obstacles that seemed devastating at first glance. Those obstacles can be your best teachers if you let them.”.

    A total perspective shift that will stick with me for a good while. Thank you Steve!

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  668. LaDonna Alvarez on

    Wow. Loved hearing about your start and the roller coaster ride yal have had! From Mandy’s dad being sick and having to put your business on hold but giving your workers pto, to being the greenest in 47 states. I’m also super big on reduce reuse recycle so knowing yal were not only able to find success through scarcity but also able to say it truly is the better option 🙌🏼

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  669. Aida Arias on

    Love 3 Porch Farm here in Georgia. We have been lucky enough to visit their store two times, it is lovely. We grew beautiful vegetables and flowers from their plant starts. And their Newsletter is absolute poetry, a breath of fresh air in this day and age. Loved the >linterview.

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  670. Nancy Ferguson on

    I love that people come before the business, building a good team, caring for a sick father, it shows their hearts. I hope to live a life worthy of having a flower named after me.

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  671. Andrea B on

    What an inspiring story! Steve and Mandy are successful because they were able to maneuver through every challenge they encountered. Their ability to pivot and change course is applaudable. Who wouldn’t want to support a business that takes care of their people the same way they care for their family? They clearly know how to love and be loved. But, my biggest takeaway was a quote from Steve “we need to infuse some more good times into our remaining time”. Good advice!

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  672. Janet George on

    Thank you Erin for sharing this interview. I throughly enjoyed reading about how their business grew from growing, farmer’s markets to shipping and more. And also how they treat their employees like family.
    The best part for me is their mission statement. “Be happy by doing good.” That statement could apply to all parts of one’s life. I will remember this and will try to do something good everyday. If that leads to happiness I am all in.
    Thank you again for sharing.
    Janet George

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  673. Barbara Weaner on

    Thank you for sharing this thoughtful, generous and conscious interview with Steve. His and Mandy’s wisdom shines. They hold farm values, personal values and global values equally, and manifest them in real time.

    May their wisdom spread and inspire others.

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  674. Linda on

    Thank you for sharing this inspiring story.

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  675. katy Giffault on

    So many things were beautiful it’s hard to pick one. Maybe the commitment to parents, family, how they treat staff so authentically kind, … i want to live in this slice of their world!
    bless you for sharing,
    katy

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  676. Teri Mobley on

    Excellent! I’m such a novice gardener. Your interview gives me hope and desire to do more, especially growing poppies!

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  677. Gary Brown on

    What a beautiful story and the imagery was delightful. The best message to start my day. Very inspirational and heartwarming.

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  678. Pamela Richardson on

    One of the things I most enjoy about Floret is the selfless way you share your experiences and knowledge. and also the way the path evolves. And now another kindred spirit. I like the idea of bringing a life into the balance of one’s beliefs. My garden is for food and beauty. All of that I can share with my neighbors. I love your stories and they are a favorite when I open my emails. The best way to start the day.

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  679. Jennifer Toby on

    “Tenacity is an ally. Stubbornness is not. They can feel similar. Learn the difference internally and it will serve you well. “

    GREAT article with a wide application beyond flower farming. Thank you

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  680. mary deLaittre on

    I’ve been speaking with my 27 and 30 year old sons about leadership – the ‘how to build a small but mighty team’ was compelling because of the clarity and generosity the owners have toward their colleagues – communication, expectation and empowerment go a long way in building a kind – and loyal – workplace.

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  681. Liz on

    What a story of resilience and dedication! I think my favorite parts of their story is that they’re in it together…my husband passed three years ago…he wasn’t a gardener but would come out to it with a salt shaker asking..what’s ready? Maybe he knew how important it was for me to get my hands in the soil and watch the miracle of seed to harvest…so he let me have that time.
    Keep doing what you’re doing. It is making a difference!

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  682. Monica Bailey on

    I liked learning about where their business has started and how much it’s changed and evolved over the years into what it is now.

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  683. Kate Wallis on

    The willingness to risk it all to take care of your dad and to see the teamwork from your husband to make that decision possible!

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  684. Kim Mowers on

    A truly inspiring story that highlights the importance of family, resilience, and perseverance, all while building a business grounded in compassion and conscious of its lasting impact.

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  685. Luisa Ellis on

    Beautiful interview! So many great take-aways. I especially loved the encouragement to build a good brand—this idea that presentation is almost as important as quality and integrity. Thank you for sharing this!

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  686. Anne Owens on

    Steve and Mandy thank you for sharing your story of humble resiliency. The evolution of your farm and business is an inspiring story which reminds us all that it is possible to pivot and change when challenges present themselves. Being open to new discoveries and pathways helps create the beautiful in all of us.

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  687. Liz Cunningham on

    I enjoy reading about the lives and work of flower growers. It just makes me happy.

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  688. Joanne Hass on

    I loved the entire interview but the part about Mandy’s dad touched my heart and the Covid issues and saving the farm were awe inspiring. Through desperate times they managed to work through it all. Amazing.

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  689. Susie Jorgenson on

    I was so impressed with the beauty of your writing! ( a huge compliment). Beautiful! It reads like a good book. But then the honesty and wisdom that is shared is wonderful, and compliments on your sustainable energy second only to the beautiful flowers itself…which is what brought me to you in the first place.
    Thank you.
    Susie Jorgenson

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  690. Deb Houck on

    Such an amazing story of love perssevering, and beauty. Not only the love of flowers but the love of family & friends. What better way to show our love for one another & creation than to give a gift of flowers. Yall steal my heart!

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  691. Katie L on

    My favorite quote that I see in myself, “ You almost need an unrealistic belief in your ability to be successful in order to get started, because a realistic understanding of the challenges would be enough to prevent most people from ever trying.” I can’t tell you how many times people tell me it’s a lot of work, and last year I expanded my beds in a huge way, and made mistakes along the way, but the end vision was all I could see. Daily I ask myself, what can I get done? Because weather honestly will rip apart the best laid plans and rather than be devastated I pivot to a more weather appropriate to do item.

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  692. Lori on

    How devoted Mandy was to being her dad’s caregiver. I can relate as my business started in the same way with my dad’s illness.

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  693. Jess Curtis on

    Thank you so much for sharing this story with us. It was personal and honest, with a kind and positive tone – just wonderful. My favorite part of the interview, advice I’ll refer back to again and again is “ The best advice I’d give to the folks coming up behind us is to develop a practice of self-awareness at the personal level and at the business level. If you can’t ground yourself, you can’t ground your business. If you can’t see the terrain clearly, you can’t effectively navigate toward your goals.” Looking forward to their next newsletter.

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  694. Karen Turner on

    I loved the story of Ms. Marilyn and how her legacy lives on in many gardens. I’ve told my family that when I die, I want to be cremated and my ashes spread in my gardens 😁

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  695. Ashley on

    The story of Ms. Marilyn made me cry. What a beautiful bond.

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  696. Katie on

    I really learning about their farm but also the realistic expectations of owning a farm. That it’s hard work and to have a hopeful view starting because otherwise if you really knew how hard it would be you wouldn’t start. That resonated with me as someone you dreams of selling my own flowers, dreaming big and staying hopeful.

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  697. Mary Cassidy on

    Wow! What a story especially how you pivoted during Covid. It is so true that you need to constantly get reality checks on the market, your own strengths and weakness as well as always channeling your creativity. Best wishes for the farm to keep those stellar flowers continuing to bloom.

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  698. Brittany Anderson on

    I loved the stories behind the farm and how they pivoted to work around the straining times they faced during Covid.

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  699. Karen Burton on

    Fantastic interview! Great questions and heartfelt answers. I especially enjoyed your recall of the sudden change in course after Mandy’s father’s surgery at the beginning of Covid. Out of adversity came a new path. One which opened a new door 🥰.
    Also Ms. Marilyn and how it came to be…what a legacy she left you. I would love to order seeds for Ms. Marilyn and hope I don’t have to cross the pond to purchase 😉.
    Thank you for sharing the wonderful, inspiring interview! Much luck and love to fellow flower children☺️.

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  700. Nancy on

    Thank you, I so enjoyed the article.
    My favorite section was, “ A newsletter, though a marketing strategy, can’t be a blatant attempt to beg for sales constantly or it’s a turnoff. It’s like any other relationship. It has to go both ways for it to be successful.”
    Remembering that whenever we are communicating “It has to go both ways for it to be successful “

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  701. Lisa Vivian on

    My husband and I own a Microdairy in PA— in an effort to find some form of community in the isolation of small farming, I’ve clung to these stories and interviews with so much appreciation. I love these familiar tales of dedication to the land, to growth, production and small farming. Thanks for a beautiful story and picture of American small farm succcess! It sends hope and camaraderie to our 12 Jersey cow dairy.

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  702. Pam Flory on

    This was an inspiring interview, sharing stories of homegrown innovation and resilience. My favorite part of the post was kindness. It was specifically talked about in regards to creating a working environment centered around kindness, and I would argue the theme of kindness runs through 3 Porch Farm’s entire business ethos. Weather family, friends, coworkers, customers or the environment, Steve and Mandy have created a community grounded in kindness. Reading this post was the perfect way to start my day. Thanks for sharing….Pam

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  703. mary cooney on

    The story of Ms Marilyn .. the person and her flower was delightful

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  704. Mona Isaacs on

    Reading this was a lovely way to start my day in Minnesota. I grew up on a farm and I will always miss the early mornings and the satisfying, but hard, physical work. The good thing about living in a cold state though is the seasons, and getting downtime in winter when all we had to do was take care of animals.

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  705. Nicola on

    What a wonderful interview! I’m a long-time fan of Three Porch Farm and the poppies are my go-to gift, for friends or myself. I signed up in 2020 and had no idea it was such a trying time for them on the backend, but I’m grateful they made it through, and not surprised given the thoughtfulness with which they approach everything. The story behind Ms. Marilyn is really touching, and the name is absolutely perfect–I love the idea that the flower itself is carrying on her light. Lots to think about here, but mostly I’m left happy at how wonderful it is when someone works hard, does the right things, and is rewarded for it.

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  706. Julie Bowman on

    My favorite part of the article is Ms, Marilyn. She continues to be legendary through the beautiful blooms.

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  707. Cheryl on

    The article was eye opening to me. I had no idea about the southern growing seasons in the south being a Minnesota home gardener. Thank you for sharing!

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  708. Sandy Doyle on

    I love that 3 Porches’ business evolved successfully out of twists & turns that could have been considered roadblocks. Kindness, understanding and consideration of others is a hallmark that other business should emulate. I especially loved how Steve framed frustrations with performance as “review what you might have done better in your training instead of generating frustration toward your team.” Also, I want Ms. Marilyn to be a legacy in my garden – Forget-Me-Not.

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  709. Cheryl on

    What a lovely story. My favorite part was the love demonstrated as Mandy took the time to care for her father and the unexpected reward it created as the shift in the way they flowered occurred.
    The beauty they have created is truely inspiring

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  710. Martha Thompson on

    Thank you for sharing your passions and energies. Certainly the world is enriched from your efforts.

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  711. Christina Pfeiffer on

    I am awestruck but your grit, perseverance and hard work ethic in transitioning your business from farmers markets to online shipping. 2020 was an upheaval worldwide, but also struggling w cancer must have made it even more anxiety inducing. To go from full time farmer to full time caretaker, my hat is off to you. I have been a nurse since 2011 and the compassion required is immense. I’m so encouraged by your selfless sacrifice and how it rewarded you in the long run. I can’t wait to order from yall!! Thank you to Floret for the wonderful interview. Much love from Charleston SC!

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  712. Jim herzberg on

    My favorite part was how they learned how to take care of themselves and their team. Extended family over profit!

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  713. Jen Leitao on

    I loved this!!!! Their determination to keep things going when things got rough was amazing!! My favorite part was “If you can’t ground yourself, You can’t ground your business”. This is true in most aspects. You have to be grounded to see clearly!

    I am a small hobby grower, and I really appreciate all the insight!

    so, Thank You!!!

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  714. Christina Pfeiffer on

    I’ve been a nurse since 2011 and growing flowers is pretty new to me. But what I do understand well is how terrifying, earth shattering and dizzying cancer can be. I admire your compassion and ability to pause your dream to care for your father. What a true blessing you are and had been to him. What I find most awe inspiring is the fact that you had to transition from full time farmer to full time live in caretaker. What selfless sacrifice that truly rewarded you in time w him but also in a renewed and successful business model. Isn’t it mind blowing how resilience and true grit and perseverance can reward us emotionally and financially?? Bravo! On so many levels. Can’t wait to order from y’all. Thanks to Floret for this interview and exposure to this GA farm. Much love from. Charleston SC!!

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  715. Kathleen Heyward on

    Wow! What an inspirational article! I enjoyed every word. The resilience and hard work it takes to bring such joy and beauty into the world! Thank you!

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  716. Grace Mast on

    What an amazing story! Just loved how they learned to adapt their time and energies to what they could do. Thank you for taking time to share!

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  717. Andrea on

    I love Steve and Mandy’s priority in caring for Mandy’s father and the unexpected blessing of becoming a more online business.

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  718. Joy Anderson on

    I loved reading about Ms Marilyn- the Chinese forget me not- and the story behind it! Thanks for sharing.

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  719. Rebecca on

    The story of patiently working on a new colour for 5 years and then lovingly naming it after a special person in your life!

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